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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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does anybody know if claire's or hot topic does belly button piercings? thx ahead of time!

No. Claires sells the earings and only does ear piercings and i dont even think hot topic does piercing. You ahve to go to a piercing parlor to get that done.

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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

No. Your still virgins, so dont worry. It doesnt mean your lovers. You were just two girls who were curious and experimented. Dont stress it.

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im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help.

your 21. it is time to stop worrying about what your parents think. if you have so many questions and worryies about sex, you are definetly not ready for this. and if your this undereducated about the whole sex ordeal, you shouldnt even do anything.

A condom does help prevent pregnancies, but there is a very slim chance of pregnancy. but it is possible. if your on the pill you have to take it regularly or it will not be as accurate as it sould. this means talking it everday, same time everday, and never skipping a pill. the patch you put it on and change it once a week. this should answer mostly everything your asking for.

but you still are obviously not ready to have sex yet.

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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette


the choice is really up to you. if you wwant to break up with him for calling you a bitch and then sitting thre and admitting you are a bitch to him then go ahead. if your such a bitch to him , then you obviously dont feel about him as much as you say you do. and if you get all worked up everytime someone will call you a bitch or anything else people will say about you, then you will be upset alot in your life. if you think that you love him as much as you say and you think it is worth working out your differences then quit being such a bitch to him and maybe your relationship will be ok. if you dont think yiu can get over the fact that he said your a bitch then break it off.

and one more thing... dont be so dramatic about it. he could of said or done worse. trust me. its not that big of a deal.

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i really like these shoes, and my mom said she would get them 4 me wen i do chores...i did chores and i still didnt get shoes, and she keeps lying to me
wut should i do>??

quit doing chores. i dont know. go on strike until she gets them for you

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Sorry for the length. Yes, I know that weed is bad for you, but I kind of got pressured into smoking a ganga(sp?) today. It was like a crash burn type of thing, I took two hits, but on both of them I messed up, I sucked in, held it, swallowed but only a little swallow, then blew, so I didn't really get anything. I was wondering, if I had gotten something, what are the chances of getting hurt on the 1st try? Can you die from the first try of weed. I think next week my friends wanted me to try a black and mild (the one's that smell really good) I know it's illegal and all that, I just wanted to know the chances of like dying or passing out, or blacking out on the first try, and only one or two hits. I know this kid at our school who had extesy, and about 30 of something, but he was like forced it or something, and he blacked out and when someone else woke up, the kid (Winston) had no pulse and had died from OD. Can you OD off of only no more than 3 hits of weed? What are some consequences besides death, or like consequences and how long it takes for those consequences to come in effect. I know it's a dumb question, and I could probably google it or something, but I'd rather ask it here. Thanks.

you cant die from weed. No one ever has and it is a proven fact that no one ever will. so dont worry about it. yeah the kid your taking about did ectasy... yes thats harmful. but if your only doing weed, go wild and have fun. you'll be fine.

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how do you calculate a grade point average? thanks.

you add up all your grades and then divide by the number of grades you added together.
in my school it is
A- 4
B- 3
C- 2
D- 1
F- 0

they substitute grades with those nubers. if your average is an a average you get a 4.0 if its a b then you get a 3.0 etc. you get the pic

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my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!

it is possible that it will hurt. yes it is possible you can bleed also. this will happen if he pops your cherry or scratches you. he can use as many fingers as he wants and as many as you are comfortable with. well shave right before he cmes over so it wont be all stubbly. when you shave be sure to use shaving gel and a new sharp razor. that will help prevent razor burn.

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can guys get erection by gettin a hand job>?

yes

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Alright..I've lost a good amount of weight...but I still have a huge butt and thighs...and I'm pretty freaking skinny everywhere else...how do I get them smaller...any good toning exercises anyone knows of?

you should keep the butt and thighs. guys like a butt and thighs on a skinny girl. but if you want them smaller then run, that will tone your muscles in your legs, or do leg presses, or ride a bike. those will all help.

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I had boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time. currently i have neither. i am 15 year old female and ive fingered,frenched,ate out, a girl and have had same done to me. BUT all ive done with guys is make out and a little fondling from him to my chest area. I think I kinda like girls more at times there more understanding besides gay guys there actually the best friends there caring. but a girl can be more sensitive. so since ive done all this stuff with a girl and little with a guy...im bi right? not lesbian? i want to bi and i feel for both genders. but ive done MUCH more with females. and i love it soooo much. ive frenched countless girls and more than once mainly and ive been eaten out 4 times. a guy has barely got far on me....so i dont even know what im asking in a way...am i a bi or lesbo.....is it wrong to be bi...and how can i be more pleasureful on eating a girl out and how can i show a guy im ready to go further but not have sex?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i dont think your a lesbian. i think you are bi. its not wrong. alot of people are like that. i have a couple of friends who are bi. some people will think it is wrong and will say shit about it but some people wont care at all. just think it would be easy for you to fulfill a guys fantasy having two girls at a time. lol. but when your with a guy and you want to go further then just making out but let them know you dont want to have sex with them, then just do what you would with a girl. but when he does stuff with you, they like to know that you will return the favor too. hope this helps. if ya have any more ?, drop it in my inbox.

