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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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My brother's friend Dan is wicked hott! and he always shows off his stomache to me and stuff when hes at my house. we flirt a little. He even was goin to beet up a kid that was being mean to me, him self. i really like him, and he may like me. the thing is that he's my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me. would i be betraying my brother or would he even care?

I'm pretty sure that he would probably care that your trying to hook up with one of his friends. I mean, your his younger sister. You know how brothers always want to protect their baby sister. But hey. You only live once. You and this guy could be perfect together. Ask him out! Even if your brother gets mad at you, he won't be mad at you forever.
♥ Krissy

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ok, im going to a fifteens party tomorrow(for those of u who dont know, its like a sweet sixteens, but for fifteen y.olds) and i dont know what to do w/ my hair. i dont wanna wear it down cuz its thick and i only like it down when its blow-dried, but i dont have enough time for that...so any ideas what i could do with it?

You could put your hair up in a pony tail, wrapping some hair around it. Or you could put it in a messy bun, leaving some peices hang down. You could curl the peices that are out of the bun, that would look cute.
♥ Krissy

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Today my dog fell down the stairs, and she can't really walk. She can, but she falls over and stuff. She keeps throwing up flem and foam. We're taking her to the vet in a few hours. I was wondering, they won't have to put her to sleep right? Like, the worst they could do is give her fake legs?? Thanks =(

I don't think she'll have to be put down. They might just give her something to help her legs out. My dog has bad legs too. That happened to her aswell, she didn't have to get put down or fake legs. She just got some pills and she was okay. I hope everything will be okay with your dog hun!
♥ Krissy

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I got an expander the other day and my speech sounds horrible I also have to activate it. Does anyone know how to activate it properly? Also when my speech will come back, I sould metally retarded?

Oh god. I had an expander too. The dork I am, I thought I could eat once I got it on. So my mom took me to Burger King and I got fries stuck up there and everything. It was really funny, but that's besides the point. It actually takes awhile before you can talk and eat properly. It took me at lease a couple of months. Don't worry though, you'll get used to it soon and you wont know even notice it's there.
♥ Krissy

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Okay well I've had sex and done the works or whatever, but i had never had an orgasm. So I tried, for the first time ever, masturbation. Well to my surprise it was wonderful!! But it started to feel so good that I had to stop myself. I felt like i couldn't keep going or something... so i just stopped. Is this normal? Or should I just try to keep going through or what? lol I know i must sound stupid but i'd never felt like that before so its weird!!

Yah it's normal. Stop when you feel like you should stop. It's just that you know your body so you know what turns you on and not. So when you do it yourself you feel so much better. Maybe next time, tell the guy what you like best (that way your doing it) and it will be that much better.
♥ Krissy

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okay there is this guy i like at school we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have gotten to be closer friends and i mean we hug and we'll put our arms around each other and walk down the halls like that till we see a teacher or get to close to the office, im not suer if he is flirting or not i think he is but still not sure ya no? if it helps he calls me home grl and things like that and he smells AMAZING! what ever colone he wears smells really good on him! so i still dont know what to do cuz he doesnt have aim so i couldnt talk to him like that plz help!

You could try asking him to a movie. If your too shy to ask him in person maybe right him a note or get his phone number and call him. It looks like he likes you if he's spending that much time with you. So go for it. You only live once.
♥ Krissy

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I really needed condoms, my boyfriend didn't have any. I didn't feel like going to the store to get some, so I took some from my brother's room. I think he noticed because he asked me about it, what do I do?

Your going to have to tell him the truth sooner or later. I'm sure he's not going to mind. At lease your having protected sex. He's just your brother he can't be mad at you forever.
♥ Krissy

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Well hey i've never been scared to get a piercing cause i have pretty many.. but i dont know really anybody who has a tongue piercing and i wanna know does it hurt..how long does it hurt.. if you live in cincinnati wheres a good place to get it done..and i would like to know about how much it will cost..i rate high..and thanks bunches if you can help..~*DEZ*~

My friend got her tongue pierced and she said it didn't hurt at all. I've heared that getting your tongue pierced is as painful as getting your ears pierced. (Which isn't painful at all). Your tongue just bubbles up a lot and you gotta clean it every hour for a week or something so it doesn't get infection. Down here it cost 45$, it's probably different every place but probably stays in the same costing range.
♥ Krissy

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I've noticed my mom acting very quiet and different today. I think that shes feeling depressed. This isnt accually a thought, its obvious. I saw that she got books from the library about depression.
Anyways, Im feeling quilty myself because I feel that being the 'teenager' I havent put enough effort towards the house. I dont think thats its menopause because she's only 40. but I dontknow. Also my brother is having a baby, its not that hes too young. But maybe that its scaring her that shes going to become a grandma?

