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ok its new and i turn it on and it just shuts off and its out of battery but when i plge in the battery! it turns on and shuts off!!! i need help!!!!

What cell phone company do you use? You need to either call them and let them know what's going on or go into a store. You can use google to look up the numbers. Just make sure your battery is charged and your charger is connecting into your phone properly. There could be various things that could be wrong with it, but since it's new, it shouldn't be anything serious. If you tried charging it and checked out your charger and it still isn't working, take it back to the store and talk to them about it.

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Alright, I wANT to date this kid we call him tj.
The only thing is i dont know how do get to know him better.
The only time i see him is in my MATH class.
i think we would be a couple cuz,we're both shy and im not that good looking and seeing his exes he has low standards. Really low standards.
sry didnt mean to be mean.
Well any advice would help
p.s just rembered he has lunch with me

What's wrong with talking to him during class and in lunch? You should just start random conversations. Ask him about school, what was for homework, stuff that happened in class, what he likes to do, etc. Try just being friends with him first. Start with casual conversations and go from there. You don't want to just start flirting with him because sometimes it scares guys off. Just try being his friend. Eventually when you talk for a bit, you can ask him to hang out. Maybe start by going on group dates and then depending on your feelings and his feelings, decide whether or not you want to go on regular dates.

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okay this guy that i really like, told me a while back that he had a gf but i thought he was sending me mixed signals...well today in class he was saying what he liked in a girl and i was sitting right next to him...(it was the assignment to talk about relationships) and everytime i was supposed to talk, the first time he swung his leg to hit mine...then the other times he moved his torso toward me and smiled and said its your turn...and the fourth time he did it i moved towards him...also i was trying to tell this girl a joke but he kept moving back and forth to where i couldnt see her...and he like would look at me when i was talking and smile...and when he looked at me he looked at my eyes...his pupils looked dialated...and i dont know if he looked at my mouth or not but he was focused on my eyes everytime i spoke...and he had his arm in front of me, and he was touching me the whole time and he kept on calling me blonde and loud..but he would laugh (basically saying it was funny)...

at first i was like oh my what just happened....but then as time drove on i was thinking what could he want me for he has a girlfriend i am probably just turning nothing into something....but he said if i needed anything to talk to him....

any ideas on all of this??

All guys are different. Some guys just like to flirt, girlfriend or not. Others just express their feelings in different ways. It does seem like he has some interest in you. Unfortunately, no one can probably tell how much except him. If he keeps this up, you should just flat out ask him. Yes, it may make you nervous or may become awkward at first, but that's probably better than curiosity. Obviously if he has a girlfriend he shouldn't be flirting. Give it time and see where things go. You'll be able to tell after awhile if he likes you or not.

-hope that helped!♥

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I have a really good guy friend... I'm female and he's 2 years older. We are both in high school. Anyway, I like him a lot... a lot. Actually I love him. 100% sure I love him, even if it is just as friends. Well, the problem is, I really want to go out with him, but he has a girlfriend. He was single when I met him though. He knew I liked him before he started dating her, but we didn't know each other very well then. His girlfriend is kinda mean to him, and I don't think she cares about him as much as she should. Maybe he doesn't tell her as much as he tells me, because if he did, she would have to love him more. So, at first I was happy for him, but then his girlfriend got bitchy towards me and his other friends. I don't think she's good enough for him. Now I'm going crazy seeing him with her and other girls. I want him to like me. I think I could have a chance, but I'm really shy and need to open up more. His girlfriend's good friend told me that she thinks they won't last much longer, and his girlfriend told me she thinks he likes me as more than a friend, but I don't think so. I really like him though and I want a chance with him. What I really need advice with is making him like me more. Ways to get close to him. Any advice you have would be good with this situation. I love him and everything he says he wants in a relationship I want to. Now don't forget I'm already really good friends with him. We hang out, and he comes to my house a lot. But I really want to get closer to him and let him know that I feel as strongly as I do. Another thing is, I always want to say "I love you" when he's about to leave or something, but I'm afraid he'll think it's weird or take it the wrong way, I mean, me and my friends do say that to each other, but would it be weird with him? Any advice on that would be helpful too. And, I always want to hug him, and sometimes he really needs a hug, but I think that might be weird for him too. Anyways to approach that? Thanks for any advice you give. Sorry it's long.

