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We like the same guy


Question Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 5:05 pm

My friend and I like the same guy. He goes to my church, and my friend comes to church with another one of my friends, so sees him on Wednesday and stuff. Anyways, she and her friend just found out who I like a few days ago because I decided to tell them. And I'm glad I did. But, she didn't know that I've liked him longer than her. Like, ever since this school year started. He's older and goes to a different school. Is this wrong that we both like the same person? I know that her feelings aren't hurt or anything, but should I let her know that I've liked him for like ever? Thanks and I rate well.

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XSoul0ficeX answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 2:57 pm:
Don't get too competitive. You shouldn't risk your friendsip over a guy. But, yes, you should tell her and promise to hook her up with a better guy. If she doesn't back off, don't get too hard on her. maybe you could come to a compromise?

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neEdsoMeheLp answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:32 pm:
well its kind of cool to like the same person so you can talk about that person ((me and my friend liked the same person be4 and it was pretty cool)) but if you really like him enough to go out with him then you should tell her you liked him first and that maybe you could go out with him first then her.. but if not and u juss like him cuz hes hott then you shouldnt bring up the time that youve liked him xOx jiLl

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lyDia_LoU answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 6:58 pm:
How long you've liked him doesn't really matter. And it's okay that you like the same person-you're friends so you will prolly have the same taste. Things only get tricky when he asks one of you out. Good luck!

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uacctk14 answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 6:31 pm:
trust me i'm in the same situation don't tell you're friend too much because even though you might think that she wouldn't tell him your business she might just to get him cause thats what happened to me; tell him that you like him i regret now that i didn't tell him because my friend who only met him for like 2 weeks and shes only seen him twice too asked him before i had the courae to tell so tell him that u like him or face the consequences

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