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GRRR!!
my mom totally pisses me off and she argues a ton with me and just ME! its like she makes me do everything she knoes i HATE doing and she keeps me from doing everything i love. when i try talking to her about it she just argues back saying if i dont like it then why dont i leave and stuff like that even though she knoes i cant leave since im only 14. when i try to tell my dad he just says things like "you knoe how she is" or "you and i can't do anythng about it" and he doesnt even try. my sister is the only person i can talk to but she cant say anything because if she does my mom will start hating her too. my mom doesnt do any kind of physical abuse or anything its just...GRRRRRR!! i dont knoe what to do but i hoped one of you would. im afraid that im going to collapse sometime soon with a major heart overload or something if things dont change around here soon!
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well i used to have that same problem with my mom and you know what.. shes helping you.. shes teachin you how to be an adult and maybe there's things wrong with doing what you love.. she loves you and she wants the best... and your dad probably wont say nething bad about your mom cuz he loves her... your mom wont hate your sister.. tell her how you feel.. i know.. i've had self help books and they actually work.. take care hope it works hun!
*Ashleigh*
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Even though it gets on your nerves that she makes you do things you don't want to do, just do it and get it over with and then once you're done doing that then go out with a friend and get away from her and get things off your mind. Spend the night a friends house if you have to. And when she's not being mean to you, that should be the time you should try talking to her. Just be like "Mom, why are you so mean to me, did I do anything for you to not like me? Because if I did, then I'm sorry" Just say stuff like that and how you feel. Hope this helps, if not post back again and I'll be glad to help =D
xoxo Kourtney
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o yes. lol. i kno how that is. my mom does that too. but the way i c it... u ken do wut she tells u and then stay away out of her sight, or try talking to her... wut kud it hurt? like u sed, shes not abusive or ne thing so i bet it will turn out fine. i bet if u talk to her, she prob wont rly apologize- but ull notice her "damands" will start to die down. hope i helped.
(P.S. u ken leave ur s/n so we can talk online if u wanna.)
rite bak and tell me how it went!
~lizzie
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Well welcome to the life of a teenager. It's only normal that you go through this. Becomming a teenager means a lot. It comes with a lot of stress, hardwork, pain, and of course theirs always the great moments of these years. Just stick it out and trust Me you'll thank your Mom later on for just always being there.
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So try to talk to her when shes in a good mood. If that doesn't work try crying. If that doesn't work don't do anything at all. It's not like she can hit you.
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Tell her that shes hurting you, lol try cying in front of her and make her feel bad... i dunno if not just try to be strong she might be going through menopause?
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