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Q: ok im the girl who had a problem with a guy being....obsessive about my butt. well i hit his hand away and stuff like that did everything that u guys tld me to. i even told on him about i guess sexual harrassment because i was in spanish and we were taking siestas and he came and layed on me. well none of the teachers see it cus hes "slick" so they wont do anything about it. i dont want to go like file a suit and sue him but like i do want him to stop. hes going to my hs so i figured he'd stop because there will b plenty other girls for him to....run after. but i want to kno wut i should do about the school not helping me.

Well maybe you could go to a counsolar like i told someone else i know counsolars arent what we would call the cool people but whatever they can help you when you need help the most or maybe you could go the principal about it or something someone that works at the school and helps it out... or maybe a teacher-trix

Q: hi im 15 years old and a guy...and i dig this chick alot, we went out before for like 8 months and then we took a "break" and a few days later shes going out with my buddy and to make a long story short, me and her were hangin out at my house and her b/f dumped her and she acted like we were goin out or somethin and then the next day her and her ex are doin the same thing...what the hell do i do?

Well sounds like you are her lil play toy... i dont think thats something you want so i would ask her what the hell is going on you arent somebodys play toy or something on that ground but dont be completely rude or something bad could come out of that but just talk to her but try to get it when its just you 2 and not a bunch of people because then that only leads to other things-trix

Q: It would be really nice if after you rated a question that you would be sent back to the page of questions where you came from instead of the beginning. Can that happen? Thanks

Well in your column you can click on feedback and click on the number and it will show you the question and the answer-trix

Q: Does anyone else have flashbacks about things they regretted doing or things other people did that unnerved you? I have never done LSD or anything like that. I know they aren't real. It doesn't keep me from doing things, but it makes me shrug sometimes in reaction to it.

I think every has lil flashbacks of what they wish that did or hadnt done ... its normal im sure and if its not half the world is unnormal then but everybody does have regrets of doing something and not doing something of which they should have done-trix

Q: one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx.

Talk to her and tell her you are extremely worried and you dont want her to mess up her life at such a young age and you want to know whats going on and where shes going in life-trix

Q: Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy

The best possible thing to do right now is talk to everyone that is pretty much mainly invovled in all this and see what happans from there or maybe you could all talk to the counsolar or something like that i know the counsolar isnt "cool" or whatever but sometimes thats what you have to resort to at times in need weather you want to or not-trix

Q: I'm 15 n my bf's 17.Earlier we used to speak about a lot of topics but now we feel at a loss of words.We simply don't know what to speak about.Could u please give me some topics to speak about?(Besides school)
-Butterfly004

Who cares if its the stupidest things to talk about as long as your talking talk about what you want to do during the summer or what you want to do when you get older or where you want to live who cares if its stupid like i said earlier-trix

Q: this is jazi14 and i am on smilihunz sn and my cuzin has a ?. she wants to know what 2 do about this prob she is having. see here is the thing.....she likes guys and she thinks she likes gurls..what should she do? she is worried that if she says somthin to her friend that they will not like her and she is only in the 7th grade. she said that she has had lots of boyfriends but yet she finds gurls attractive. what should she do? she does not have one of this things so she asked me to do it for her.... so can u give me some advise to give ti her @ jazi14 thanxs my cux really would like yo help.

well being that she is soo young i dont know if she completely knows what she is thinking so many things run through your mind when your young and so dont really think to much of it and as for telling the friends... i dont think she should tell them because this could just be a trick her mind is playing with her but maybe if she keeps getting these thoughts for like... a few yrs from now then maybe she is... but are you sure she doesnt find girls just pretty? check that-trix

Q: so my good friend jack is going out w/ my x-girlfriend and they are IN LOVE. well me and his gf Liz are still good friends and we always tell each other that we look good if we do. well yesturday @ my bday party i texted her saying she looked really good....cuz she did. well Jack read that text and now hes really mad @ me. but he knows thats how we are so i dont see why hes mad. someone help! please!

*text guy*

Well i would give it the best try of apologrizing as you possibly can i mean as time comes and goes he will forget about it less and less and give him time to relize that you 2 are just that way and that it really didnt mean anything more then just saying that she simply looked real good and thats about it and that you dont want to loose a friend over something like this because thats the last thing you want-trix

Q: I can talk to my best guy friend Matt on the phone for hours... and still find things to talk about. We talk on the phone a lot, but it's always me that calls.. or him calling me back. So I thought well I'll wait and see how long it takes for him to call me..

