ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?!
SWAN answered Saturday June 19 2004, 3:12 am: Well loser..or cool..i dont think that really changes their personality..much as..popularity or appearance..if you really like him you could see past that he's such a dork lol..but about the acting stupid part..maybe he's just never really had experience with a girl or something..maybe he just gets intimidated easily..and you need to show him how not to be..understand? lol..just talk to him more and tell him when hes acting shy and maybe give him a heads up when he is being shy..i really hope this helps you..allright have a good one..
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Friday June 18 2004, 10:09 pm: You should confront him of his problem. After that, you should warn him of when he is doing it. Make sure to give him his good side too (like you mentioned he's not stupid and stuff like that). Hope I've helped you out at least a little. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday June 18 2004, 9:10 pm: If you like this guy for who he is than you will understand his dorkyness and leran to love it. Hope i helped! :)
Niki answered Friday June 18 2004, 7:09 pm: If you think the guy is a loser, then find someone else, but you defenitly can't change him. You will regret it if you try. Just find a new guy. Good luck!
isthatdisposable answered Friday June 18 2004, 5:55 pm: If you think this guy is a loser, then maybe you shouldnt be with him. Maybe you are embarrassed of who he is or what he does and if that is the case, maybe your not ready to be in a relationship especially with him! Try talking to him about it, communication is the key to happiness! [ isthatdisposable's advice column | Ask isthatdisposable A Question ]
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