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What to do....? I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression!
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Maybe, you should start going to the mall with your bf and start talking to people. it might strange, but it will be the only way to meet someone new if you arnt going to a different school or anything. maybe you could go to some parties and meet people there ]
being popular aint so great tho.. if u think you should go back into that group go ahead just dont become all snotty.. im popular but im not da snotty type im like the fun kind every one likes me but alot of the other popular girls thinks im a fag cuz all da guyz like to hang wit me so they start rumors.. its not always a free ride being popular so i think you should just like stay out of there an go to like sport camps an stuff... good luck!
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Well you could go to the pool, skating rink, dances, the mall, arcades, go-carting places and meet some new friends. Maybe you should talk to them and see what happans through that and work something out with them and tell them how you feel. Maybe if that doesnt work you could transfer schools and start all over again maybe you could meet some of your boyfriends friends.. thats always a good idea-trix ]
You should try to make new friends, there are probably a whole bunch of people you don't know at your school. If your fed up with everybody, try going somewere like a skating rink or something were other people that aren't from your school hang out. I'm really happy for you and your boyfriend, however, I know no matter what, friends are always nice to have. I hope you get the new friends that you need and deserve. Hope I've helped out a little. ]
You shouldn't make yourself be friends with people you can't stand. You will only become more depressed because you will feel like you are living a big lie. Go ahead and go out and make some new friends away from your school. I bet you will feel alot better. Good Luck! :)
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try goin out intot he public alot more often. be brave and talk to ppl you have never talked to be for. you shouldnt sit there and try to deal with the ppl that your sick of. ]
Well, i think it would be a good idea to meet new people and start over. Maybe if you had a cousin or something around your age you could ask him or her to introduce his or her friends to you. You could also start being involved in community things or something. Well it depends if you are in Middle school or High school because in High School there are so much more oppertunities for friends! Dont be stressed about about who to be friends with or not there is always someone there for you as a friend whether it be your mom your dad just anyone. I hope this helped! ]
WOW HUNNY! I swear that was me ALL Through high school!!! I have a boyfriend who loves me unconditionally and taught me sooo much about myself. I have ONE best friend too! She has gotten me through alot! Ya i did hang out with all the popular people but i never really fit in all my years in high school. Not that they were rude or anything to me, it was just i felt as if i never belonged and that my morals were different. My advice is to be yourself! Meet new people! It makes you feel great inside when you can make someones day by just bein nice and saying Hi to a stranger! Im sure there are plenty of people out there that you will be GREAT friends with! You just need to look out for the right ones! ALl i can preach to you is stay true to yourself, because when you are not and all fall into bad things, its hard to find yourself again! good luck and if you need help you can always ask me ?'s!
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