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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me.

ok first of all shes not better than u r. i no exactly wut u feel like to. just be ur self. just blow everyone who says that stuff to u off. who cares about them any ways....


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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..

o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)

=0 me scared

help!

well take it slowly. first of all find out who u like. do u like him? if not tell him. but if u like him tell him that to. and if u have another problem with saying i love u to some one and if they blow u off like that again. just blow them off. cuz if they cant care about how u feel or ur decision to do w/e than obviously they rnt in love with u.

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My best guy friend wanted to kill himself. At least thats what he told me. He said it was because a girl didnt like him. He said that no one cared and that he had already tried before. It really worried me and I told him that I cared. As I was walking to the bus, it really hit me what he had said. When I got on the bus I realized that i liked him as more than a friend. The problem is, the next day he acted as if nothing happened. I'm not sure if he was telling the truth about wanting to kill himself. I'm only 13 but I have liked him for over 5 months. My question is ...........
Do you think you have to be a certain age to love?

no there is no certain age for love. but we are all still young. give urself time to experience other ppl.

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I met this guy on a cruiz..hes so amazing..im in love with him. Should i tell him that i like him or keep it to myself?? thankz..

its all up to u. follow ur heart. dont do something u dont wanna do either.

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i would like to remove the odor of cat urine in some padded fabric, any advice?

try frebreeze(or how ever u spell that)

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Should I dust my room when I can see cobwebs all over...well..everything?

yea that sounds like the time when u should...

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Okay I'm going to get to the point my friend said I've changed and I asked how and he said you don't care about anything anymore and I had no idea what he meant by this so I asked what he was talking about, because this is who I am. And he said well if this is who you are then I don't want to talk to you, and I said fine bye and hung up the phone.

I just I'm so mad, because me and him used to be really good friends. Should I be mad...or just let it be...I'm so lost.

wow thats a tough one. i think u should talk to him about it. it is the only way u will understand wut hes talking about and u to seem to be close friends and belive me ive been there b4. when ur in a fight and u dont wanna let in but u dont wanna not talk to him either. just talk to him


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What should i do to get MOnEY faSTt!! i need it by Aug 8th to go to the beach with my bestest friend =) .. Thanks.. o yea i cant baby sit lol*

well u could do chores around the neighborhood such as:
mowing
sell something
paper route
chores around the house(mayb)

thats all i can really think of...i hope i helped

P.S. rate me please...:)

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okay...me and my friend are addicted to stealing. when ever we go somewhere like to the gas station or clothes we steal. we always steal candy and we steal undies. we try to stop and we just cant it is hard. and it is uncontrolable! what should we do?

theives

u should try ur best to stop stealing...no matter what it takes cuz that can become a serious sddiction that needs to be stopped or there can be consiqences if u get caught.

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I LOVE SOCKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so addicted to sock sometimes i wear 4 pairs at a time . also i like the smell of them especially right after my mom washes them they smell so fresh. i even put a pair under my pillow i always bring an extra pair of socks when i leave the house even just to got 2 the grocery store i put them in my purse every one thinks this habb it is weird but i cant help it

SOCK LUVER

well everyone has a habbit whether its weird or some what normal. but as long as u have a habb cuz some ppl dont

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Me and a girl started talkin about a month ago.....but she has a boyfriend...........and i am friends with her boyfriend and me and her talked about kissing cause i really lik eher and she says she likes me but i dont want her boyfriend to find out!.........should i kiss her? or not? P.S. i really like her alot!!!!!

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thats a tough situation but if the grl likes u than u should find out who she likes more u or the guy shes dating? if it were me in the situation i wouldnt just b/c if the b/f found out than he would be mad at both of ya...but its up to u

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okay..my friend.she gets treated soo bad..and her boyfriend just dumped her and seh cried for like a whole day..and other people..there so mean to her..and im just bout sick of it..i hate seeing her like this, and now..sehs saying that seh cuts herself..and seh does all this stuff..and ive tried talking to her..she just says that everythings messed up and will never be the same..she just does all of this over a boy that doesnt like her..ive talked to her plenty of times..i just dont kno what to say to her anymore..what should i do?

well i think the only thing u can do is keep talking to her. does her parents know? that or u could try to find her a conseling place or something to help her b/c if she doesnt get help in the long run she could do something alot worse....

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Is being sheltered a bad thing? And is it a turn off?? Is it bad and considered "shelted" if I've never vacuumed, and I don't know what a garbage disposal, mop, and wrench are??? And what does this make me?? Stupid?? Cute?? Funny?? I'm always the one giving the advice.. this is different.. anyways, PLEASE COMMENT!!!

lol being sheltered isnt a bad thing...atleast i dont think it is. anyways just b/c u dont know how to use those things doesnt mean ur stupid. never think that. ur smart in ur own way; everybody is. some ppl may not know wut those things are either. i highly doubt that ur the only one. i hoped i helped...

