Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!?
Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx answered Saturday June 19 2004, 1:30 am: Alright...well see everytime you get hurt you seem to grow, you learn what went wrong and im thinking that u cant see any of the little hints wit this guy, well i think that there is a mr. right for everyone out there...everytime that you get a "mr. wrong" he will just [even if he hurts you] will make you stronger and know for sure when the "mr. right] comes along knocking at your window! i dont think that u could be toolder than me if u are, soo i mean u still have time...dont settle down to fast! alright i hope i helped! and if anything dose happen just girl one of ur girfriends a call N do a "girls night out" thing [ Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx's advice column | Ask Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx A Question ]
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Friday June 18 2004, 10:13 pm: Maybe the problem in the past is that you didn't know how to trust them so you only wanted a guy worth it. It seems to me that you have said this guy is def. worth it! Getting hurt is a part of life and love, it never feels great, but you never know, like you say there could be this great love experience waiting for you. Hope I've helped. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday June 18 2004, 9:16 pm: You're right. You shouldn't miss out on this love experience. Okay, alot of guys seem the same but not all guys are the same, and you can't keep assuming that they are. You have to overcome your fear because if you don't thsi guy may be a keeper and you may miss out. Good Luck! :)
XoTruebrunettExO answered Friday June 18 2004, 8:52 pm: if you want big rewards , like the love for you boyfriend , you've gota take big risks (getting a broken heart) .. just think he's doing the same by loving you isn't he .. i just heard this quote on tv.. the bravest may not live long , but the cautious never live.. think about it [ XoTruebrunettExO's advice column | Ask XoTruebrunettExO A Question ]
isthatdisposable answered Friday June 18 2004, 5:59 pm: Wow yes I have been in the same situation before! Having a broken heart is the risk you take when you fall in love with someone. I was the same way. I was too scared but now I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I couldnt be happier. The point is, you have to take a risk. You dont wanna look back on this 5 years from now and wish you had done it differently, do you? Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Keep communicating. [ isthatdisposable's advice column | Ask isthatdisposable A Question ]
LykViolencUhavMe answered Friday June 18 2004, 5:30 pm: well it sounds like you really do like this kid. personally i think being afraid of going out w/ a guy is only going to make you regret things. its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all... [ LykViolencUhavMe's advice column | Ask LykViolencUhavMe A Question ]
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