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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing.

Maybe you could try getting her screen name from a friend that knows her. Start up some converstations on the computer, then be like "I've seen you around school all the time and you look like an interesting person". Once you know eachother enough, maybe you guys can start hanging out then take it from there.
♥ Krissy

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I hav 2 bessies Emily and Fi but i really dont like emily. we've been friends for years but i cant stand her. I dont want to make fi choose because we're really close but i know i cant go on like this. I often snap at emily and we say horrible things to each other and i feel really bad afterwards but i'm in a really sticky situation and my heads all messed up. Can u giv me sum advice on wt i shud do?

You need to talk to Emily and tell her it's not right that you guys are fighting. You don't want Fi to choose between you guys, because thats not right either. If you want everything to work out, try to start a friendship back up with Emily, so everything will be good for Fi.
♥ Krissy

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Im going to get a get a haircut later tonight and i was thinking about getting my hair deep conditioned. Im not really sure how much it costs so does any body know like an estimate of how much it could cost me.
Thanks :)

It can get pretty pricey, but I'm sure it all depends on where you go. I got mine for only 30$. Just go to different salons and ask how much they are. Then go to the cheepest one if you don't want to pay a lot for a deep conditioning treatment.
♥ Krissy

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What i wonder is why.....i do everything i am asked to do, if i do one thing remotely wrong, im bitched at for several days. Why does she single me out....It cant be because im the oldest, my brother doesn't do anything and he is such a little pecker....So what the hell did i do to piss her off....NOTHING. But i still get bitched at, why do you think this is....its really pissing me off

That seems unfair. She's taking everything out on you, when you shouldn't even be bitched at. If you can, try talking to her about it. Make her realize that your not doing anything wrong and she's bitching at you for nothing. Maybe something is bothering her lately, that's why she's taking her anger out on you (which isn't right..) Just try talking to her and maybe try getting out of her whatever is bothering her (if something is). Best of luck!
♥ Krissy

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I'm pregnant but I don't know if the guy I'm with is the father. I cheated on him with my ex, along the sametime as I got pregnant. What do I do? Do I tell him that he might not be the father?... he's gunna freak!!!! and how do I tell my mother I'm pregnant.. and I don't know who my baby's daddy is?

You need to tell your mom, she has the right to know, your her daughter. She'll probably be upset at frist, but she'll get over and it will start being there for you. As for your boyfriend, tell him that you cheated on him and there might be a chance that he might not be the father. If he really loves you he'll still be there every step of the way. You also need to tell your ex, that he might be the father. Once the baby is born, it'll be best for you to take a DNA test to find out who the baby's real father is.
♥ Krissy

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any of u people live in Rochester , NewYork ???
and if u do wut is there to do thats fun up in here

I heared it's pretty fun up there. Actually it's probably a lot funner then where I live. Maybe you could go to google and look up Rochester, New York and see where there is to do around there.
♥ Krissy

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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something..

Sometimes things aren't "ment to be", if it was, you wouldn't be so down about it. You should trust your heart hun, if your scared of getting hurt and cheated on, find another guy. There's many guys out there, so many. One of them is probably the right one for you and this one doesn't sound like "the one". Your best bet is to follow your heart, follow what you feel is best. I'm sure you'll do what is right.
♥ Krissy

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Hey i know this guy and hes like always talking about how hes never been kissed and asks about it to people and im always there. We used to be best friends until a fight but now we are becomeing friends again... i used to like him a lot while we were best friends. I want to kiss him soooo bad cuz he keeps on complaining bout not being kissed yet but i know he'll think Ewww if i do and i mean im only 13 so i dunno. I just always want to kiss him wen i see him.

Just ask him if he would like to kiss you once day. Since he's always down because he hasn't kissed a girl. I'm sure he won't say ew, he's a guy, guys love kissing.
♥ Krissy

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my friend goes out w/ a boy i like what shold i do?

Nothing. It's not good for a guy to get in the middle of a friendship, so don't let that happen. Guys come and go, but friends are forever there. Maybe you could try crushing on someone else, it's your best bet hun!
♥ Krissy

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ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!

