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Q: hAvE a hApPy fOurTh oF jULy!

You too!

Q: Hey everyone,
I really love this guy. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Whenever i think about him, i smile uncontrollably. Just talking to him makes me melt. He's so sensitive. One summer, we talked all night about little things that we like, and really deep things. He's the type that's into deep thoughts, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Led Zeppelin, and even poetry. I myself love writing meaningful thoughts and especially poems. He's not in a serious relationship with the girl, and I dont even think theyre right for each other. Im the only one that sees his sensitive side. I love him for who he is, not who people want him to be. Hes not like other guys, and i dont know what i can do to get him to like me the way i like him. if anyone has any good advice, please share it with me. i am madly in love with this guy and will go to shocking lenghths to make im mine, and me his.

Well i would tell him cuz if you 2 are soooooo close it shouldnt be to hard and i am sure he will understand but maybe you may want to find out weather he just likes you as a friend and maybe you are more of the best friend type and not the gf type so get the facts first.-trix

Q: So me and my ex-boyfriend talk so much becasue we know for sure we are gunna get back together soon, this is just a break. But anyways, he told me that i was a horrible girlfriend which was bull *thats a reason we broke up* .. well, i wanna know some cute things that I can do that will really show him I'm still so in love with him. Any ideas?

Just tell him how you feel and what he means to you and how much you really like him and you cant afford to lose him-trix

Q: how come whenever i log in it says i have 1 new in my inbox but then as soon as i click on the inbox it says i have no unanswered questions??

dunno that happened to me b4 too... its just having a gay moment prolly.-trix

Q: hey i need some advice from the guyz in here!! wat do ya look for in a gurl?!?!

thanx!!

Im not a guy or anything but the guys you may be asking im sure are all totally diff. and they all have diff. aspects ... like for example maybe a gothic guy wants a gothic girl... and you may not want that and maybe a booknerd wants a nerd who loves all the geeky sort of stuff.. be more specific.. trix

Q: have any of ya guyz heard the remix to SlowMotion by Juvenille?!?! ((if so isn't sooooo kool))

thanx!!

Q: if there are any anorexic ppl on right now can u give me ur aim are yahoo s/n because i need help!!!

bAhAmAmA0250... why? you should maybe got to a counsolar or something

Q: so i have had bfs before and went to movies with guys or w.e but i never really tt my mom about it its just not me. i am 14 btw. so the other day i went to the movies with my bf and came home and then i wanted to go again 3 days later and my mom said no becuz i went before and she doesnt want me going alone with a boy becuz i am too yound and it is so annoying. i need to see my bf or we could break up or something. its just all screwed up. plz help me
thank u if u can

Tell her how you feel and tell her thats what you want to do and you wont do anything stupid because thats just not you... or maybe say a friend will tag along or maybe really do tag a friend along and have him do that to and have the 2 friends sit sumwhere else... -trix ((rate me))

Q: ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
any advice? thank u

Dont worry about it i think everybody has a spurt like that over there bf. i know i do.. but what i did is i brought it up to him and he just said dont worry about it you can come to me anytime you want i love you and that wont change. and that pretty set it for me and yes i did have some worries after that but thats just normal... so bring it up to him-trix

Q: if you stop eating what happens do you gain weight are lose it i need to know this stuff!?!?!?!

Obviuslly loose weight.. thats what leads to being anerxic and you dont want that thats because it eats your fat away... you dont want that.. maybe not later in the process because it could lead to a life or death situation... -trix ((rate me))

Q: ok so i had anoriexia for a while and i recovered. i am at a normal weight now, and i have these 2 best friends. 1 went on a diet and is thin now and the other isnt as thin as my other friend but is very pretty and fine the way she is. so now she said started dieting and she doesnt eat alot. like..hardly anything. she always brings it up it seems like she wants attention and she always says stuff like "hey i ate something today!" she also said she is doing this to be thin like we are, and to impress us. no matter how much i talk to her and tell her how bad what she is doing is, she doesnt listen. and she alwwayyss brings it up. i am going to go crazy and idk exactly what to do.
help if u can
xo *

WOW! i have been in the same sitution also im recovered also from anerixia and 1 of my best friends always say I had something to eat today or if food is in front of her she'll make a big deal of it and if we dont make a big deal if it too she wont eat but if we do she will eat... but i've learned not to make a big deal of it because she saw that her master plan wasnt working and when your best friend tells you "hey i ate something today!" just say I c or something without fasanation to it and she will get bored of it eventually-trix ((rate me))

Q: Ok...So I know this kid...and well i see him a lot...and i've grown to love him...a lot!..is it right for me to do this? and also...he told my friends to ask me if i liked him...so what is that supposed to mean? does he like me back?

