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I accidently whacked my friend in the head with my badminton racket! There's like a redish spot-like bump on her forehead, kinda looks like blood is trying to explode out of her skin! Is it serious? Is it just a bruise? Will she be ok?

If she has any doubts -- she should see a doctor. Just in case, just to check. Don't panic, just tell her to possibly see a doctor.

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who won the American idol?

The season isn't over yet.
If you're talking about last year, Taylor hicks.
And if you're talking about who got voted of last -- thats Gina Glocksen.

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what's the name of this emo cartoon?

http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h53/anime_fr3ak7/Emo%20Cartoon/EmoCartoonSun.jpg

Aww, I love those.

Pon And Zi.

http://www.ponandzi.com/

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what sites can i go to, to make clothes, design clothes, dressup people, or runway clothes games.
any links will help, plz give me as much as possible!

Stardoll.com
www.dressupgames.com

I love those sites :)

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I'm 21/F. I'm getting married in two months, and I love my fiance very much, but I am so nervous. I'm having second thoughts about the wedding, and I feel incredibly guilty, and horrible. I know he's not at all nevous. I want to talk to my fiance, but I'm afraid he'll be mad or think I don't love him, and I don't want that. I really do want to be his wife, I guess I'm just scared. Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I being a horrible fiance.

You're not a bad fiance whatsoever.
Of course its normal.
Your best bet is to talk this over with him.
He will be completely understanding, don't worry.
Good luck :)

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Okay my guy friend wants to know what to get his girlfriend for her birthday ??
They have only been going out for 2 weeks but were good friends befor that.
So basicly whay should he get her ??
I know she likes soccer and is a pretty outgoing girl .
Thanks :]

Maybe he can get her a soccer necklace?

http://www.soccerplanetstore.com/jewelry.html

I think that would be a cute gift. Girls love jewelry, and since she likes soccer, this would be a good, not too expensive gift :)

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ok this is reallyyy embarecing..i have like stretch marks on my breasts and thighs. is this normal? and will or when they go away? i hateee them sooo much.

From this site:
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/stretch_marks.html

Stretch marks are a normal part of puberty for most girls and guys. When a person grows or gains weight really quickly (like during puberty), that person may get fine lines on the body called stretch marks. Stretch marks happen when the tissue under the skin is pulled by rapid growth or stretching. Although the skin is usually fairly elastic, when it's overstretched, the normal production of collagen (the major protein that makes up the connective tissue in your skin) is disrupted. As a result, scars called stretch marks may form.

If you're noticing stretch marks on your body, you're not alone. Most girls and women have stretch marks, which tend to show up on the breasts, thighs, hips, and butt. Many women get them during pregnancy. And while they're more common in girls, guys can get stretch marks, too.

People who are obese often have stretch marks. Bodybuilders are prone to getting stretch marks because of the rapid body changes that bodybuilding can produce. Stretch marks also may occur if a person uses steroid-containing skin creams or ointments (such as hydrocortisone) for more than a few weeks, or has to take high doses of oral corticosteroids for months or longer.

At first, stretch marks may show up as reddish or purplish lines that may appear indented and have a different texture from the surrounding skin. Fortunately, stretch marks often turn lighter and almost disappear over time. But the fact that stretch marks usually fade and become less noticeable over time can be little consolation if you plan to spend most of your summer in a bathing suit.

Here are some things to consider if you want to make stretch marks less noticeable:

* Some people find that sunless tanning treatments (both over-the-counter lotions and sprays and in-salon types of treatments) can help cover up stretch marks. This doesn't work for regular tanning or tanning beds, though, because stretch marks themselves are less likely to tan. And as everyone knows, the sun and tanning beds do more harm than good when it comes to the long-term health of your skin. You also can buy body makeup matched to the tone of your skin that can make stretch marks all but invisible. Although some manufacturers make these cover-up products water-resistant, makeup may not be the best solution if you'll be spending a lot of time in the water.
* Speaking of pool or beach time, the good news is that current fashion favors many styles of bathing suits that also just happen to hide stretch marks. "Boy short" style suits (popular with many athletes because they don't ride up when a person moves) work well for hiding stretch marks on the buttocks and upper thighs. And because many swimmers prefer high-neck bathing suits, which can hide stretch marks in the chest area, there are usually lots of styles to choose from.
* Although there are tons of creams and other skin products on the market that claim to eliminate stretch marks, the truth is that most are ineffective and often costly. You can't make stretch marks go away entirely without the help of a dermatologist (a doctor who specializes in treating skin problems) or plastic surgeon. These doctors may use one of many types of treatments - from actual surgery to techniques such as microdermabrasion and laser treatment - that reduce the appearance of stretch marks. These techniques are expensive and are not usually recommended for people in their teen years because they are not finished growing and their stretch marks will probably diminish over time anyway.

