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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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ok im a f/ & this is kind of a gay question but mii boyfriend wants 2 kiss me, &well, idk i dought he has a desease like aids or anythin but if i kiss him & he ever did, could i get wut he has if he has sumthin, thnx!

Yes, you can get aids from kissing him, if your spit happens to mix up (which it will). Aids travels through your DNA, so it's highly likely that you chould get aids, if he did have it.
♥ Krissy

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well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better?

Just tell him that you haven't done anything "below the belt" before and for him to start of with 1 finger. Then maybe he can use two fingers. Just make sure he's not too rough. It shouldn't hurt, once you get used to it.
♥ Krissy

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Last spring break I went to florida with a friend. During my time there I meant this guy I fell head over heels for him. He was different, he wasn't like most guy. So I spent every day that I was there with him I never had that much fun,but all good things must come to a end it was time to go home. We still kept in touch but not for long. One day he never called me back maybe I did or said something. And along time has past and now I have a good boyfriend but I m just scared of falling in love again I dont know what to do? Please help!!!!!!!!

If he hasn't called you back, I hate to say, he probably won't. That doesn't mean you should give up hope. He could be just busy and hasn't gotten around to it, you never know, so don't stress it. As for love, you can't make yourself fall it love. When it happens, it happens. You have no control over it. Don't be scared to fall in love, it's the best thing in the world.
♥ Krissy

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hey,
well ok i am 18 years old and i have a boyfriend that i really like but lately i cant stop thinking of my good friend and its weird cuz shez a girl but i think i might really like her but then when i think of what would happen if i did go out with her well i'd be scared because how would my family take to me liking someone of my own sex? i really need to know what i should do plz help and fast

If you like her, you like her. You can't change the feelings for someone and you can't tell your heart not to like someone, because it just does. Your family might be a little mad at first, but your their daughter, they can't be mad at you forever. You should tell your boyfriend, he'll probably be cool with the hole idea.
♥ Krissy

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I am sexually frustrated. I havent gotten any kind of pleasure in over 6 months, when I dated my ex bf chris. Ever since he and I broke up all I have done is kiss guys, only 1 guy. I am really horRny and I need a guy. Idk why I feel this way. Is there something wrong with me? I have not has sex yet, but I love kissing and I love oral even more. I have only ever done everything but sex with one guy and that was chris. So its not like I am a slut. I just want plesure from a guy. Is there something wrong with me? I have this really good friend and he and I are best friends and we always kiss when we are with eachother and we feel eachother up and we have talked about getting closer and more physical but we havent and we both want too. How can I take the next step so that we do? I just reallly wanna have sex! Or oral or something! Even just kissing!

There's nothing wrong with you, sometimes some people just like being with someone. I'm sure your guy friend wouldn't mind getting closer to you, I mean he is a guy right. So, yah go for it. Ask him if he would like to take this "relationship" futher!
♥ Krissy

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Hey, this morning I woke up and my eye was crusty. And then I looked in the mirror and it was all red. it still is. My mom said it might be "Pink Eye" but my eye doesn't itch, and it's not really goopy. Does anyone have any ideas on what this is?? I rate all 5's.

You probably have some sort of eye infection. Get your mom to take you to the doctor so you know for sure. Don't put your hands around your eye; you don't want your eye getting more infection with the germs from your hands.
♥ Krissy

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heyy, my friend told me i should go out with this guy who happened to be her ex, but theyve both dated other people and moved on... so now hes my b/f and we like each other a lot,and when we hung out at the mall the other night with my friend she started liking him again and now shes making me feel all bad cuz shes like "oh i'll never stop liking colt, and i will always love him" and "he was mine but now you have him" what should i do?? and how should i handle my friend?? love, lauren!!
ps.. colt is my b/fs name

This isn't your fault at all. She's the one who told you to go out with him, so you probably thought everything was cool and she didn't like him anymore. It sounds like she's a bit jealous and she realize how much she missed him when she saw how happy you guys were together. I'm sure she'll start liking another guy soon. Try hooking her up with someone else. As for her and how you should handle her. Just tell her that he's your boyfriend now and you guys broke up. If it was ment to be, you guys would still be together, but he's with me. If she still liked him, she shouldn't have told you to go out with him. I'm sure she'll cool off about it soon.
♥ Krissy

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15/f. So I like this guy, and I think have a pretty good chance with him. Well we've only seen eachother twice because we both are friends with this one girl. I havent seen him in a while but we talk online and I just love talking to him and stuff. He said I was really pretty and yeah anyway. He needs a job a this one store, and I know who owns the store. So i'm going to try to get him the job..if I get this job for him hopefully somehow that will raise my chances of going out with him.(haha) I'm just confused because if I never say what I feel, we'll just be friends. But what if I do tell him I like him and he doesnt wanna go out with me? And then our friendship is ruined. I dont know what to do. Sorry if this is confusing! *I rate*

I'm sure your friendship isn't going to be ruined, just because you told him you like him. Just tell him this: "I really like you and I was wondering if you wanted to go on a date sometime. If you don't want to, I'm okay with that and I hope we can still be friends"
♥ Krissy

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ok my best friend has this secret admirer but i know who it is its a girl but she really wants to know who it is but if i tell her it might hurt the other gurl thats "bysexual" and i'd feel really bad so what should i do helpppp!!!!!!!!!!