A week goes by, nothing.

Finally I have to call him, and we have like a two hour conversation and he even complained that we hardly talked the last week. (In my mind I was thinking yes and it tore me apart.) I mean it seems like he likes talking to me, but he never EVER calls..

What's the deal? Is that a sign he just doesn't really want to talk? Or am I reading into this to much. I know how it feels to be called my someone who you REALLY don't want to talk to, but talk to anyways.. maybe it's like that?

I'm so confused..

Well maybe what you could do is call and see whats up and find out if he has his reasons for not calling you back... i mean that could be a reason you never really do no... do you ever say you'll call back and dont? that could be just like but with him if that makes sense or maybe he forgot your phone number and is to emberassed to ask for it back or just doesnt like calling ppl in the place.. or something of that situation ... well i hope i helped-trix

Q: I am a level 2 moderator and I accidentally deleted a question. It was a very good question and I did not want to delete it (I was trying to hit view). Is there any way I can fix this?

Well 1st off i dont know how you could have not have relized that you deleted the question being that it asks you if you are sure you would like to delete this question... but hmm sometimes you can hit back back back on your computer and it may give you it back but ... no its not that high-tech yet but maybe some day... maybe you could put it in the pool that somebody gave you a question and put your advice column name and then maybe that person will relized it and see that you deleted it on accident and get back to you-trix

Q: I definatley didnt know what to put this under so i just picked that Well ne ways my question is are you supposed to shave pubic hair if your a girl?

Well its optional. Thats your own decision really but if you do theres major razor burns... so thats one of the bad sides to it all.. but do shave the sides... if you were a bikini cuz ya no but no you dont have to its your choice all the way-trix

Q: Ok I have an advise column on here. I try my best to answer questions and i think i do pretty well from my ratings. But some people are being very cruel and sending me things that say stuff like: I have a problem, i cant stop thinking about __my name__.... and HOW I CANT GET HER OFF THIS PLANET. and stuff like that.. and they tell me how much they hate me!!!! WHAT DO I DO?!?! I dont want anyone to hate me or anyyyyything like that! I dont have bad feelings about anyone i know... i just dont understand why people would hate me!!! ahh

Well respond back to them and ask why they think that and what did you ever do in the first place-trix

Q: does anyone know anything that i can do around the house that will get me $?

mop, sweep, dishes, laundry, vaccuum, dust, and ect.-trix

Q: does bikini touch really work like it does on TV?

It depends on what brand/kind and where but give it a shot sometimes things on TV are majorily fake they will pretty much do anything to get money-trix

Q: theres this guy and we r rele good friends but i want to take it a step up with out getting hurt HELP ME!!!

Ask him what and how he feels about it what he thinks about if you 2 went make you could make it seem like a joke so its not that hard to ask you could be like do you think it would be wierd if we went out together... being we are such good friends and stuff?-trix

Q: i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do?

Well you have to try and not be shy i know that is about the stupidest advice anybody can give you right at about this point but thats all i can say try and think less of how you act and maybe you wont be so shy just try and think of him as a good friend that it doesnt matter what you do around him-trix

Q: i gota bf i lik him wel he has this friend she is a pain she always talks to me n says y cant u see him alot whats the deal etc and ik i cant iv been busy and i tell him i call him and i am very stressed out i want to c him more but i never can seem to go his friend is wicked annoying im sick of trying to read his mind he is so confusing. please gimme advice... :(

Talk to him about and see what he says and tell that girl that you know and you wish that you could see the guy more and you do your best to see him as much as your possibly can but its hard because you have alot of things going on during the summer and your life right now but she may get the idea that you dont have time for him so try not to make it sound like that --trix

Q: how do i get a girl 2 like me (and iv already told her i like her please help) and were both 14

Well as we all wish that there was a magic love potion there isnt... so that plan backfires :) but you cant really get someone to like you you just have to be yourself and compliment her and be nice towards her be funny girls like it when guys are funny... i hope you get her good luck-trix!!

Q: Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say?

Tell her you had no part in it at all and you dont want to get in the middle and you dont want to lose any friends at all you still want to remain her friend and everybody else's friend to so thats why you dont want to be caught in the middle of someone else's battles-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"