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whats that cartoon mouse called, it might be an old version of micky mose, but, the one i saw had like a long snout. so if someone cld telll me the name of the mouse and send mee a link to the picture it'd be great

Mighty mouse :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mighty_Mouse

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I just bought my dress for prom, my sister loves it but my mom didnt get too excited I Love it to but it was somewhat an impluse of a buy. Now that I have it at home im wondering if it screams PROM to me, it needs some alterations and it was kinda expensive (300 Bux) Do you think its just me being a nervous person or do you think I should stick with my gut feeling???

Definitely always stick with your hut feeling :)

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Well for easter my family and i are going to eat dinner with the relatives. Anyways i want a really pretty easter dress or outfit

im 14/f

could you show me some websites like aeropostale or macys or you know some sort of store that has a really cute outfit or dress

thanks

This is a cute one for easter.
http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2502878&cp=2284058.2365584&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family

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YEA WELL ITS TRUE BUT I DO WISH I CAN HOLD U MORE CLOSER LIKE MORE THAN A HUG OR FRIENDS U KNOW WAT I MEAN

what does this mean?

It means they want to be more then friends.

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im a girl and i need to kno where i can touch myself to make an orgasm occur! where can i touch myself.

asap!
ty in advance

The "head" of the female would be the clit.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris

Check that out.
Then check out mymasturbation.com

:)

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13/f

when a guy says to you "what's up?" and you normally don't talk to him... are you supposed to say "good" or "hey"?

Like.. is the phrase "whats up" supposed to be asking the person how they are doing?? or is that phrase just saying Hi in a different way?

Whats up is commonly used, even know everyone knows the answer. "Nothing, you?"
Thats what you should say. "Nothing, How about you?"
Or, "Nothing, Bored. & You?"
Something simple like that :)

They're just asking whats going on, or what you're doing :)

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Im literally crying right now...I feel that my family doesnt love me anymore. My parents are very demanding they dont even seem to care about my life anymore. i have 3 younger sisters, which makes me the oldest. The second youngest sister i have gets all the attention, they look up to her, they treat her with respect. shes like the boss of the other 2 younger siblings. and they are supposed to look up to me. but alls they do is just be mean to me ignore me and dont even talk to me. so i feel left out of the family, out of place. i feel sad right now. i feel like im the only child. i just noticed this as i was watching myself today. my second youngest sister in line used to be my best friend. but not anymore. im not jealous, but im unhappy with my family life. i would like to feel equal. but i dont and i cant stop crying about it. someone please help me, i will defintely give you a rating of 5 if you give me somewhat good advice. I really need it now!

I honestly don't know what to say either. I don't have siblings, but I do have parents, and I don't feel like they love me either. I feel exactly like you, out of place not wanted.
What I did was sit down with each of my parents and talk it over them. I explained my feelings twords them, and how things had changed. They really understood.
I see a Physiologist though. They seem to help a TON. I know its not what you want to hear -- but its your best bet to talk to your school counselor. They seem like they're for nerds but they can help a ton. I would really advise you to try and explain to your feelings. It could change things.

Always remember, your parents are there for you. They will ALWAYS love you.

If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to add my myspace, or IM me, or inbox me. All of those options are availvible on my column. Good luck :)

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I was just wondering about the bleeding does it hapen during sex or later?

Durring, and after too.

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hey!

1. how much did you get it for and where?
2. why didnt you like it?

thankss so muchh :]

1. I'm guessing you were the straightener girl.
I got my straightener from the mall. But you can order it online. Its a very popular salon straightener though, check your local hair places.

http://www.folica.com/CHI_Ceramic_Fla_d1.html

The price is 90 dollars. Not including shipping & tax.

2. I just didn't like it. It didn't cope with my curly, thick hair. Wasn't hot enough for my liking, the chi heats up in less that 5 seconds, and goes really really hot.

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hey i know hollister has sales on clothes sometimes.but i was on their website and saw a lot of nice stuff on the clearance i was wondering if anyone was at the store reccently and saw a lot of stuff on sale because i dont want to order it all online and it might not fit..thanks a lot

I was at hollister today, and everything that was listed online was in the store, and we have a pretty small hollister in our mall.
So yeah :)

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I reformated my sansa using the hold the record button while on hold trick to put new firmwire, when i tried toput the new firmwire now it shows no screen the blue light just turns on and stays on what do i do

Calling the company would be your best bet. That isn't a popular model, and most of us can't help you with it since we don't no much about it.

1-866-726-3475

Or their technical site could help out, if its there.
Since you weren't specific with the model, I can't get the information for you though.

http://www.sandisk.com/Products/Default.aspx?CatID=1014

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what hurts more...getting ur belly button pierced for your cartilige on ur ear?

This is an opinion, but definitly your belly button.

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are crackers bad for guinea pigs? like one, regular
cracker. he ate it very willingly & seemed to really like
it cause when he finished it, he squeeked really loudly
[ like when they are calling for food ] but i didn't give
him anymore cause i was afraid it was bad for him.

thanks in advv. :]

The plain ones probably wouldn't him at all.
But don't give him a salty one, because thats whats gonna hurt him.

:)

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