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I can't stand her, shes perfect?
Im already having problems with my life right now but this just makes it worst!
Everyone has a girl in their school who is pretty, smart, friendly, flirty, somewhat popular.
My problem that I need advice on is how do I become that girl?
This girl, her names megan, shes short, blonde hair, pretty, smart, friendly, sorta popular, has an annoying voice sometimes, really flirty, talks about sex` bi (likes chicks n guys) a stoner but you cant tell.
She can become friends with anyone and they love her, she can start a conversation with anyone adn they talk back
Im not jealous of her bc she told me Im pretty too but I just cant be like her, I wanna find a way to be like her and I need real advice -not just talk more or flirt more- but real advice
So if anyone can help me out Id love that so please help me out Im stuck with this girl till Im outta school so I really need this advice
Please and Thank you
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Just be yourself and don't care wat everyone else thinks. itz bad to try to be someone ure not. at the same time i just wanna point out that no one is perfect. also remember this always love and accept ureself for who u are....
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ok im not gonna lie to you it REALLLY bothers me when all people want is to be popular. who the f***cares anymore. (unless your in middle school)but ok just be your own person don't try to be like someone else thats soo stupid. just get a grouup of friends and stick with them and you'll be happier for it.
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MAKE OVER!!!!!!!and practice flirting!
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Okay why in the hell do you wnna be like her she sound liek eww..I can tel lyou right now straight up guys DONT like girls who are sluts or smoke.Just be you be preppy,wear pink, and be outgoing, be polite and friendly as hell..Try to laught more,and when you walk or talk look people in the eyes and hold your head high to show people you are who you are and so many people with like you and pretty soon wanna be you.. hope I helped
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Ashlyn
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hey.. im kinda that girl at my school. mostly my signature is my height (im like half a head shorter than the average girl) *blushes*. lol. just be realllly outgoing and spunky and seriously just don't give a damn about what people think. i make an idiot of myself 24/7 and i just kinda get up and take a bow (not seriously). i mean i just go down the hall and shake people's hands and go hey i'm vicky. i'm a freshman.. anyways see you later and just walk off. i just try to keep an open mind about stuff.. i have alot of gay friends and like 7 realllllly good friends and they're all from different cliches. some people would kinda consider me a poser i guess because i occasionally wear nothing but black and then on other days im wearing express jeans or a&e and aeropastle. you've just gotta put yourself out there and meet people from everywhere. just don't go over your head and make sure you know who you can really trust. i mean i have alot of banger friends but i woudln't trust myself going somwhere with them for a long time.. same thing with my preppy friends. i know if i go to one of their parties without one of my good friends i'll end up drunk or something. so just make sure you know who your true friends are. hope i helped?
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Find who you really are, don't try to be someone else. Also, become friends with her. She will notice you if you do all these little things like lend a pencil or open a door for her. Wait to see what happens. You don't need to "talk more or flirt more" to be that girl. Be yourself, and everyone will see you shine. Hope I helped.
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I know what you're saying, but you shouldn't try to change yourself. If people can't accept you for who you are, then screw them. You shouldn't try to be anyone else, but yourself. Try being the first one to smile or say hi. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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You shouldn't try to change yourself and become like someone else. Be yourself, people will like you for who you are. One thing you can work on is maybe at lunch, introduce yourself to someone you don't know and get to know them, and vice versa. That's what I did one time and I became friends with this one girl. But don't try to be someone you're not, some people don't respect that and will not like you for it.
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A lot of times, the people who seem really perfect to you, aren't. Sometimes if you really get to know them, you will find that they have really a really bad home life, or they are very insecure, or they have some other problem. Sometimes they are actually very insecure, but at school they may put on an act to cover up their insecurities, and therefore they APPEAR to be very secure with themselves. My best friend for example, is pretty, blonde, tall, and very outgoing. All the guys want her, and all the girls wanna be like her. But since i know her so well (ive known her since kindergarden), i know she has a lot of insecurities. She gets depressed a lot b/c ppl think she is a slut. And my other friend for example is like the most popular girl in school, she appears to have it all. But then i found out that her family is kind of poor, and she absolutely hates her mom. So when you think someone is perfect, look at them closely-- they're not. So stop trying to be perfect because all that will happen is you won't become perfect and then your self esteem will just be even lower. And hey- for all you know, some people may be looking at you and saying 'wow shes perfect, i want to be just like her.' So just be yourself, and people will like you for who you are.
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She probably isn't perfect, I mean if she's a stoner how is that perfect?
Don't change yourself just to be one of those girls. We all want to be "that girl" but it's never gonna happen. All you can do is boost your confidence, don't be afraid to speak up, talk to more people, and show everyone just how cool you are. That's not what you wanted to hear, but it's true.
And who knows, there might be someone that thinks you're the perfect one, and they want to be just like you.
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Honestly, you need to stop wanting to be like this girl and just be yourself. What do you think that girl is doing? She is just being herself. Sure you think she is perfect, but I'm sure she doesn't think the same way. No one is the same, so just be yourself. Don't try and be anythign you are not. No one wants a phony person for a friend. People want what is real. So be real.
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Its not really a person, its not like people are born perfect. its all confidence. If you have confidence in your own skills they suddenly become the best things ever to have. How you carry yourself how you look at life sends out a positive glow, people like others like that. So basically (wait for it) got to be happy with who you are. You too have abilities its not like you completly suck at everything, that special thing which you're good at will help.
Don't wish you were someone else, make your own skills lovable- show them to others. Be nice to everyone.
See your flaw in all of this is that you think they only love her because she is perfect. People don't like perfect people they're damn right annoying, but what they do like is people. You put in this very question that she isn't perfect- a stoner isn't a very cool thing to be not so perfect. You can get people to like you, just make sure that you still are you at the end of it all. Keep your own self in it at the end. Don't go turning into something else.
So basically don't copy her talents- enhance your own. Be original and people will love that. What she has is confidence to talk to people and a nice outlook on life. That isn't to hard to obtain- mainly just practise. Good luck with it, you are nearly there anyway, just need that confidence to be yourself.
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hmm, you wanna be like a stoner? thats always a GREAT title to have...."hey guys im a stoner so im sooooo freakin popular!!!" ok look, im one of them not so popular people, granted im a guy and your a girl, and girls like WAY WAY WAY more attention. I see the popular snobby faggets all the time and to tell tyou the truth they just flat piss me off, not because i want to be like them (id shoot myself) just cause how you see them treat others cause they think they are so cool and so pretty. Thats not pretty thats what you call an annoying B***H. You dont need to be like that girl that you described to be popular, you dont need to have that kind of personality like a past post said, you just need to be yourself, and the people that see that should be enough popularity for yourself. Cause who wants to hang out with the flippin snobs? And if your really flirty, bisexual, talk about sex all the time, everyone loves her, smokes dope. All that right there spells out SLUT so dont try to be like her be yourself.
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I can try to give you advice, I am that girl, my personality is just that way, and that's what it has to be , your personality...it has to come off as natural and if it can't then you could try to practice it...llike don;t be shy. Be comfortable in whatever situation you're in...bi sexual is something you can't try to be...you have to be that from the inside from the beginning. Just be a kind person, don't give anyone a reason NOT to be friendly with you and you can be everyone's friend. Be comforable with yourself. enjoy life.
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ocay this will never work..you have to be yourself
learn to be happy with who you are...
and not trying to be mean or anything..but umm..
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