With this situation, I would suggest waiting until he breaks up with his girlfriend. Even though you may not like her, it doesn't matter. It's their relationship and it would be rude and unfair for you to break things up. Since you guys are good friends, you can tell him you dislike her but give him reasons why. Maybe if you explain your feelings to him, he'll agree and start seeing things your way. Unfortunately, you can't do much now but wait. If he does become single, you should express your feelings towards him. If you don't, he probably won't know and will start looking for another girlfriend. If you guys are good friends, it should be easier for you to open up to him. If you never tell him your feelings, you're going to be curious and wonder what would have happened if you did tell him. Also, if he doesn't like you back, you can stay friends and at least you'll know that you can move on. You can also ask your friends to help you out.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay i've been having a problem and i need some feedback hopefully positive?
i've been having sex with my boyfriend [protected] with the exceptions of about 3 times, but anyways, i've been having a burning feeling when i pee that kills and an urge when nothing comes out. plus my vagina has an odorey discharge
and an itchyness =/ both me and my boyfriends were virgins, and i've gotten tested for a urinary tract infection & they didnt find one, i just took monistat last night thinking its a yeast infection...help me what could it be i'm scared and cant tell my mom! and i dont wanna go to the gyno... advice?

You should really go to the Gyno. Anything said in the doctor's office is private. They cannot tell your parents unless it is affecting your health. For example, if you tell the Gyno you had sex, they can't go back and tell your parents. There could be all sorts of infections that come with having sex, especially unprotected sex. There are so many consequences and diseases with unprotected sex, so I would suggest always using a condom and/or birth control if you want to continue having sex with your boyfriend. Obviously you decided to go ahead and have sex, so you should be prepared with what may happen. I'm not saying this to scare you or anything, but so many teens are having sex without realizing that they can get STDS and they can get infections. Everyone is different and different infections can come with similar symptoms. You should go see your doctor so you can get the proper treatment. Leaving it go could make things worse and more painful. If you have any questions, you can ask your doctor. They usually have brochures and things like that at the office.

-hope that helped!♥

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My best friend has an eating disorder. Her cousin gave her a list of all the symptoms for an eating disorder. She showed me the list and out of 32 my friend had 26 of them. I was really worried. I asked her how long it has been going on and she said almost 2 years! She said it was getting worse because now she is making herself puke about 3 times a day! She said she knows it is bad and she can't stop. She feels she has to make herself puke. She barely eats too. And when she does she pukes it up. She is going to the doctor tonight but she said she might not tell him. She told me not to tell her dad. What should i do? I really want her to be healthy. Please help me out!

You need to talk to her. I was never bulimic, but I've seen girls that were and it's a horrible disorder. Even though she may say that she doesn't need help, she does. Anorexia and Bulimia are horrible disorders that affect thousands of girls each year. Many girls recover from them with the help from family and friends and even doctors, but unfortunately many do not. If she keeps going on like this without any help, things may get worse. You have to talk to her and encourage her to get help. If she doesn't, you may have to tell an adult. I know you want to be there for your friend and listen to her and not go behind her back, but if something happened because of this and you had the knowledge to stop her, wouldn't you want to? You would regret not telling anyone. You may even want to let her know that if she doesn't tell someone that you will. Her health is more important than an argument between both of you. Eating disorders make you believe that you're ok, what you're doing is ok, and that you don't need help. Unfortunately, this is completely wrong and girls do need help for this. Make sure you talk to her about it and get her the help thats needed in this situation.

-hope that helped!♥

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alright so there is this guy...and welll he was so called my best friend..and i knew he really liked me..and i sorta liked him off and onn..and well..i lead him on at times..but i ALWAYS there for him and everything but there were times when he would get all made at me and i would beg him badly to be my friend and eveuntally be "best friends" again...
but recetnly i went on a cruise and well..did some stuff and i guess he found out..and before i left he called me adn told me tht he liked me alot and aall i did was ingore it..but he was always in the back of my mind..
and so its been like about 2-3 months sine we talked and i finally talked to him..and i was saying how much it really sucks to not know what i did and why he's not my best friend anymore..and he goes wel....you were never my best firend anways..

so does he really mean this? :(
i hope not cause all the time we had was LIES?

He's probably just hurt. Talk to him about it. Sometimes people say things they really don't mean. If he's upset with you, he might have just said it because he's angry or hurt about what happened. Obviously you were his good friend at one point since he liked you. Talk to him and see how he feels. You should be able to work things out if you both want to be friends.

