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My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react? (link)
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no maybe its just me...but real brothers and sisters dont kiss on the lips so why would you kiss someone whos like a sis on the lips....hmmm that would bother me .....its not the fact that he has a female friend just the fact that hes kissing her on the lips...does he kiss any of his male friends on the lips...no..i doubt it so why should it make a diffrence with a female friend....now i have plenty of guy friends who are like brothers but i dont go kissing them on the lips or even on the cheek.
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Well, I am 13/f.This might sound stupid but I found a guy on the computer and I was wondering how I could find out if he is cheating on me or not?Also wondering should i still go out with him even tho he is off the computer? Thanks. (link)
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internet dating is not safe. you dont even know if this person is who they are they could of put a photo of their next door neighbor and guess what youd never know the diffrence.hmmmmmmmmmm look up all the murders and rapes that have happened from people meeting others off the computer then ask yourself that question again....there is nothing wrong with feeling lonely or being single but there are plenty of guys in the real world to meet and you have plenty of time to meet them in the real world i mean youve just hit your teens and havent fully developed. so forget about internet dating. its really not worth losing your life or getting raped.
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okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do??? (link)
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if its a girl you dont get along with then maybe she put him up to the whole thing...dont buy into it anymore yeah you might feel hurt and stupid but their the bad people...dont worry about them their not worth it and their are plenty of other people to meet and date..forget about them.
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I've gone on 2 dates with this guy who's still in the closet. He's never been in a relationship and we've kissed and made out and did other sensual things, not sex. I asked him if he wanted to go out and do something with me next week and his response was, "maybe" I asked him why "maybe" and he said, "well I could be going on a date next week." I was like, "oh okay that's cool, keeping your options open."
He's like, "yeah" "are you okay with that?" I was like, "not really, but I don't want to act like i'm too attached." then I ask, "would you be okay if I went on a date with another guy between then and now?" he said, "yeah, i'm not clingy." Okay, now analyze this and asnwer this question. What's the difference between being clingy, and acting interested? In my mind, him saying that he might be on a date with another person between then and now, shows that he's not interested in me. And second, isn't it rude anyway to tell the person who you've gone out with two dates on that you might be going on a date with someone else? please help, this frustrates me. (link)
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yeah its rude but atleast hes honest...red flag...obviously hes not the right one for you and the way he sounds i dont really think hes the right one for that many others...he more then likely wont give you a good relationship...clingy is when you call aguy 10 times a day ..get jelous when he hangs out with people who are just friends whether there male or female..bosses him around or drags him every where and basically never giving him a spare moment with out you. if you werent ok with him dating aroung while dating you then tell him...your not being clingy your stating what you want and if he cant comply then hes not right for you.
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There is this teacher, and she teacher earth science at my school, and i cant stand her. SHe hates coming to work, and she can never smile. SHe said she doesnt care about us, she just wants to teach., When we ask a question, she makes you feel like an idiot. She thinks she is so smart, but she is just aroogant. ANd...she yelled at me, because i proved her wrong. Can someone giv me some advice on how to deal with her. Thanks , trust me if you have good advice, i will be so grateful. (link)
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go to your counselors class and switch out of her class if they dont let you then have a parent request that you be moved from her class.
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Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 17 and have been dating for almost 6 months. We have had sex without a condom twice and im not on any type of birth control. The first time was Oct. 25 and the second was Nov. 8. I was scared the first time we had sex that I was pregnant but decided i would wait for my period to get all worried about it. I seriously doubt i could have gotten pregnant from the first time cause it was only for like a minute. I got nervous and we stopped. The second time we again didnt use a condom. He pulled out before he came but maybe he didnt do it soon enough. Some of it got on my leg and I asked him if he came inside me and he said he definitely didnt and i didnt feel anything. My period is usually 4 1/2 weeks apart and my period should be coming any day now or could be a couple days late. I dont want anyone to know so thats why I havent gotten a pregnancy test yet. Is there any chance I could be pregnant? I'm so nervous and this is all i have been thinking about. My boyfriend says if i am pregnant that we are not getting an abortion but i dont know if i can handle a baby at this age. Help me please!
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im not definetly saying yes but theres a very good chance because just because guys cant al ways tell then they let loose no matter what your guys says they cant. sometimes its just a tiny amount. its a big risk having sex with out using anything . it is even if you are using the safest you can get with out abstinace is using birth control and a condom. may you could buy a test in the store and go to a gas station bathroom and take it or a public bathroom just remember to keep the reciept so no one thinks your stealing.you need to consider the consequences before taking the jump especially with out birth control. i dont blame your boyfriend for not want abortion because its not the babys thought....you made a bad decision..which im sure you know....if you cant hold your head up and be proud of something then dont do it...to late for that...but you took the risk....so prepare your self for the consequences if it you are pregnant...if your not then then prepare your self alittle better for next time so it doesnt happen.
