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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better??
Oh god.. I know how that is. But you just tell him to leave you alone if he cant accept the fact that you just want to be friends! Ignore him if he keeps asking you. He will get the point. I mean the nicer you are telling him no he wont accept that so make sure you mean it! He will get the point. Good luck babe!
okay so theirs this kid i like..and he likes me, and when we hang out we're gonna "hook up" i've only made out with some one once, and it was last year.. i'm kind of scared, but i want to do it. I know their really is nothing to making out, but what if i'm bad at it, or idk how he's going to approach doing it. Have any advice?
See, the more you worry about messing up you will end up doing it. All you have to do is relax and follow his lead and you'll be fine. Since you already had expirience once before dont worry about it. Just have fun with it and dont think you will mess up.
The first day i get my period i always feel sick. i feel like i have to vomit and i get these really horrible cramps that actually make me cry. its only the first day i get my period. after the first day is over i dont even get cramps anymore..but my question is why do i get like that the first day of my period.
thanks
I dont think its anything you should worry about. Cramps like that are pretty normal. Before I`d get them and I just freeze and I couldnt walk because it hurt so bad but then the next day it would go away. It always happened! But it`s pretty normal and nothing ever happened. Just drink milk when you have cramps. I know its weird but honestlly it helps. That is also what my doctor told me so just try. And relax.
when i go to sleep and have my period sometimes blood stains through my pants what can i do to prevent that?
You should always wear a pad before you go to bed. Even if you leak its okay.. I mean it happens to all of us but if you wear pads it wont happen as much. If you think it will happen again just wear some older pants or short to bed.
whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone?
Going out is when you acually have a girlfriend or boyfriend. Hooking up is more like a one night thing or not an acual relationship.
can you get pregnant from anal sex?
Nope, only from actual sex. Nothing else.
okay, well i had sex with my boyfriend 5 days ago and my period is irregular.. we didnt use a condom and im really scared that i might be pregnate.. how would i know if i was pregnate and what are the possiblilites of me being pregnate? thnkx ! 14/f
ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!! Always..There are some posibilities that you could be pregnant. Here are some signs that you could be pregnant.
There are many signs associated with pregnancy. Most common is a missed menstrual period, but since not all women have regular periods it is important to watch for other pregnancy signs as: breast tenderness, nausea, heartburn, extreme tiredness, and frequent urination.
Just to make sure.. if I were you I would get a pregnancy test. That is the only and for sure way you will ever know.
Hi I'm in the 6th grade but anyways well wen i'm in skool there is this boy who whacks this chair against my chair, calls me stupid all the time, hits me and kicks me and all that crap and yet hes nice to me but i just dno if thats a sign of flirting and him wantign to get my attetion or just him hateing me and we are friends he sed it himself...plz help i'm just real confused
Hmm.. thats how immature guys acted.. back in the day. All that stuff usually goes back to in the 3rd or 4th grade but I guess thats just his way of flirting. && he probablly does try to get your attention that way and I think he acually might have a crush on you.
I know this might sound nasty but ever since i can remember i have been having this really bad smell in my private area. i know most boys joke around talking about tuna smelling and stuff but i dont think its a joke. i dont think people can smell it when i hang out with them but im not sure if they smell it when i wear shorts? and i get this nasty white stuff in my under wear and mom knows about it. and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i dont want to smell and i dont want him to see that white stuff in my underwear. is there anything i could do to prevent from smelling because i wear purfume anyways. and how could i keep this stuff from my boyfriend. i really havent been smelling that bad lately but i dont want him to see the white stuff. can you please help me? anything will help!
thanx so much!
always kayla i rate high
That white stuff is discharge and its very normal for every girl. Yes sometimes it does tend to smell but you just need to keep yourself clean. Wear light pads so it doesnt get on your undies and you can just change it every 2-3 hours and you wont smell. Just keep yourself smelling good and no one will notice. Sometimes when you get discharge it means you might be getting your period soon so you might want to watch out for that. He wont see the white stuff and its just a normal thing so dont worry!
i am 5'2"
and i weigh
117
is that fatt???????
b.c i feel it
plz tell me!!!! thanks
x0xfattness?
No you're not. You're just fine.
well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
I think thats a really cute idea!! Make him a scrap book or a picture frame! Scrapbooks are not only for girls! If you decorate it with things he likes and with meaningful pictures he will really like it!! That means you took the time to make him something special and it means you care a lot about him!
do guys like it when girls moan while there fingering them? or does it syke them out
Most guys do like them because they find it sexier and it makes them think that you are enjoying it a lot!
heyy i saw your layout and i found 1 that i wanted, for advicenators, but i have NO idea where to put it in custom settings! if you could help that'd be great.
-thanks
Okay first of all save the background. Then if you have photobucket or tinypic put it there then copy the URL. Then go to Column Setting and then it will say Page background image (URL) and then you just paste it in there. Pretty simple.
is 14 too young to masturbate? please be brutally honest
No, it is not too young.
Dose any one know some good ways to pleasure you self?
For a girl or guy? For a girl you can just finger yourself and for guy just use your hands.
Where do you get your cute backgrounds?
I get them from my xangas! =) I just copy the url and just copy it. You should do that too! Theres a lot more options!
Ok my friends bday is tomorrow and im going shopping tonite but i have no idea what to get her! she doesnt need any clothes bc she goes shopping like every other dayy and im not goin to give her a giftcard bc she doesnt need anymore clothes lol! Our friend is getting her a purse...our other friend is getting her the jessica simpson lipgloss perfume lotion...so what should i get her? Shes going to be 13! please helpp! Thanks!
Get her a CD she likes.. you can never go wrong with money! Make-up,jewerly,scrapbook of everything you guys did together, picture frames,sunglasses.. things like that. When ever you go shopping for it you'll find something. It just depends what she's into.
Ok im 16/F and i just had sex for the first time last night and now i cant pee...idk what to do i try and try and nothing comes out...whats wrong..is this normal? But i cant tell my parents bc they'll kill me..also we didnt use a condom and i got sick this morning...am i pregnant? Idk what to do im so scaredd..please help! Thanks
Its too early to tell if you are pregnant. Its okay to feel a little bit weird after your first time but you'll be fine. If it keeps happening just get a pregnancy test just to make sure. Dont worry too much tho. I think you'll be just fine.
i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal?
Yes, very normal. It`s also healthy in a way.
ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions?
Depends how big your house is and where your puppy is staying. Maybe you could put it in your room if it isnt too small? If you keep it clean it wont smell or anything. You could try to find some room in the basement. I mean the litter box doesnt take that much room so I`m sure you will find something. But you're lucky that you're getting a kitty! I wanted one my whole life! Lol.. good luck though.