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I no its not healthy but will starving myself help me lose 2 inches off my stomach. i really need to. im going to florida in april and i wanted to get my belly button pierced but it think im too fat. with my clothes on i guess i look ok, but not the way i want to. please help

no. it wont work. not only is it not healthy but it will make you gain weight. yes, i know, sounds crazy but it is completely true. when you dont eat you body gets so used to not having food to work off of that when you go back and eat something, even the smallest thing, that you gain it so much more. so you dont want to do that. just cut back on your portions of food, dont eat any kind of junk food (includes fast food, such as mcdonalds burgers and fries), and exercise. lay off some of the pop and sugary drinks. drink water.

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hey my name is kayla and i really am in luv with this boy nick. we went out like 15 times and out of 15 he broke up with me once. he says he loves me when we get off the phone and i say it back,but when i ask him out he always says idk!! should i keep askin him out!! i keep tryin to convince him that i wont hurt him again! i beleive he is still in luv with me and i know i luv him! he hasnt went out with anyone since the day we broke up like 5 monthes ago!! i really luv him and i want him back!!ill pay some one 4 this!!
when i tell my best friend cortnie she says o!! and thats all!! and cortnie and him go to the same school(affton)i cry all the time!!!!pleaze help me im dying to get him back!! IM me at lilcliffordgrl11 and ill talk to you more!!! HELP im begging you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **kayla**

he is prolly hav some mixed feelings about you. it is true, he may still care for you but he alos doesnt want to get hurt. maybe he thinks that you have hurt him too many times before. so you need to take the time and get together one day, talk and hang out. let him see how much you really care and want him back. maybe he will see that you are really trying and that you turly mean you wont hurt him anymore. but if he says no he doesnt want a relationship with you, dont get all outta wack. he is simply telling you that he cant do it because he doesnt want any more pain. and if you love him as you say you do, then you will respect that about him and try and just be friends. it may be hard to do but atleast you will still be friends and will have each other in some way or another. i am sure that he will be willing to just be firends and not end everything all together.

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does anyone know the meaning of the movie machurian candidate?? please im dying to know what it means, i've asked everyone but noone knows what it is please! if you've seen it and know please explain..thanks

wtf? i have no clue what your talking about.

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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX

if you didnt ever meet or see the guy, then you arent going out. and no it wont work out. i doubt it is the "ONE" you will spend the rest of your life with. why not date someone you know and are able to be with? that one sounds like a plan to me. meeting and dating some person over the internet is not the safest thing in the world to do either. he could be some mass murderer or a stalker or something. lol. but who knows. do what makes you happy i guess. a

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okay i just need someone to talk to .. just someone .. i just need a person that will cheer me up everyday .. and be there.. i have problems going on .. and i need help with them .. IM me on aim .. at s0 effin radx or xhugs not drugz

well thanksz rachel;

hey just go to my column and get my sn's and email and all and just im me.

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22f
I was in an intense relationship with a pretty disturbed guy for 3 months. He frequently encouraged me to kill myself and was pretty abusive. I don't want to see him again but I still have his jumper and want to return it as I don't like it around and don't want to throw it out(it would give him a reason to contact me again, I've tried to sever all contact) --the only mutual friend we have is his ex and I never told her I was seeing him.
I would send it to him but he's moving house...any suggestions?

give it to his ex and say you found it at your house he must have left it there one day when he was changing out of it or something, a stupid little excuse about why you have it. ask her if she would mind giving it to him beings you guys do not contact each other at all anymore.

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How do you REALLY make out.... I need to know...and dont say "oh its easy theres really no way to explain it just go for it...go with the flow" thats stupid and doenst help... say what you actually do...i need help!!!!!

well i am going to be one of the people who say that there really is nothing to it. and to just go with the flow because rainbowcherry has exlained some things for you, quite well actually. but trust me once you try you will understand and see why people just say to go with the flow. and you will see that there is nothing to it, thats it an easy, go with the flow kind of thing.


one more thing... just be relaxed and have fun.

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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.

he may like his girlfriend but it seems that he has a crush on you. you should tell him that you like him and see how things go from there. ask him how he feels about you. tell him you would like to know. also if he likes you and tells you so then ask him how he feels about his girlfriend, your friend. tell you have are feeling some mixed emotions and have been getting mixed signals from him and need to know where you guys stand. that should be pretty understandable for him and hopefully he will talk to you and let you know. so bring it up in a convo on the computer or when you are hanging out, as long as your friend, his gf, isnt around to over hear your feelings about him and his about you.

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what are some good sleeping pills (probably presription) that are good for teens? yeah i DONT sleep. thanx

there are a few different sleeping pills. so ask your doctor what would be best for you.

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