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I'm a teenage g i r l. There's a guy who I want to hook up with, and we planned it for next month. I want to do it really badly, as I'm not a christian so I can do whatever I want sexually. But the thing is: I just can't decide if the pleasure is worth the guilt I'll suffer from- if there IS going to be any guilt. I just don't know how guilty I'd feel afterwards. Especially IF and WHEN i happen to meet someone worth dating or marrying.
All advice will be appreciated. (link)
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just about everyone is horny its human nature....but the reason about never marrying is a negative reason. if your having any doubts what so ever then no its probably not the right thing to do. you havent lived enough to give in so quickly. this guy isnt going to respect you and it also might get around and you just might get a name for yourself choose the seps you takke to form your life carefully.
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13/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older? (link)
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just tell him that....i mean you guys havent even went all the way through puberty. so you dont need to go all the way with anything else. this isnt a matter to be shy about because he sure isnt just tell him no and why if he pushes the matter you dont have to explain yourself anymore.if he doesnt like it then he really doesnt truly like you all that much and you need to break up with him. hes at that young perverted stage.
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Riiight...
I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.
Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...
The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.
The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...
What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.
Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.
Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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if your not ready your not ready. bottom line and its not true that if you keep passing it up then youll never be ready. go with your own flow.
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does any1 believe in telekenisis or having premitions or anything like that?...(sorry i probably spelt them both wrong)
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i am a very strong believer of the paranormal. tracing back through my family alot of us have had super natural inccidents.
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Im 14, and im 150 ilbs. I am not athletic at all, I can barely do a cartwheel. My dream has always been to be a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader. How can I start exerciseing and doing streches, where by the time im older to be one=].
Everyone tells me I'm GORGOUS. It's just my weight! And i I'm not Athletic.
I can't join a cheer team, because they use the best! It's so imbaressing. So whats hould ido at home, Im willing to do ALOT a day =]. & how much weight would I loose, and how fast? (link)
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you should start taking gymnastics bicause it will tone your body and limber you up and youll definetly be able to do a cartwheel.
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How can I get rid of the fat on my stomach and my lovehandles? I do crunches, but it only seems to work on my upper abs, and I still have the lower belly fat. Is there any way I can get rid of this and get flat abs and no lovehandles? (link)
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have you ever considered taking belly dancing its a fun way to excercise those areas of your body youll get really toned and learn a new skill
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I hav just got in to high school from my small (100 people) primary. My friends are nice but they have this sort of dark side. When ever I do well at school or sport or talk to the girls, when i come back to them the act different and more negitive around me. One day I they pissed me off so bad.
Later when I went on the in ternet a (guess what) a sex pop-up came. Being immature I clicked it. Wow i thought when it came up. I've heard of porn but not on this lv. I also visited it again but stoped because i (dunno) said this wasnt 4 me. Also when I get pissed or sad in my sleep i have dreams of sex and get an erection and allot of feelings. so thats what happens. Its wierd.... When at school things r going bad..... i think and sometimes want sex bad.......why GOD WHY!!!! (link)
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your friends arent friends find new ones.....second of all its not abnormal to think about sex...its a fact of life...human nature if you will theres nothing wrong with you because of that...i guess what your doing is misinterpreting emotions or retreating back to a comfort or security zone which may or may not be sexual. its not abnormal to think about sex just dont let it lead you in to unwise actions because thinking is 100 percent diffrent then actually acting on it. maybe you should find an outlit to pain like a sport or writing..e.t.c... you still probably have sexual thoughts because its normal..but youlll have something else to retreat to.
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I was reading another question and I got to thinking, is there really a point to shaving your vagina? Like, is it actually recommended and stuff? (link)
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it doesnt matter if you do or not its more of a preference it not recommended yet its not discouraged either its your choice really. doesnt matter.