If I were you, I'd tell her. She's going to find out either way. Then if she finds out you knew all along, she'll probably be mad at you. So, I'd say tell her, it's your best bet. She can't get mad at you for telling the truth, right?
♥ Krissy

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Well ok im going out with someone but i like a lot of other people alot, and is this bad, does this mean im cheating or watever if i like other guys a lot?
Thanx I'll rate!!

No. It doesn't mean your cheating on him, because you like another guy. Cheating is when you do something sexual with a guy, other then the one your with. If you have strong feelings for this other guy(s), maybe you should dump your boyfriend. It isn't fair for him. It will give you sometime to get your head together and see if you turly want to be with him or the other guy.
♥ Krissy

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How long does a pimple last? like on average how many days/weeks is normal

It's different for everyone, there's no average day/week a pimple last. If you wash your face or use some sort of pimple cream, I'm sure it will slim the days/weeks down.
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For class, we have to do a profile/interveiw on someone that we know. We have to have at least 20 questions and i dont know what questions to use. I will rate 5's for effort

Ask them basics: Their name, age, birthday, shoe size, birth place, where they live now, height. Their Fav: Movies, songs, t.v's shows, websites, girl names, boy names, bands. What they like to do on weekends, if they do any school sports, any sports besides school sports, what they like to do for fun, etc, etc.
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my sister like the same guy as i do! were the same age and its really bugging me!help help help thanks so much!

Tell her who you like, so you both won't end up liking the same guys at the sametime.
♥ Krissy

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If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!

No, your braces wouldn't get stuck together. I used to have braces and I always thought that would happen. I just think it's a stupid myth.
♥ Krissy

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i REALLY like this boy..his name is blake. well usually everyday after school while we r goin to the buses i see him. one day i accidently hit him with the door and when i walked outside he was like hey dont hit me with doors! and when we are walkin down the hallway, ill walk behind him and hell turn around and then hell see me, turn back around, then turn back and look at me for like a minute. then, today i was walkin wit my friend jessie and we were talkin to blake and then she turned down a different hallway so me and blake talked for like 3 minutes about nothing so then i started walkin in front of him and i was talkin on my cell tryin to find out who this one person was and he kicked my bookbag. well i turned around and he was talkin to this one girl and they both were starin at me and i mean he was lookin RIGHT at me. do u think he could like me? he knows i like him.do u think he was flirtin wit me at all?

I think this guy could like you. I mean, he's always following you and such and looks like he's flirting with you whenever he gets the chance. You should ask him to a movie one night.
♥ Krissy

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Does anyone know where i can find coca cola or Dr Pepper Bedsheets?

You can go to google or yahoo and look up "Coca Cola or Dr Pepper bedsheets", or try ebay. They have mostly anything your looking for. A store? Maybe you could try Wal-Mart, Sears, Zellers or a store where they sell beds/bedsheets and such.
♥ Krissy

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I wanna take a friend on vacation with me in a month, but I'm really scared about what my other friends will say. I mean, I can't just not tell them!

My friend was in the same place as you. When we were in grade 8, she went to Florida and was allowed to pick a friend to go with her. She picked me and our other friends were kind of mad at her for awhile. They'll get over it though. Just next time you go on a trip, take your other friend, then so on and so on!
♥ Krissy

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ive never had my period but ive been having a lot of white discharge. i s this normal when your 13 years old?thanks for your help

Yah, it's totally normal. The write stuff is discharge. It just means your body is getting ready for you to start your period.
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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?

Friends don't go out with friends crushes. But, if you had no idea that she liked Drew, it's not your fault. If you knew she liked Drew, you shouldn't have said yes. But, from the looks of what you said, I don't think you knew she liked him. So, it's not your fault at all. You like the guy and he likes you. He doesn't like Nicole the same way she likes him. I'm sure she'll get over it when she finds a new guy to crush on. Go to the dance with Drew and have fun, but keep telling Nicole your sorry and that you didn't know she liked him.
♥ Krissy

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hey i have a b/f i really like him but not everyone exepts him my grandpa said that he was going to ocme thool and kill him and whenever he talks about him i feel uncofterable what should i do

That's so weird. What did your boyfriend ever do that your grandparents what to kill him? I think you should talk to your grandparents and tell them everything you love about this guy. Then maybe when they hell all the good things about him, they won't hate him so much.
♥ Krissy

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