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Q: How long does it take until i get people to ask me some questions?
Just start ansering questions to all sorts of people and if others see what they like from the advice you gave to others then they will go to you thats usually how it works-trix

Q: ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?!
Tell him to cool it and if you 2 start going out you have more room to say otherwize-trix

Q: ok well i like this guy,he dosent know it but he likes someone else anyways. And the girl that he likes and really mean and if she found out that i liked him she would probably do somehtign readlly mean to me, I want to tell this guy how i feel but i never talk to him and i barley know him! what should i do because i am really scared to tell someone that i like him when he already likes someone and the girl likes him back..!HELP PLEASE!!...thanks
Not much you can really do except hang out with that guy more and talk and joke around with him more and maybe he may start to like you more-trix

Q: Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?!
He is most likely 2 faces and is playing with your heart so i would forget about him and go find yourself someone better-trix

Q: Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!?
We all get hurt and we move on and the time heals the pain so i would go for it be careful-trix

Q: what is spooning
Its when to people lay close together in the same position. -trix

Q: How do I get a boy to like me ?
Well you cant just like get a potion as much as we all wish we could we cant unfortunately. So just be yourself and be a funny person make the guy laugh alot and flirt towards him. And you are bound to catch his eye. Now if you dont even got the guy to notice you yet just smile alot and laugh and be outgoing and after you talk grab his number and say maybe ill give ya a call sometime say maybe though that way its a lil bit mysterious :)-trix

Q: I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead?
Well you did just meet this guy that night so i would listen to your friend because I am sure you friends knows more then you do (no offense sorry) but guys can really fool you they act good and they talk like nothing else is up-trix

Q: i was wondering if anyone knows how to get their website known to ppl?
Post around places.-trix

Q: why does god hate me?
God hates noone pal just love and follow him and you'll do just fine! but no god doesnt hate you!! :)if you have made/caused/or done something bad just ask him for forgiveness-trix

Q: this isnt a question didnt know were to post,i came across your site when i tapped in free advice ,i must congrat u ,im know one of the columist know it is a great site, and i just wanted to say keep up the good work, im sure your site has helped many a folk,
Thanks i'd have to agree with ya there being i do work here and do my job daily or so i'd have to say its a awesome site for kids/teens/adults stuck in a bad prob. and need help.-trix

Q: I like to eat the crumbs, and small ones first, even if I have to dig deep in the bag. Sometimes, I dump them out to get to the small ones. People think I'm weird. Am I?
I dont know i like smaller chips then bigger chips i guess me and you are just speacial like that! but nothing is wrong with that! i dont dig down to the bottom i just break the big chips in half or before i open the bad i crush them lol -trix

Q: She is 4 and she almost always wants to pretend to be a cartoon character, and wants me to be one too. Sometimes, I just am not in the mood to be a cartoon character and talk in a silly voice. I already told her I won't do it in public, and she understands, but she still bugs me to be characters at home. How do I get her to stop this, or at least not expect me to play along with it every time? It's getting old. Does anyone else have kids that do this?
My lil cousin went through that stage then my aunt got lil kids to come over and they did it and i think he relized how stupid it was when they asked him to be barney.. but he was 5... so i dont know-trix

Q: I don't meant to sound mean, but if a person has flab hanging out, they should not wear tight, revealing clothes that a skinny person would wear. I'm tired of seeing women in particular wearing halter and short tops with their flab hanging out the sides, and their bottoms straining the seams of their tight, low-cut jeans. I'm not a skinny mean girl saying this, I have extra pounds on me and I try to dress in a way that flatters me and hides what I don't want to show off. Do these women think they look good? Are they in denial? What is the deal?
They probably are just something i like to call overally confident.. and they are probably in some denial or maybe they weighed alot more before hand and are proud of themselves for loosing so much-trix

Q: Hi, my name is Faith. Not my real name because I'm wary of that on the web. However I need some advice on how to bring a subject up to my brothers without causing anyone to be mad at me and my husband. My husband and I own our own home and for years have been sharing our water tap with my brothers who live next to us. We would now like them to have their own water taps because none of us should be paying a penny more than our own usage. We all have several children, we have a pool and one brother has a smaller pool for his children (not a kiddie pool). Our feeling is the only way to be fair is for everyone to have their own. My husband has delegated me to talk with them about this and find out when they might be able to get their own tap. This makes me extremely nervous. I know this costs money and they don't have extra piles of it lying around. I need a fresh perspective and some really good advice. I love them and don't want them to get upset with us. Please think about this and advise.
They should understand tell them to put themselves in your shoes and let them know that you dont have piles of money lying around either.-trix

Q: i would like to remove the odor of cat urine in some padded fabric, any advice?
My parents used Pet deoderizer I think they got it from like k-mart or wal-mart one of those kinds of stores.-trix

Q: I have a schlong.. should i stick it in with or without a condom? eh...??? answer me fast
Well haha "chris" im not pointing any fingers by any chance but i do believe this could be "chris" "paul" but umm "chris" "paul" you go ahead and do what you want to do lol if you think you should go for it! lol -trix

Q: Marijuana is obviously one of the most popular illigal drugs. but is it really a bad thing? I have personal experiences and well to tell truth, it doesnt really hinder your judgement, nor does it make you feel invincible. All marijuana does is make you really goofy. Ppl say that car accidents happen alot due to marijuana. what these ppl over look is that those kids that are in the accidents are also drunk. which is what really hinders and clouds your judgement.
Is there actually any REAL physical harm that will come from marijuana, aside from the obvious?
Burn out and dumber some people say but getting caught is bad buts thats all the obvious too. But All i know is its plain and simple.. bad for you.. i mean everybody knows that some wont and some will admit it weather they do or dont do it but I could go on about all the obvious.-trix

Q: im a guy that wants his girlfrind to kiss him, but doesnt know what to say or do... HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
Well when me and my boyfriend Nathan had our first kiss we were on our bikes saying good*night and we have this thing whenever we say good bye we wish on a star.. idk its just something we do.. so.. we had both wished on a star and we said our good-byes and i started to ride away and he grab my sweatshirt and said wait and leaned in and kisses me and leaned by and smiled and i said well my wish came true.. how about you and is like it did and so I gave him a hug and he put his hand on my waist and gave me another it was just how things happaned and it was sweet but every guy and girl has there own way of doing things. Ask her if she wants a kiss but then.. that could ruin the fun and the surprise in it I, personally, am glad nathan didnt ask cuz i liked how it just kinda happaned rather then me being all ready for it cuz what if he didnt the balls to do it? that'd suck huh? so just go for it buddy!!-trix

Q: can a girl die form having sex?
She can if she got STD's then she could afterwords so yes you could say she could die FROM having sex but thats the whole STD story-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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