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too fast? 2 s0on x0x


Question Posted Tuesday July 13 2004, 7:54 pm

my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..

o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)

=0 me scared

help!


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superstar10 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:07 am:
well take it slowly. first of all find out who u like. do u like him? if not tell him. but if u like him tell him that to. and if u have another problem with saying i love u to some one and if they blow u off like that again. just blow them off. cuz if they cant care about how u feel or ur decision to do w/e than obviously they rnt in love with u.

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IM_JusT_AshLeiGh answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 10:34 pm:
i think hes possesive.. i think that he really loves you nd just wants you to tell him you love him.. if your not ready for that and he doesnt understand tell him you agree maybe you should just see other people if he doesnt get it.. if he likes you again.. sorry but it was his loss

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allyorlo21 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 10:31 pm:
well, to me this guy sounds like a keeper. if you really like him a lot then here is your chance to hang on to something that doesnt come around a lot. if you want to keep him as your boyfriend then tell him you love him because thats all he wants to hear from you - just to know that you care about him as much as he cares about you. as for all of the other guys, well they probably dont match up to your ex.

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Lizzy answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 9:53 pm:
Maybe, when one really kewl guy likes a girl, that girl becomes popular to like, it's not a bad thing though, i'm sure every girl in your skewl would love to be in your position, take advantage of it, take the time to be hard to get and all.
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TheLovex8 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 9:14 pm:
He wants you back b/c the other guys want you and he wants to think he has you and so i think you should do what he says "see other people" and if you still have feelings for him and can't get him outta your hear you sleep eat walk drink and do everything thinking about him you love him!!

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XxbabiixdanielLexX answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:50 pm:
Well first of all, no one should rush you to do anything you don't want to do. If you don't want to tell him you love him yet, don't. I totally agree with you. Maybe you should try talking to him again and if he still won't listen..you probably shouldn't waste your time on him. And he asked you to marry him!? Personally I think 13 is too young to get married to anyone! But do what you want, I'm not telling you to do anything. Hope i helped! xox

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united_python_cheerleader answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:50 pm:
i dont think he is using you but i do think he is jealous ( and dont marry him because if you dotn love him and you cant say it yet your not ready to marry someone )

and plus you have your whole life ahead of you


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DorkyJay27 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:47 pm:
To marry him?!?! you arent technically legal! WTC!? okay,it seems that he likes the girl that is liked by all the guys, he's probly thinkin that "if I get her to be my GF then ill be top gun."So there is a good chance that he is usin you just so he'll be kool.

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missing-identity-seeker answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:34 pm:
TO: =0 me scared
to me his guy sounds like some jerk thah dusnt appreciate who you reallie are...i think mehbe he IS useing you coz he onlie reallie wanted you agin wen other ppl started liking you...hes prolly one of those ppl who go out with the MOST WANTED chik and thahs sooo not coo...ya noe?

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josie420 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:27 pm:
wow..i think that hes just using you..i think its time that you need to get over him..and find someone that will love you no matter how you act..or do things that you wana do..and will understand that your not ready to be in love yet..becuz you have no idea what love is yet!

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 8:22 pm:
well i'd tell him that you're too young for the whole marriage thing, and he shouldnt pressure you into saying i love you, wats the point in saying something thats not ment.. there is no point... i dunno just tell him

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