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I'm 15 n my bf's 17.Earlier we used to speak about a lot of topics but now we feel at a loss of words.We simply don't know what to speak about.Could u please give me some topics to speak about?(Besides school)
-Butterfly004
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Just talk about random things... Talk about *GREAT* things that went on in the past during your relationship, it will usually lead to more kinds of topics...
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Who cares if its the stupidest things to talk about as long as your talking talk about what you want to do during the summer or what you want to do when you get older or where you want to live who cares if its stupid like i said earlier-trix
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you prolly need to spend a lil less time with him and do somthing else and then you cantalk about what you did sometimes if a conversation is really boaring i yel something out like "omg" or "dirty socks"thats just me but idk talk about thing you do and ask him questions like about his family or somtin just let it flow. k?
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either you guys are spending too much time together or (hate to say this) losing intrest in each other. i really dont know what to tell you except for talk to him about this.
~Amber Jo
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aight. first you want to talk about him. talk about what he likes to do, his family, his friends, ect. then turn it to you and him: stuff you have in common, things you like to do together, funny memories, ect... then swing the conversation around to you and keep it there until you think of something else to talk about.
~accolade~
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Maybe you are spending too much time with your boyfriend, and not enough time reading. Even the newspaper has current issues in it that would help. I also like to listen to NPR news in the car (well this would be a little hard since you are 15). The news on TV helps some. Or the serious sitcom you watched the night before. Abortion, the War in Iraq, crime, who you want to be president are all good ideas.
Then there are thing you would want in the future: where you would like to live, what your dreams are, etc.
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Just think about what you have in common. For example, do you both like creating things [crafts or poetry], what sports do you like, what are your favourite genres to read?
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