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Im feeling sorda guilty....
There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....
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No you shouldn't feel guilty. Some girls are just blessed with the ability to do cheerleading. Some aren't. It is not your fault that two people won't make it. You didn't set up those rules.
-Brianna
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for around 2 years now i have had this white stuff in my knickers.. what is it and what dus it mean??
My mum started her period when she was sixteen ad im 13 so i neva thought i meant i was gonna started my period soon (link)
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It is just discharge. It is healthy and it is your body's natural way of cleaning itself. Nothing to be worried or ashamed about. It could mean you will start your period, but that is not always the case.
-Brianna
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Well, I have in issue with becoming a vegetarian. I really want to, but my family is Greek and they just don't understand why I won't eat perfectly good meat, and if I don't eat it they think I have an eating disorder. I really want to give it up because I love animals and it's a lot healthier, but I'm shy when it comes to telling my parents these things and I don't know if they'd understand. They'd probably make fun of me. What should I do? (link)
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Just tell them how you feel. Or if that doesn't work tell them you don't like the taste or something like that. They shouldn't make fun of you because you care about animals.
-Brianna
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I love this guy named frank. His real name is micheal. Anyways, I've known him for a while and I'm totally head over heels in love for the first time. I mean, sure I've said I loved a guy before, but this is sooooo different. I told him I liked him and he says he likes me and he put his arems areound my waist, he's put his arms around me, we almost came close to kissing even, but I don't think he like's me, He talked to me for a while today, but then he hung out with other girl the whole day. What do I do? (link)
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You have to talk to him and tell him that he is sending mixed signals. He sounds like he is a player a little bit. Just go out and plain straight ask him. Good luck!
-Brianna
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I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do? (link)
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There is nothing you really can do. Tell him that you weren't thinking very well that moment. Like you didn't really mean it. Or tell him that now you don't want him to act like a retard or how ever hes gonna act.
-Brianna
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I like this guy and i dont think he likes me he has a grl friend and i dream about him and i stare at him every day i cant get over him and i want to go out with him but i keep waiting for him to break up wit his girl friend but i dont know if i should keep waiting
what should i do????? (link)
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Don't wait. Tell him you like him. If he dumps his girlfriend for you then he likes you. Love comes to those who wait.
-Brianna
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14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??
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Lol, thats a little weird. I don't think anythings wrong with you, you just sound like paranoid. You seem like a non-handson person, but thats okay.
-Brianna
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Can you get your belly button peirced at Claire's? i heard that from a friend but i dont think you can. thanks for your help. (link)
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Yes. You just have to be like 16 and have a parent (new law).
-Brianna
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When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5 (link)
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He will usually put his hands on the back of your neck (you can do that too) or like on your back. There is no specific place or wrong place. Just go with the flow.
-Brianna
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HELP! Im going to Florida in 2 days and i dont know what to pack!! Is it REALLY warm? Like what should I pack to go to Disney World ..has it been raining alot lately? Should I pack a pair of jeans? please be specific im going for 4 days - Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Thanks! (link)
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It can be REALLY hot, bring like a poncho or whatever incase it does rain. I would say to bring a pair of capris, 4 shorts, 1 pair of pants, tank tops and short sleeves. Maybe even one hoodie.
-Brianna
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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!! (link)
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Take a razor or something sharp and start cutting them in different directions and different degrees of pressure. Don't go over board because then they look bad.
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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????
Please help me?????
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Its normal to love your best friend or whatever, but it sounds like an obsession!
-Brianna
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sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
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It can kill the baby. You should tell your parents or guardian (whoever) both of your problems. They can take you to get help with your eating disorder. Good luck!
-Brianna
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Hey guys...well my dad is really mean to me sometimes and I'm really tired of it. He'll be nice to me one minute and a total grouch to me the next. What should I do? I'll rate 5's to GOOD answers!
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Tell him how you are feeling. He probably doesn't realize how he is treating you. Be nice to him and when he is being mean to you just ask him why. He sounds like he is Bi Polar
-Brianna
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ok i have been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really like him, but we havent kissed yet, should i make the first move? and he doesnt call me..what is up with that? i think he is just shy, and there is this other guy that told me he likes me and i kind of like him but i dont want to brake up with my boyrfriend for him what should i do? (link)
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Kiss him. He probably is just shy.
-Brianna
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my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help (link)
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Ugh! Tell her how you feel if that doesn't help, go to a guidance counsler and tell her how you are feeling. Maybe she can help your family.
-Brianna
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Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much? (link)
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No one can tell you if you are in love or not. You probably most likely arent. Whenever someone really likes someone, they think they are in love. Only time can tell!
-Brianna
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this is gonna seem like no big deal, but here's the thing: i think i'm ugly. i never really thought of it that much until i got to middle school...i looked at how much weight i need to lose... how ugly my eyebrows are...how my braces make my smile look like crap (actually, they don't let me smile right). the thing is that my friends say "how can you say you're ugly? i think you're pretty! not drop-ead googeous, but sooooooooo NOT ugly!" i know that girls are like that a lot, that we all look in the mirror and don't look at how pretty we are but how we need to fix hte bad stuff, but i need help on that. i don't see myself as the kind of girl a guy would like, or even how my guy friends can stand having a friend like me. i just always wonder what guys think when they see me... any way, my question is how do i see myself prettier? this may not seem like a problem, but i need to feel better to look better, but for that i need to be able to see myself better. i wanna know how my friends can see me as pretty. please don't tell me to focus on my personality because i don' see a personality when i look in a mirror. thanks to everyone just even if you don't answer it but for at least reading this huge thing!!! thanks! (link)
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You need to boost up your self esteem. All girls are self conscious, but most of the time they don't need to be. What are your braces for? To give you a great smile. Go to a beauty shop and they'll fix your eyebrows. Look at the ups of your face/body whatever. Don't look at the negatives!
-Brianna
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my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?
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You are smart. Most girls don't realize that shit. But just tell him straight up that you don't want to be with him and your sick and tired of what he is doing! Good luck!
-Brianna
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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend (link)
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What a friend you have. Tell her what you are feeling. I think it is wrong when your friend likes your boyfriend. Remind her that Lee is her boyfriend and tell her you dont like her flirting with yours. If she doesn't understand that, she is not worth being your friend.
-Brianna
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