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Returning his jumper
22f
I was in an intense relationship with a pretty disturbed guy for 3 months. He frequently encouraged me to kill myself and was pretty abusive. I don't want to see him again but I still have his jumper and want to return it as I don't like it around and don't want to throw it out(it would give him a reason to contact me again, I've tried to sever all contact) --the only mutual friend we have is his ex and I never told her I was seeing him.
I would send it to him but he's moving house...any suggestions?
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just throw it out, if the ol' boy left it there probably not that important. thats your best bet, or set it on fire and leave it on his car, either way it works
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It's wise for you to want to avoid contact with this man. It's simply not safe to be around an abusive person or allow him to speak to you. Personally, I would recommend throwing the jumper in the trash, unless you think he could use it as an excuse to contact you later. If you don't want to get his ex involved and feel like you want to give the jumper back to him, consider shipping it to some place where he'll find it. You could send it to his work address, the home of a relative, or even anonymously to his ex.
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I think it may be time to conviently loose the jumper.
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I think you should give it to his ex to give it to him or you can just give it to someone who works with him or you can leave it by his house or mail it to him!!
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givikng it to his ex would be a good idea or maybe you could drop it off at his work to someone who works with him. i hope youre okay!
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Do you have any friends that could possibly do the dirty work for you? Consider asking a man to do it. That way, he is really of less threat to them. I know this sounds like an easy way out but at least it is effective. It also gives him the message- you want ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with him.
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give it to his ex and say you found it at your house he must have left it there one day when he was changing out of it or something, a stupid little excuse about why you have it. ask her if she would mind giving it to him beings you guys do not contact each other at all anymore.
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the best thing to do is put it away somewhere.. like in an attic.. or closet.. or somewhere you wont think about it or see it.. if he doesnt contact you about it within 3 monts.. then its safe to throw it away :)
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Send it to his old house and if he calls to ask were it is say that u sent it to him and didnt know that he moved.
~Brina~
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