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Hello. I lost my lighter, would it be okay if I lighted my ciggarettes with matches instead? Please let me know. I know this sounds dumb but I just need to be sure! Thanks! (link)
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not that its not ok just might be inconveniant why dont you buy another one
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ok so im 15
115 lbs
and 5'4
and i can say im in good shape
and ive never needed to work out
i eat alot
i dnt stop
and ive never gained weight
but im unhappy with mythighs
because i hate the fact that they touch when i walk
and they flatten out like pancakes when i sitt
can anyone helppp please
with like workout stuff i can do at home
that will give me great legs! (link)
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you know thats really not an unatural thing but if you want to do something to make them firmer you can get a thigh master do treadmil or ride bikes or join track
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So basically, I haven't been in school for like a week, I just don't go, I don't know why or anything, I just don't go to school. I also have a couple of pending court cases so I'll only miss more school, I really can't afford to miss all this school. However, I really can't seem to go to school at the same time. I was wondering if perhaps anyone could analyze what's going on with me right now or if other people have ever seemed to have this problem. Thanks. (link)
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yeah ive shared some of the same symptoms before and i can diagnose this as i dont give a crap syndrom...dont worry your not alone. i know you dont want to go to school i never really did either quite frankly it didnt thrill me. but i never really planned not going until the morning came to go then id just get that lathargic feeling in my stomach and just say screw it. but as the end of senior year drew near i realized something hmmmmm i dont really enjoy school not that i didnt have friends there...then i made another astonishing discovery hmmmm im going to fail if i dont and i really didnt want to add on to my sentance in school so that became my motivation. as for the court date just take care of business and dont wedge your self deeper,. this might sound over done but your the only one who can make the diffrence and its never to late to start new. so just get it in your head to go and you will itll be hard at first. but dont under estimate the power of the human mind you are the creater of your own universe if that makes since. if it helps write down on a piece of paper a positive thing you want in life and positve things you got to do to get it numerous times before you go to sleep or some other point in the day it sounds tedious to do but it will get embedded in your head to do it and eventually youll acomplish what you want. or make a goal board if you dont want to do either i myself am more of the visionary type and i just think about what i want to do or want to acomplish youd be suprised but positive thinking can go a long way.it all starts with in. if you need any more advice on it then just ask me.
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Hello, I dated someone for 6 years of my life... little did I know it would be the best 6 years of my life. We broke up for a variety of reasons but mostly because neither of us was in the right place for the type of relationship that was required. About 6 months later, perhaps less, my partner decided she was ready to move on, and started dated someone else. I was completely crushed but still wasn't ready to date her again. So I sat back while she dated this girl whom I knew was totally wrong for her and I kept trying to improve on myself. In the meantime they were up and down and finally I decided to disclose how I felt. That seemed like a great idea at first because she was receptive to the idea so I thought and said she'd give us a chance only for me to come to find her not really giving any of her heart to me. She put in what was necessary to appease me but no emotional feedback. Sex was inadequate at best, and it felt more like having a relationship with your worst enemy then it did the person you've loved with all your heart for years. I was hurt but tried to move on and have been dating an incredible woman. Only this woman lacks one things, she's not my love. Now, my ex is newly single and I can't help but feel everything for her still. She says she was still hurt by our break up when we tried again and hadn't yet got passed that. She says she has forgiven me now and loves me but doesn't know if she'll ever feel the same for me. It's painful yet I don't run away, I stay and endure. So what do I do? She's the love of my life, do I walk away and just hope and pray there is more for me? Or keep trying because if she is the love of my life how could you just give up on that? (link)
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ok she may have been the love of your life but that doesnt mean you were the love of hers.sorry if that hurt. and even if you were and she doesnt feel the way that more then its not going to work and you need to move on. theres plenty of other people to love you dont need to waste time being hung up on her if you cant handle being just friends then leave her alone because she has the right to live her life as much as you do.
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this girl ( lets call her "a") told this guy(lets call him "b") that i like him. ew. hes gross, but he has a good number of friends because hes funny. b thought i liked him. we were callling each other names. then he blamed the rumor on a. she blocked me on aim and im in none of her classes. me and b solved it. we said itt was done. today, i found out that he was talking about me behind my back. i dont know what to do! i wrote a hate letter but i dont think im giving it to him. im too scared to go up to a and b in person. what should i do?? (link)
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dont write a hate letter that can be used against you. i think you need to grow a i dont give a crap attitude. because this kind of stuff happens and its a little immature on there part. so dont worry about what people are saying or thinking about you. think about it who are they..theyre not above you. if a ignores you after youve attempted to reconcile then let her go. theres plenty of better people to meet outside of your social group.
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I have a problem of constant worrying about getting things done. I feel as if there aren't enough hours in the day to finish all the homework teachers give us, I don't understand the lessons, then I fail the test, then it all starts over again.
I'm about to break down and cry. I get sick from worrying so much! The stress from school is killing me and my demanding parents aren't helping. What should I do? (link)
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ok i think your parents need to take it easy just do your best thats all that you can and if other people arent satisfied including your parents then oh well. thank of it this way your like is going to be your life in the long run. so your going to have to start worring about satisfing your self a little more. your parents may not see that. if they dont then youll just have to let them go over your head until you hit 18.
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