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Is this bad?


Question Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 5:06 pm

Well ok im going out with someone but i like a lot of other people alot, and is this bad, does this mean im cheating or watever if i like other guys a lot?
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charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 1:01 pm:
It is not cheating. But it is wrong and untrue to your boyfriend.

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Karen answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 1:00 pm:
No, it doesn't mean that you are cheating on your boyfriend. Cheating is when you are unfaithful and do something sexually with another guy, other than your boyfriend. Since you like a lot of guys, you should dump your boyfriend because it's not fair for him. How would you feel if your boyfriend was liking more than one girl? Think about it. Hope I helped :)
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CheRRiiEz_2005 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 12:14 pm:
ok well you will always like someone else and think other people are cute no matter what but the question is if one of these other people you like wanted to go out with you or do something with you would you do it?? if you would then maybe you need to think about your relationship a little harder because you would cheat so easialy! the same thing happend to me and thats the same relationship im in now, but i did cheat and he forgave me because i was lucky! hope everything works out!
shaiina

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 1:03 am:
you arent cheating just because you like someone else but yes it is wrong. -trix

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IwannaMakeUrheartSkip answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:53 pm:
Well techniquically if you haven't done anything with these other guys then no it's not cheating. However if you have feelings for other guys then maybe you should re-consider if you should be with the person you're dating.

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JadedinNowhere answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:20 pm:
well, if you like other guys, that must mean you aren't THAT attached to the first one. I think you need to meet the people, and take it slow.. it's like a whole bag of truffles with different fillings. If you eat to much you'll get a stomach ache. It's better to savor them one at a time.. You have time, so don't rush.

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neEdsoMeheLp answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:30 pm:
not exactly.. if you do something with those feelings and stuff then yeah its cheating but if you like the other guys way more then your bf go with your feelings.. thats very important to do that! hope i helped xOxjiLl

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sPicYx0hoTt answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 7:13 pm:
THATS DEFiNiTLY BAD -- Y0U SH0ULDNT LiKE M0RE THEN 0NE PERS0N iF Y0UR G0iNG 0UT W. THEM -- D0NT TELL HIM Y0U L0VE HiM!

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BABiixiMxY0URS answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 6:01 pm:
ALL i HAVE T0 SAY iS THAT i`VE BEEN iN A RELATi0NSHiP F0R 0VER A YEAR N0W. . . AND i C0ULD NEVER HAVE TH0T 0F LiKiNG ANY0NE ELSE. i H0NESTLY BELiEVE Y0U`RE N0T READY F0R A RELATi0NSHiP iF Y0UR THiNKiNG AB0UT 0THER PE0PLE. Y0U D0N`T NEED 0NE EiTHER. . iT`S N0T S0 BAD T0 N0T BE iN A RELATi0NSHiP. . AND iF Y0U D0N`T SEE Y0URSELF WiTH THiS GUY F0R L0NG Y0U NEED T0 C0NSiDER GETTiNG 0UT 0F THE RELATiONSHiP S00N. 0N THE 0THER HAND Y0U MAY REALLY LiKE THiS GUY Y0UR WiTH AND MAYBE Y0U GUYS HAVE BEEN T0GETHER F0R A L0NG TiME. . iN THAT CASE i THiNK Y0U NEED T0 HAVE A TALK WiTH Y0UR MAN AND C0NSiDER TAKiNG A BREAK T0 SEE H0W iT W0RKS 0UT F0R Y0U. . .

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zapreth answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 5:33 pm:
It depends on the nature of your dating relationship adn the way you act with others you like. There is nothing wrong with likeing lots of people. Everyone has different things about them that can attract someone. What is wrong is if you HAVE a serious, eclusive, "I'm only dating you, BF/GF kind of thing" and you make an active move on someone else. This isn't casual flirting, this is like going on a date or kissing or knowing you don't want to be with your current guy anymore. If you find yourself unable to resist another man, then you are cheating. There is always temptation, you just need to learn to trust yourself and know what is most important to you. Luck and Love!

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MummuM answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 5:27 pm:
No. It doesn't mean your cheating on him, because you like another guy. Cheating is when you do something sexual with a guy, other then the one your with. If you have strong feelings for this other guy(s), maybe you should dump your boyfriend. It isn't fair for him. It will give you sometime to get your head together and see if you turly want to be with him or the other guy.
♥ Krissy

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