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best friends no more....or were we ever
alright so there is this guy...and welll he was so called my best friend..and i knew he really liked me..and i sorta liked him off and onn..and well..i lead him on at times..but i ALWAYS there for him and everything but there were times when he would get all made at me and i would beg him badly to be my friend and eveuntally be "best friends" again...
but recetnly i went on a cruise and well..did some stuff and i guess he found out..and before i left he called me adn told me tht he liked me alot and aall i did was ingore it..but he was always in the back of my mind..
and so its been like about 2-3 months sine we talked and i finally talked to him..and i was saying how much it really sucks to not know what i did and why he's not my best friend anymore..and he goes wel....you were never my best firend anways..
so does he really mean this? :(
i hope not cause all the time we had was LIES?
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okay... he most certainly does not mean that! he is just really really hurt... so i guess the best you can do is talk to him about it and apologize...tell him you didnt mean to ruin your friendship and you definitely never meant to hurt him...let him know you still care because if you just sit back and do nothing he will probably get the impression that you dont care either, which will just hurt him more! so talk to the guy about it and apologize...see what happens from there.. he probably wont be like okay i forgive you lets be best friends again but in time maybe you guys can regain what you lost! :) good luckers!
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He's probably just hurt. Talk to him about it. Sometimes people say things they really don't mean. If he's upset with you, he might have just said it because he's angry or hurt about what happened. Obviously you were his good friend at one point since he liked you. Talk to him and see how he feels. You should be able to work things out if you both want to be friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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