-hope that helped!♥

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13/F


me and my friend are both head over heels for this guy
and he broke up with her for me. we both feel terrible i really like him
so today he asked me to be his valentine

ladies... if you know what i mean ( whenever you talk to someone you fall in love with them)

so she thinks she is being really selfish because she cant get over him and she doesn't want me to get mad at her
i understand how she would feel horrible. but i also think that she needs to move on

i really like this kid and she loves him.
what should we do???
he is in love with me... but she cant move on

from,
tornintopieces

You need to talk this out with both your friend and the guy. If this is going to affect your friendship with her, is it really worth it?? You need to decide who means more to you and which relationship you value more. It's true, you can't really pick who you love and sometimes things happen. You have to be sensitive about her feelings though. If she says she really loves him, she probably is going to have a difficult time with this. You have to take your feelings into consideration also. If you truly love him and really want to be with him, then maybe you should try things after you talk with your friend about it. Guys come and go but best friends stay. Talk to him and see where your relationship is headed. If it's just going to be a short term fling, it might not even be worth all of the drama.

-hope that helped!♥

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I have thick hair, and everytime i try to curl it, the curl goes back straight. I've tried spraying it with hair spray but that didn't help, and i leave my curling iron on for along time so its gets super hot and that don't help either. I have a thick curling iron, because i want curls like you see on the celebrities. Do you have to put them in curlers or pin them up after your curl your hair.

Everyone's hair is a bit different. Try leaving curlers in for awhile. There are even soft curlers that you can leave in overnight. If that doesn't work, then try pinning them up for a bit. If your hair still isn't curling, next time you go to the hair salon, ask for suggestions. Since your hairdresser will be working with your hair, he/she will have a better idea on how to help you since they will see your hair-type. You may even want to get a perm. Here's a website with some tips-

http://www.easycurls.com/

-hope that helped!♥

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hi. ok so i have really good skin tho it gets dry in the winter but usually my mosturizer fxes that. But anyway right now I have a bunch of little pimples on my forehead! a couple on my nose and a bunch along my hairline too! I think its because i havent been washing my face as often as im supposed to but i started back up again and nothing. Soo i was wondering what home remedies will clear these pimples up really fast because im gonna see my boyfriend friday for valentines day! and any other recipes for making my skin 'glow' or anything because i love doing all those facials and treatments and stuff and i prefer making them from things i have at home so it doesnt have chemicals and stuff. Thanks so much! i will rate! :]

http://www.healthy-skin-guide.com/pimple-remedy.html

You can also try searching google.

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Remember that sometimes pimples can come from oils on your face. Don't touch your face as much and wash it whenever you can. It's probably best to wash it while you're in the shower and before you go to bed or something. Also, if your hair is in your face a lot, it can cause more pimples.

There are also some products that make your skin glow though.

http://www.rd.com/healthy-living/health/
make-your-skin-naturally-glow/article.html

[Take out the spaces for the article to work]

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ahhhhh so I'm verrryy good friends with this boy right (15/f hes 16). I have a suspicion that he likes mee. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. But this isn't like the other questions, because I DON't like himm! Just as a friend, and so I think he's breaking up with her for me, because that's what one of his friends said. I don't want that because I just wanna stay friends with him, nothing more then that, like im not attracted to him! So what should I do, because I really don't want him breaking up with her, and I especially don't want him hitting on me if they do berak up
Also, we chill a lot. Like outside of school. So he might not be interested in dating me, so I'm pretty sure he won't ask me out, but he could try to hook up with me, and rejection is preeetty badd. So I have noooo ideaa what to do!

Just make it very clear that you like him only as your friend. Sometimes girls lead guys on and flirt with them without even realizing. I'm not saying you do this, but sometimes being extra nice might give them the wrong idea. His friend might not exactly know what's really going on with him. I would ignore it. You could always keep your distance if he becomes flirty or starts hitting on you. Make it clear that you like him as your friend and that's all. You probably shouldn't worry about it too much. He still has a girlfriend. You might not even have to bring it up with him. If he starts flirting with you, then you should talk to him about it.

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On my Facebook, I can't remove anything from my profile. So anything I click just won't go away. I've tried exing it out, and editing but neither will work. On top of that, I can't leave any groups. What's up? Can anyone help?

You can try sending a message to Facebook. Some applications you can remove and some you can't.

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I've been on the pill for over 8 years. I've never had breakthrough bleeding. Since starting the pill, my period has basically been like clock work.
I'm due to get my period next week, and I started bleeding today - I'm still on active pills.
Could I be pregnant? Could this be implantation bleeding?

There's always a chance. Wait it out and either take a pregnancy test or go see your family doctor. It's better to check and make sure. It could be basic breakthrough bleeding also. It would be better for you to go for a check-up though. Try going online to your birth control pill's site by using google. They probably have extra information and a FAQ section.

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Breathe again is one of my fave songs
what are a few other songs liek it?
thanks

www.pandora.com

That's a free music search website. What you do is type in the title of the song or the artist and it gives you songs and artists that are similar to what you typed in.

