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Guilty...
Im feeling sorda guilty....
There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....
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haha oh sorry.. well in that case you definitly shouldnt feel bad..some people just arnt cut out for athletic stuff..your so good you dont even have to try out to make it.. its more of a compliment actually and if you spend most of your life you wouldnt be making your self happy and after all it is your life.. u know? just brush it off and dont feel bad because you got skills :)! x0ox
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No you shouldn't feel guilty. Some girls are just blessed with the ability to do cheerleading. Some aren't. It is not your fault that two people won't make it. You didn't set up those rules.
-Brianna
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no. because you are good! they aren't. you worked hard to be good, and maybe they worked hard, but they aren't good. so dont feel bad! be happy!
h-i-h
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No you shouldnt feel guilty.. them girls suck apparently you got talent and should enjoy it hun..much luv dez x0x0
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You shouldn't feal guilty. It's ok for somethings to be handed to you, as long as you still tryed. if you did try to make the squad then it's not your fault if you make the team. The fact that you feal guilty about it says that you care. Do what you think is best and keep your head up hi.
Daisyswim
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No you shouldn't feel guilty! Nothing is handed to you in life. You have to work for it. But, if you truly feel this is being handed to you then you probably have that special skill that us captains look for. Don't feel guilty hun..♥
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Why should you feel guilty? I am not sure guilt is the word you are searching for. Just about everyone who is trying out is going to make it. You have nothing to feel guilty about. Perhaps you should feel... unjust. Not that I am judging your cheerleading squad. But why should you feel bad about making a squad that 85.71428571% of the girls will be making. (I can round that for you if you wish.) If you are so sure you are going to be making it perhaps you should think otherwise of this commitment. You did mention the rest of your "squad -to be" quite frankly sucks. Sure you might have said it in a nicer way. Come to think of it, maybe you didn't. Maybe you should go for something more competitive. Something that won't make your definition of "guilt" feel like my definition of "unjust."
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Are you giving your all at tryouts? If so you are working for it, so don't feel guilty. :)
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I don't think you should feel guilty. You worked hard to get where you are. Some people are better than things at others, and you obviously are better than them at cheerleading. They'll find the right thing for themselves eventually. You should be proud of yourself! Be proud how well you're doing!
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Nah... you worked hard to become as good as you are, and those other girls just need to work a little bit more. It's a good thing that you're sorry for them, but you shouldn't feel guilty. Maybe you could help one of the girls that doesn't make it with her cheers? That make you feel better?
-FunnyCide
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No, if you're better than them, take advantage of this fact.
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Its not being handed to you..if you have talent you will make it..no needs to feel guilty. Sure its ok to feel a little bit for the girls who dont make it..but this isnt being handed to you..its not like you have to go agaisnt the best in the country to get on the team..just try out like everyone else and being that your going to make it..just be happy with the fact that your good and thats why you made it ! :)
-melissa
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no.. b/c if ur better than the others than you deserve it
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