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Hey, I've liked a guy for about 2 years now. He's taken, he used to like me, I think he's over me now. But I fucking love him. To death. Omg, help me.

ok in ur situation there are two things to do.....first u could either fight back which might not go over to well or u can get over him. if u try to get over him itll take a long time. but good luck with wut ever u choose to do.

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Okay i use to go out with this guy..we started going out in nov. of 03.....well he was ALWAYS there fer me!! always...i know he loved me n i still do love him!! well we had been going out fer 2 1/2 months..well see his best friend is my ex...n at tha time i was still crazy for my ex..i would flirt with my ex allll tha time in front of my b/f..n i would go to his basketball games n stuff...although i NEVER cheated on my b/f i did hurt him..i was soo into my ex that i told my b/f that i thought we should.."take a brake" we took a brake fer 2 weeks n then got back together!! He was sucha a sweety!! but....then afta a month i broke up with him...tha was in march....tha last day of school(june 9) i invited him to come ova n go swimming in my pool...we flirted n flirted!! then we were outside alone n he had told me that he liked me after we broke up..a month after we broke up..n that he had still liked me when he was going out with his ex girlfriend Katie...but right now he doesnt wanna be in a serious realtionship..he told me he missed us hanging out n talking n he wanted us to be close friends or be friends with benefits but other then that he didnt want ewnthing more...well that night we hooked up n then after that i talked to him on tha phone once(he was in a really bad mood) n i havent talked to him since (so like i havent talk to him fer a month) i miss him soooo much...he would come ova when i would get sick n watch movies with me alll night long instead of goin out with his friends...he spiled me he gave me everything we wanted n we basically never really had a big fight bc he ALWAYS let me have it my way..i noe he loved me n im pretty sure he still loves me..but i want him back i miss him so much!!!! i've been thinking of calling him but i dont really know what i should do...PlZzZ help! Thanx!! xo0ox!!!!

omg that sounds like a really big mess. i would call him or talk to him in any way. it sounds like u to really were something. and i wouldnt lose that for aynthing. once u have a guy like that u have to hold him close. cuz thats the kind all the grls want. so good luck...

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I did not know what category to put this under...
Ok it seems that I'm always at least half way depressed. I just stay stressed out. School, friends, family...and mainly this guy. But also, little things happen. I spill my drinks all the time...cut myself shaving all the time...trip and fall...stuff like that. What are some things I can do to take my mind off this guy? B/c he's what makes me so stressed out. So what can I do just not to worry so much and to be in a better mood? And not let little things get to me?

im going through the same problem. just do anything that makes u happy. relax, hang with ur friends. dont do anything that will remind u of him. just let it go.

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hey katy .. theres this guy i rele like but idk what he'll say if i tell him how i feel soo all we do is talk like friends talk .. :-/ idk if i should tell him how i feel or not .. we're REALLY good friends and i don't want to hurt our relationship :-/ help me please!!

alright this is all up to u. i was in the same situation b4. i told him and nothing happen. u could approach it like " if i told u something personal would it hurt our relationship" then make him promise it wont and then ask mayb how he feels about it.

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Ok well i am good at giveing other ppl advice, i take my time n think bout it, but when it comes 2 me getting advice no1 seems ta care or take the time, so mayb sum will here...N i already kinda asked a ? like this b4 but never really got tha answer i wanted so ima try 2 put it in a different way...
Im 13/girl n im realllyyy confused. I liked this lets call him * ahah ok well * n me were really good friends n then we both started to have 'more than friends' feelings bout eachother, but we never went out cuz i messd things up. So newayz we like barley ever even talk nemore. N im really trying to move on, im pretty much over him, cuz i dun see him 2 much cuz its summer n hes goin to the high school n ill be in 8th. Ok well like i moved on.. its just i cant find ne1. N i kno tha whole 'o ull find sum1' wateva stuff but that doesnt help me? i think ppl think im still stuck over * which im not n i jus wanna move on. How shud i do this? Sry its a lil confuseing but its jus hard 2 explain.

ok about ppl saying that ur not over him yet or w/e if they dont belive u than thats there fault. that and if they r ur friends they should belive u. its not that confusing either. i know wut ur going through. and all u can do is deny it.

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my friend is going out with this girl, he never really hangs out with her and she always hangs out with other guys! it makes me mad cause he could get a WAY better g/f! he lets her walk all over him! and when we tell him about what she does! she denys it! and tells us to watch out! it makes me so fucking mad! he deserves someone better! how do i tell him?

ok well there is know rite way to tell him. but just ask him questions like do u know that she hangs out with other guys more than u. and just tell him about it and if he doesnt care well then he or she isnt grlfriend/boyfriend material.

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I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help?????

omg i am going through the same thing rite now. i know exactly how u feel. but u see u cant make some one like u. especially if they already call u hott and stuff. just be u. and if that guy doesnt like that than hes not worth it. dang i think i should be listening to myself. anyways just be urself. u cant force a relationship, it just doesnt work.

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