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Q: Im already having problems with my life right now but this just makes it worst!
Everyone has a girl in their school who is pretty, smart, friendly, flirty, somewhat popular.
My problem that I need advice on is how do I become that girl?
This girl, her names megan, shes short, blonde hair, pretty, smart, friendly, sorta popular, has an annoying voice sometimes, really flirty, talks about sex` bi (likes chicks n guys) a stoner but you cant tell.
She can become friends with anyone and they love her, she can start a conversation with anyone adn they talk back
Im not jealous of her bc she told me Im pretty too but I just cant be like her, I wanna find a way to be like her and I need real advice -not just talk more or flirt more- but real advice
So if anyone can help me out Id love that so please help me out Im stuck with this girl till Im outta school so I really need this advice
Please and Thank you
Just be yourself and don't care wat everyone else thinks. itz bad to try to be someone ure not. at the same time i just wanna point out that no one is perfect. also remember this always love and accept ureself for who u are....

Q: Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..
nope,itz not weird

Q: umm..... i'm not really askin for advice. but who's playing Cho Chang in the third Harry Potter movie? Michelle Ang or BoA? (i personally think BoA's better \m/>.
Cho Chang isn't in the third harry potter movie and the girl who will be playing Cho Chang is a girl named Katie Leung.
here is a link:

http://katieleung.uni.cc/

Q: i need help FAST how do to get rid of a hickey!?!!?! thankx!!
Put an ice pack or frozen spoon on the hickey and then use cover up.

Q: hey im a 15 year old girl and i have oily skin, any body have any good concealer/foundation/cover-up/powder ?
Clinique works the best

Q: Ok I heard a rumor and me and my friend were wondering if its true. If u wear sports bra's all the time will that reduce ur growth *if ur still maturing. Signed: Fully Matured
Nope, wearing sports bras 24/7 won't reduce ure growth

Q: Does anyone know how to get black ink off White shirts?
Use clorox bleach

Q: QUICK!! does anyone know what the two little theater masks are called?
One of them stands for comedy and the other one stands for tragedy

Q: I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!
Before you present relax and just take a deep breath and remind yourself that nothing bad will happen. You can also pretend that the audience isn't there and remember the audience are just a bunch of people that are listening to u. Also, practice ure speech and know wat u are going to say in front of everyone. Good luck!

Q: I didnt know what category to put it in soo... Dos anyody have any scary story ideas? I wanna know because I feel like rwriting a short story but I have zero ideas..Please reply.
Write about a serial killer or a stalker killing a lot of people and let ure imagination go wild.

Q: on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?
I think that ure supposed to have at least 8 glasses of water per day.

Q: Does anyone know some type of food that would give me more calcium? I heard that the age i am (15) is one of the most important to get more of it. I HATE milk, and dont really like yogurt or cheese. I am afraid I might get osteoporosis when i get older. HELP!!
take calcium pills recommended by a doctor and i hear bok choy which is a chinese vegatable has calcium too. and drink orange juice that has calcium in it.

Q: i have a really good guy friend and i waz wondering wat to get him for christmas. He likes skating and hackie sac. i'll rate!
maybe a t-shirt,cd, his favorite candy, cologne, wallet,hackie sac, watch, giftcard or a pair of new skates or maybe just check out the mall or look in a sports store. good luck!

Q: Ok I want to get a cellphone and I can get one for 20 dollers ( a flip phone ) but thats not the problem the service is. Like its expensive and crap. And we have to pay rent and bills so I dont know how we're or I am gunna be pay for the bill. Do you guys have any suggestions or any servies like cingular or something that has cheap plans. Thanks.
AT&T Wireless has some cheap plans depending on where u get it at or get prepaid minutes from the card thing. Good Luck! :)

Q: I collect coffee mugs. I have 804. I can't stop collecting them, every time I am out for dinner with my parents I cant' stop looking at coffee mugs. Mum accidently smashed one the other day and I just lost it, I was crying and screaming at her. I don't want to be like this, but I really love my mugs.

Am I obsessive compulsive?
I think that it may be OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). Sorry not trying to scare you or anything but u may need to seek professional help like a doctor or psychiatrist if you wanna get over it or need it to be handled. But if u wanna continue collecting mugs itz ure choice. Good Luck!!!! :)

Q: is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!
theres nothing wrong with crushing on a guy who's darker skinned or black

Q: A guy named Kiel, who works at the same place I do, started giving me notes, asking me if I had a boyfriend and kept telling me how nice I looked. Then we started talking on the phone. He kept asking me if I wanted to date him. At work, a lot of girls flirted with him, but he didn't flirt back. He basically only talked to me. He seemed very interested in me. Today, Kiel called me. We talked for about three minutes. Then, all of a sudden, some very angry girl in the background yelled, "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!" (The chick DID NOT mean that I was his gilfriend, she meant that someone else was.) There was silence for a couple of seconds and Kiel said madly to the girl, "NO I DON'T!!!" Then the girl sounded even madder and told him, "F**k you!" Then some other background noise went on. After that, Kiel said, "Can I call you back?" I said, "Yeah," in a what-the-hell-is going on tone. Then I told him bye (a little nicer) and hung up. Then, a few minutes ago, my phone rang once, then stopped. Maybe he accidentally hit redial.

Then the SAME girl that was yelling at Kiel called me from a different phone number. Here's our conversation:
Me: Hello?
The Mystery Girl: Who is this?
Me: Sarah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call Kiel. He has a girlfriend.
Me: He does?
The Mystery Girl: Yeah. Do you know him from work or what?
Me: Yeah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call him. He's f**king stupid. He has a girlfriend.
Me: Ok. Bye.

What should I do? I want to find out the truth. I really like Kiel, but of course I don't want to be with him if he has a girlfriend. What would you do in this situation?
I'm sorry if my advice sounds really bad but this is probably the hardest question I have ever tried to answer and I'll try my best. Well, personally if u really liked the guy that much u should probably just go for it and shouldn't listen to the mystery girl calling u.

Q: What should I do to remove my leg hair?
shave or wax

Q: Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?
have a friend sleepover at ure house and at night turn off the lights so it will b completely dark and remind ureself that all the stuff in scary movies are not real. And in the dark it will feel peaceful and calm. remember itz ure mind that is like telling u something is gonna kill u. And then try the same thing when u are by ureself by turning off the lights again at night. Good luck!!!

Q: I have a really really sore throat, what are some home remedies to cure it?
gurgle with a cup of warm water mixed wit salt, drink plenty of water or maybe tea and suck on candy or lozenges.

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Peachgirly



"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."


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