*signed* Confused and Questioning

It usually means something im sure he might like you a lil bit if not alot... just a hunch.. but maybe you should have a friend of yours or both of yours and ask him if he likes you... and maybe that can help out more-trix

Q: I want to get to know this girl but i dont know how to start to talking to her. She is always with someone else and im too shy to go up to her and say hello. plus what if she thinks im a dork or something b/c she's like 17 and im only 14. What do i do to make her notice me??!

Okay.. first off your just a girl out there and just try to catch one of her interests and she may see that you both have the interest just try to be noticable or have you and a friend approach her.-trix

Q: I just found out that my best guy friend of 3 years has a crush on me. At first I was so confused about how I felt about him... I told him that I didn't know if I liked him back. But after I thought about it, I realized that I do like him. I would ask him out, but here's the problem: He went out with my sister *she's only a year younger than me* & he was pretty jerky to her. He'd hit on me right in front of her, and as if that isn't bad enough, he broke up with her by calling her from another friend's house (who was a GIRL btw.) Then a day after their breakup, he came over to my house & starting apologizing & crap, saying that his friend made him do it. He was so mean to my sis, so I'm afraid to get involved with him. But I think he might've changed. Should I give him a chance?

Well first off talk to your sister and then talk to him and see what he has to say for himself and if you do believe he has changed then give it a shot but if not then i wouldnt do it-trix

Q: If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>????

It should my aunt told me about that when i went into the hospital for anerixia but it should because your body wants to eat off fat. -trix

Q: my friend who lives far away from me is cominf to visit me foR A little while and i am worried that she will start liking the guy i like too,and that he will like her back what should i do??

Ha simple.. dont make plans with him and when she is here dont keep contact wit him-trix

Q: this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?

Its what they like in music they cant help it just like you cant neither so just dont critize them about their taste in music.-trix

Q: alright well i was best friends w/ this one chic like really close we couldnt be seperated but then she moved like a few cities away. for a while it was no big deal in fact for about a yr and a half we still hung out and everything but then she started getting into drugs and hanging out w/ the wrong type of people u kno so we kinda ended up drifting apart. she still lives close enough that we go to the same mall so occasionally i or some of my friends would see her there. and whenever i saw her she would be all happy to see me and nice and stuff but everytime another friend sees her they tell me she talks crap about me. i recently got her AIM sn and we talk online and shes kool but im not sure i wanna let her back in my life

You could be just aquaintences but not best friends again and ask her about the whole talking behind your back thing-trix

Q: Ok so i am almost 15 and i lived with my dad untill i was 12 and 1/2 then i moved in with my mom but now i want to live with my dad again becuase all my family is here and i come from a big family and when i live with my mom i only had her as family so i am very lonely cuase i live in a diff state then the rest of my family and it makes me depressed and i wanted to know if any one had any suggestion on how to tell my mom i want to move back with my dad for 10th grade and mind you i need an answer soon cuase i need to tell her on thursday june 24 becuase we are having a family meeting and i want to tell her before then please help me thanks so much

Well just let her know that you think sense you are going into highschool its important to finish the last 3 yrs up with your close friends you dont want to start over new you want to continue with the friends and people around you back home. Just tell her how you truely feel cuz thats really important say graduation is important to graduate with the people you care most about. And you could visit her (your mom) on holidays and during the summer let her know that you wont be gone you'll be around.-trix ((please rate))

Q: I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression!

Well you could go to the pool, skating rink, dances, the mall, arcades, go-carting places and meet some new friends. Maybe you should talk to them and see what happans through that and work something out with them and tell them how you feel. Maybe if that doesnt work you could transfer schools and start all over again maybe you could meet some of your boyfriends friends.. thats always a good idea-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"