No. It wouldn't be tacky at all to send him a carnation. Then maybe you could start talking because you sent him a flower. Guys like it when the girl makes the first move. Just tell him that you missed the old times and you want to catch up on somethings, because you missed having him there. I'm sure he missed having you as a friend too. Then once you guys become close again, bring up the dance thing. Hope all goes well.
♥ Krissy

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whats ur friends email?

little_ladiie@hotmail.com
♥ Krissy

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I have a good friend (Amy), who've been going out with my best guy friend (Jon) for awhile now. Me and Jon do a lot of things together, we're always hanging out. This leads to Amy being jealous of us. Now she's saying we're "together behind closed doors", otherwise, he's cheating on her with me. We both think she's totally crazy, because it's not true at all. She's being super controlling over him. He's not just going to stop hanging out with me, because we've been bestfriends since we were one. He doesn't know what to do, nither do I. He doesn't want to dump her, because he really loves her. But what should we both do to help her realize we're only friends and that's all we'll ever be?

You and Jon are going to have to talk to Amy. There's no solving anything without having all three of you guys there to talk. So, maybe one night you could all get together and make her realize your only friends with Jon. You've been friends for too long. Your right. He's not going to ditch you, he can't, friends are the most important thing. But try talking to her. Tell her that you both care about her. If she doesn't have trust in you guys, she won't have a friendship or a relationship. If she loves you both, she'll understand and will accept the fact that you hangout, because your friends.
♥ Krissy

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i like this girl but i dont know if she is going out with any one and if shes not then how do i ask her out

Ask one of your buds to get the down low on her love life. If she's not seeing anyone, try hanging out with her frist. Getting to know her a bit better and such. Once everythings going good, ask her to a movie one night. Then take it from there!
♥ Krissy

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Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please!

You could talk to one of my friends about it. She was pregnant, but got an aportion because of her age. If you want her e-mail, just leave one it my inbox =)
♥ Krissy

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ok i went out with this guy i'll call 'bob.' i broke up with him because there was an age difference of 2 years (i'm older), he wasn't very mature, he was very clingy, and he did a lot of my pet peeves but now that we've broken up he's gotten even more annoying. he comes and eats lunch with me and my friends and just sits there and listens, not talking the whole time, and every time he sees me he gravitates towards me. is there any way to tell him to back off nicely? thanks so much :)

Just tell him nicely that he kind of bothers you. Just say something along the lines of "I want you be your friend and everything, but I really don't like it when you come and eat lunch with me. Me and my friends are always talking about things, things in which you can't hear sometimes. Maybe you could try hanging out with your other friends."
♥ Krissy

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ok well my boyfriend Matt asked me to sneak out at like 1:00am to go to his house because his brother is having a party and his parents are not home. Well i dont no if i should cuz i might get busted cuz its sortof a school tomarrow (delayed opening) . But i really do want to go withim! Plez help!!

p.s im 14

I don't think you should risk it. What happens if you get ratted out and your parents find out? Then you'll lose all trust in them and they probably won't want you seeing Matt anymore. Just tell him that you don't think you'll make it. There will always be other times you can spend time with him. I'm sure he'll understand that you don't want to lose trust in your parents.
♥ Krissy


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does anyone have any suggestions of what i should get my boyfriend for a valentines day gift. i have no clue..!! :( when it comes to guys and gifts.. well this isnt a good topic for me!! lol!! thanx i will rate all 5's if u actually put some effort into it.. lols!! thanks a bunch!! I REALLY NEED HELP DECIDING!!

You could do something cute for him. Like take him out to eat, then maybe watch movies back at your house. Get him a little gift and lay it on your bed or a couch and put rose peddles around the gift. That'd be super cute and I'm sure he'd be touched. Then you could just explain to him how much you care about him.
♥ Krissy

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they guy i like told me that he likes this girl named Kelsea. Kelsea is a slut and she stuffs her bra and flirts 24/7 with guys AND girls... how can i get him to like me and not her?

You can't just make him change his mind like that. It might take awhile. Maybe start hanging out with him more, talking to him, brushing up against him and such. Then maybe he could start liking you and will forget about Kelsea. But don't forget to be yourself. Don't want him falling for someone your not.
♥ Krissy

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i really extremely am i love with my boyfriend...but I just dont know how to deal with it!! i cry out of happiness...and just being with him makes butterflies in my stomach..i try to concentrate on other things ...but all i can think about is him!!

That's cute. It's so awesome that you found someone you love so much. I'm happy for you. Hope everything works out great and you all stay together for a long time to come! Have fun.
♥ Krissy

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Does anyone have any good quotes or lyrics from songs that I can use to put in my profile for AIM. I'm looking for some sad like emo kinda songs or breaking up quotes :-/ Thanx in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*

We have the same name, thought I'd point it out. There's this great site, there's loads of different kinds of quotes. They have breaking up/sad ones there also. http://www.holliesquotes.com/
♥ Krissy

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