Should I be feeling Guilty? It just scares me because I dont want my mom to be depressed..

You shouldn't feel guilty because your mom's depressed, but you could be there for her. Try talking to her about whatever's getting her down. Maybe she just needs someone to be there for her and someone for her to talk to. She's probably scared of being a grandmother. But just be there for her and tell her everythings going to be okay.
♥ Krissy

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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?

Yah, it's totally safe to have sex with your wife while she's pregnant.
♥ Krissy

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I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry.

Molesting would be him touching you in places he's not suppose to be touching you. Making you feel so uncomfortable that your scared to be in the same room with him. Or him getting you to do things that you don't want to do. I'm sure by him telling you that you have pretty green eyes, that's not molesting. If he starts to do stuff, touching you and such, I'd try to get help or turn to someone you trust.
♥ Krissy

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I recently moved to Lauisiana from NJ and in Nj I dated this guy for 6 months and we were pretty much crazy about eachither...he was my first for everything, then on our 6th month annaversery my parents moved my to NJ, we decided to try a long distance, relationship, but i couldnt stand it, i got very depressed so did he, we broke up because we thought wed get better , but we didnt, i'm still in love with him and its been 4 months and i think he feels the same way, we just cant get over eachother and i dont knwo what to do! help, its killing me i miss him so much

It looks like you care and love him a lot, as he cares and loves you a lot. You can't make yourself get over someone. If your still in love with him, your still in love with him. Nothing will help you get over your frist love, because you'll always have some feelings for the guy that took your heart. If you both still love eachother, why not give it one more shot. I mean, it's going on 4 months since you guys broke up and you still love eachother. Sounds to me like you both could make it work. Long distanced relationships are hard, but if you both love eachother and are willing to make it work, it will be great.
♥ Krissy

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Okay this s really embarressing..but I dont have my period yet..but i get this "discharge" stuff in my underwear...Is that bad to have that..or is that just normal? xx HELP

It's totally normal hun, nothing to worry about. It just means that your body is getting ready for your period to start.
♥ Krissy

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i told this girl i like her knowing she prolly did not like me back...she deosnt like me back...i wanna win her over she thinks im really funny...wut shood i do? (how do i win her over)

Act yourself, that's the number one thing. If she thinks your really funny, keep being funny. That could definitely win her over. Maybe you could ask her to go to the movies with you one night, just as friends. Then just be a total sweet heart. Try to spend as much time as you can with her and get really close. She'll then get to know you and could start liking you. Good luck, I hope you get this girl.
♥ Krissy

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I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :(

Just ask him to use 1 finger, so it doesn't hurt as much. Then maybe when you feeling alright with that, he can use 2. If he's hurting you, you chould tell him to lay off the going so hard on you and ask him to do it easyer.
♥ Krissy

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Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder

You don't have a disorder. You're probably just shy.
♥ Krissy

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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them?

I used to get that when a guy would dump be. It always turned out to be a bunch of bull and he would have a new girlfriend the next week. Some guys are just not worth your time. There's better ones out there, you just got to keep searching.
♥ Krissy

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after you get your period, does the discharge stop or continue?

Yup. It will still continue when your period has stoped; once you get older the discharge will stop.
♥ Krissy

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I have mad wavy hair and its really poofy sometimes not to mention frizzy. My birthday is coming up in a few days and i was thinking of getting it straightened because it would probably look better. What is everyones opinion on this because some people told me that it drys out your hair and makes it fall out? Is that true?

No. It doesn't dry out your hair. I have really curly hair and I got a stright perm and my hair was really shiney. It doesn't dry it out or make it fall out, don't worry.
♥ Krissy

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ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though

If you like him and you want to do it, go for it. Just as long as he's not trying to make you do something you don't want to do.
♥ Krissy

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