There is this new girl at school. Well, she's not really new, but she left a long time ago and just now came back. Anyways, she took a while to settle in, but now she is. And she happens to pick our group. Well, when she was at our school before, she was really mean. Now she's nicer. But she's really annoying sometimes. She always sits with us, but we kind of leave her out. And as bad as this sounds, I don't feel bad for her. Me and all my friends are so close and everything. But she's always there and follows us and it gets really annoying. What should I/we do? Thanks and I rate.
Additional info, added Tuesday January 11 2005, 9:57 pm: And also, I don't like her. Is there anyway we can "get rid" of her? And her mom is involved and would get us in trouble. And she gets really upset when people talk bad about other people. So yeah, it's gonna be really hard. Is there anyway we can quietly motion to her that we don't want her. We try reserving spots at tables for our other friends, but is that all we need to do?? I know that she's trying to "fit in", but why can't she "fit in" in another group of girls. She doesn't seem like our type anyways. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xplicit answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:23 pm: Do you only find her annoying because she tries to hang with you and your friends? If it is, I would attempt to get to know her more. Just like you said, she's nicer then she was, maybe her personality has been "tweeked" a little bit. Talk to her in some of your classes, and encourage your friends to do the same. Don't become to close to soon, leave a little space there just incase you end up not liking her that much. At the same time, however, don't lead her on! [ xplicit's advice column | Ask xplicit A Question ]
XxRockon answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 7:23 pm: hmm..maybe you could give her a chance and just see if maybe she will be less annoying if you guys include her. maybe she is just trying to get your attention so you will include her and it just seems that she is acting annoying. if you try this and it doesn't work..you could try introducing her to some other nice people and maybe they will take her and then you guys will have her off ur hands. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
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