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is it true that if you eat nothing but eggs and exercise that youll loose alot of weight? like eggs make you loose weight?


i want to loose about 15 pounds by spring break in like a month and 3 weeks. please tell me ways to do that!! and food to eat that will help me loose weight!

That's not true at all and completely unhealthy. Eating one food for weeks at a time is a really dangerous thing to do. Your body needs a variety of nutrients. Not just eggs. Plus, too many of one thing isn't good for your body. Think about this. If you eat only eggs for a few weeks, what's going to happen when you go back to eat regular foods? You're going to gain weight. Try exercising for at least an hour a day and drink plenty of water to keep yourself hydrated. Here are a few examples of good foods you should eat:

-Whole grains
-100% fruit juices
-Any fruits & veggies
-Granola bars
-Salads
-Lean meats such as chicken and turkey
-Low fat cheeses/yogurts
-Nuts

When you're deciding what to buy, watch the food labels. Look at calories, grams of fat/grams of saturated fat, sugar, and sodium. You're still growing so as long as you don't over-eat and take in enough fruits/veggies and exercise, you should lose a few lbs. Don't go overboard though and definitely don't just eat eggs. Not one food helps you lose weight. Changing your diet and cutting out junk food here and there may help though.

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Ahh. Please help. There is this guy who tells my friends im cute and wants to get to know me better and we've hung out a few times. the most we have done is hugged and he's put his arm around me. and i feel like he really likes me when he does stuff like that.

We talk online every night until like really late about a lot of things. He isn't one of those guys who is corny at all. And he doesn't put it out there directly that he likes me. But says he wants to hang out a lot and stuff...

I don't know... maybe its just because he is a guy and guys tend to not like tell their friends as much stuff or let their emotions show, at least in the beginning. But like... I'd like to know he wants something to happen. He just won't say anything.

And I don't wanna mention anything to him because I don't wanna seem crazy you know? We've only been hanging out for like two weeks.

Okay I know that was long but pleaseee tell me what you think! THANKS!! =]

Just hang out with him and see where things go. You're right, a lot of guys don't just come out and express their feelings to their friends, especially the girl they're interested in. Eventually they come around though. Hang out with him and see how he acts. If he wants something more with you, he'll let you know in some way or another. If nothings happening, you should ask him. I know it may seem awkward at first, but you don't want to be wasting your time trying to move forward with someone who doesn't want to. If he doesn't want to, then you'll have to just stay friends and try dating or hanging out with someone else. If he wants something more though, you'll start noticing after you hang out a few times.

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16/f and I'm really like one of my best guy friends. The only problem is that he's in love with another girl. I can't just let my feelings go. I'm happy for him that he found somebody that he loves but I get all confused around him. What do I do?

Just because he has feelings for another girl doesn't mean that you guys have no chance. He probably doesn't know how you feel. Tell him your feelings. Are they dating? If not, you can tell him your feelings and see how he reacts. It's important to tell him, because you don't want to be wondering what would've happened if you just told him how you felt. If he doesn't feel the same way, then just stay friends and try to move on. I know it's a lot harder than it sounds, but try going on dates with guys and meet new people. You should still try staying friends with him though.

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Okay so on Wednesday (Jan. 30, 2008) I'm getting 5 baby teeth pulled out. My dentist said he was gonna use novicaine (sp?) and laughing gas. I'm so scared! I don't care about the novicaine, but laughing gas?? Is it supposed to put me to sleep? I'm so nervous I feel like I'll freak out as I'm falling asleep! How does it feel? Do you just get drowsy and eventually fall asleep? Does this mean I'll feel no pain when they yank out the 5 teeth? AHH help me! I don't want to be so scared.

Here's a website-

http://www.dentalfearcentral.org/laughing_gas.html

That site gives you a lot of good information and personal experiences with laughing gas. If you want more information, feel free to ask your dentist or you can search google.

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you can have me but not hold me
i am easily betrayed but when u have me its good i can be broken.
What am i
Trust

a friend of mine left me that, what exactly does it meann??

It's a riddle for trust. Trust can be easily betrayed, but if there is trust, it's good, but still can be broken. Basically it means that if you do something to betray or deceive your friend, you'll lose their trust. You might want to ask your friend what they mean by it though.

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is it true that you have to wear your retainers 24/7? even when u sleep and eat? cause the people i know that get their braces off never wear their retainer even though they have one but then agian i only see em skool so they could be wearin em at night.

It all depends on your situation. Some people wear them all the time and others only wear them at night. However, you have to take it out when you eat. The doctor goes over all of this though.

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