So basically, I haven't been in school for like a week, I just don't go, I don't know why or anything, I just don't go to school. I also have a couple of pending court cases so I'll only miss more school, I really can't afford to miss all this school. However, I really can't seem to go to school at the same time. I was wondering if perhaps anyone could analyze what's going on with me right now or if other people have ever seemed to have this problem. Thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? illdomybest answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 11:04 pm: yeah ive shared some of the same symptoms before and i can diagnose this as i dont give a crap syndrom...dont worry your not alone. i know you dont want to go to school i never really did either quite frankly it didnt thrill me. but i never really planned not going until the morning came to go then id just get that lathargic feeling in my stomach and just say screw it. but as the end of senior year drew near i realized something hmmmmm i dont really enjoy school not that i didnt have friends there...then i made another astonishing discovery hmmmm im going to fail if i dont and i really didnt want to add on to my sentance in school so that became my motivation. as for the court date just take care of business and dont wedge your self deeper,. this might sound over done but your the only one who can make the diffrence and its never to late to start new. so just get it in your head to go and you will itll be hard at first. but dont under estimate the power of the human mind you are the creater of your own universe if that makes since. if it helps write down on a piece of paper a positive thing you want in life and positve things you got to do to get it numerous times before you go to sleep or some other point in the day it sounds tedious to do but it will get embedded in your head to do it and eventually youll acomplish what you want. or make a goal board if you dont want to do either i myself am more of the visionary type and i just think about what i want to do or want to acomplish youd be suprised but positive thinking can go a long way.it all starts with in. if you need any more advice on it then just ask me. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
Melody answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 4:04 pm: I have that problem. My mom literally has to make me go to school sometimes. It's not neccesarily that I hate going, it's just something about school that I can't stand. Honestly, i've missed more school in these past 3 months than most students do in an entire school year. It's pathetic. I've begged my mom to homeschool me. I told her zillions of times that if she wouldn't, i'd drop out. We fight over it so much, and it drives me crazy!
The only advice I have for you is to eat healthy (this helps with everything it seems like), go to bed at the same time every night, wake up at the same time every morning, take showers to wake yourself up, and do your best not to miss anymore. For me, it seems the more I miss, the more I don't want to go. Mainly I guess, because you know you'll get makeup work pounded in your head when you miss. Make it a new year's goal this year to stop missing so much school.
VainTaraLynn answered Monday November 6 2006, 10:08 pm: Well. I had that same problem, but I just didnt want to go. I missed so much school that they were going to file me truant and send me to juvi, which I didnt want so I started going, but was skipping class so I failed all my classes 9th grade year. This is probably something that you can solve yourself. Are you afraid of someone or something that happened at school and dont wanna go back? Or do you not like waking up early? Did something happen in your family that depressed you and you lost interest in school activities? Think about all of those and see if any of them apply. If you still have issues with going to school maybe look into changing schools or going to school online like I do. Although what I do is only available in Ohio, there are alot of internet schools that you can look into. Just google it. If that isnt the case though, look into getting a counselor to talk to and see if its something deeper than what I said. Good luck doll. [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
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