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Okay I'm going to get to the point my friend said I've changed and I asked how and he said you don't care about anything anymore and I had no idea what he meant by this so I asked what he was talking about, because this is who I am. And he said well if this is who you are then I don't want to talk to you, and I said fine bye and hung up the phone.
I just I'm so mad, because me and him used to be really good friends. Should I be mad...or just let it be...I'm so lost.
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I would let it be but try to be more caring.. may he thinks you are drifting apart and that really bothers him-trix
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wow thats a tough one. i think u should talk to him about it. it is the only way u will understand wut hes talking about and u to seem to be close friends and belive me ive been there b4. when ur in a fight and u dont wanna let in but u dont wanna not talk to him either. just talk to him
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Oh boy, ive been through the same situation. My friends told me ive changed.. then they said that i couldnt see it.. because im the one that was doing the changing? i duno it makes no sense. but anyway, just ask him why he really thinks youve changed. tell him that you arent going to change back to whatever you were because you are who you are and no one can judge that or take that away from you.
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Maybe he and you are growing a part. This normally happens. That is what happened to me and one of my best friends.
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Maybe he's changing, it is not uncommon for best friends to grow apart, although, there are ways to make things like this work, because you don't have to be exactly like each other to be friends, that would be so boring!!!
Lizzy
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Maybe he thinks you're changing, just talk to him about it and see why he feels that way..
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Just let it be. "Fine, bye"?? That's really immature. If he's such a great friend, how could you so easily treat him like that. It's not fair. Perhaps you have changed, and you just haven't noticed, because you're more comfortable with yourself. Or maybe it always HAS been who you are, and you're just letting a little more of it show. I'm sorrie, I don't know the details, and I can't place myself in your shoes to fully understand what is going on, but I think you need to talk to him and find out exactly what the problem is. This is too petty to destory a friendship. I do hope everything works out though. Take care!
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