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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.
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what does poser exactly mean?
basically a poser can be
someone who pretends to be something they are not
or a poser-model way, like in a photo you always need to look like a model or you pull funny faces or actions in your pics
Well i like this boy right im 15 and his 14 were both in eyar 9 and his a little bit shorter like 4 cm and my friend always tell me its wrong to like him but i dont judge people by there height or age (As long as its not 10 years lol) i really like him do you think its wrong to like him ?
it's not wrong to like him.
No way.It is always about whats inside.
is it wrong for him to like someone who is taller than him??No.
Your friend obviously isnt the best of advice but she is probarbly just trying to help.
Dont care what she thinks.Just do what you want to do and if you love someone you dont not like them because of their heights.
You should still like him hee..
Forget your friend xx
Are pirated dvds bad? Do they affect you?
They dont mentally or phsycially afect you!
Pirate dvds are bad because
-it is illegal
- and they are not as good as the real deal, going to the cinema or buying the actual dvd.
If you are caught with them I am pretty sure you will be in trouble with the police.
Dont sell them.Dont buy them.Dont watch them.
Last week I was fired from my job for having marijuana on me. The job called the police and I was given a ticket for possession of marijuana. I've been in trouble before by my mom for marijuana and now that I got in trouble the other day, it seems like I'm never going to be able to go out again or even gain any privilegs back. I am sincere about not smoking or doing anything with drugs but my mom doesn't seem to believe me. How to I get this trust back from my mom??
Since you have been in trouble with drugs before, it will be very hard to get back the trust.
You need to stop marijuana for first thing.
When the police are off the case get a job.
Ditch the people you get the drugs from
Start afresh.
Get a job, go to the gym,text or call your parents were you are and let them know that.
Stay at home with your mum.cook her dinner
It is just a way to show maturity but it isnt a sure plan to earn bck trust.Trust is so easily lost.
Take a course in something, ditch the drugs
or even go to a clinic or rehab centre to completley show your mum that you REALLy want to start anew and get her trust back.You cannot blame her though.
18/f recently i have started to notice that i have cellulite on my butt and down my thighs and its getting pretty bad. has anyone had this problem and bought a product that actually worked? i need to buy something because exercising isnt helping.
thanks in advance!!!
well i dont know if you live in the usa or uk but in the dailymail news papers there is a front cover article on these tights that may make you lose cellulite
http://www.marksandspencer.com/gp/product/B000SBOGD8/ref=dp_rvi_1/203-1239514-2855160?ie=UTF8&m=A2BO0OYVBKIQJM&mnSBrand=core
it all started yesterday. yesterday was a really bad day for me.. i mean we had to clean our entire house, and i couldnt even go out with my friend to see fireworks at some place, since we're not going anywhere for 4th of july, cause my mom has work, and my dad's busy as always. and i recently made a myspace, and i asked my friend (not her friend anymore i guess) if i could be on her top, and she said no, and then i asked what i should reply to her after she said that, and you guys at advicenators gave me advice and i took it and well.. this is what happened.
(by the way, i have been friends with this girl since like 4th grade, and she was more my friend during 5th and 6th grade but it changed during 7th. it was like she wasnt even interested in me sometimes... it got annoying but i didnt think that she didnt like me till she didnt invite me to her end of the year sleepover. i asked her if i was going and shes like "sorry its for close friends only" when some people she invited she didnt even know as long as i've known her! so it hurt.. and im real confused.)
me: hey (her name)! hows your summer? add me to your top? =]
her: umm...no your not going in my top
me: whatever, thats cool. by the way, why have you been acting kinda weird around me?
her: because, your rude. you piss me off alot and, you act as if the world loves you sometimes!!
now i dunno what to reply! cause what she said stuck in my head for the whole day. am i really rude? im usually nice to everyone, i dont even think i've ever been mean to her.. well i was mean to some girl because after a long time she just kept pissing me off, and i scribbled on her face in my yearbook. i didnt think people would find out but some of my friends saw it who didnt care, and this girl im talking about saw it and she didnt like it.. but it wasnt even about her and besides she doesnt know how that girl had been acting so i'd scribble on her face. i dont regret doing that, and it wasnt like i was gonna show them that i drew it, though they found out anyways... their problem.
and i dunno how i piss her off, and if i act like the world loves me.. doesnt that mean confidence? i dunno but maybe its cause im optimistic and stuff, but i really dont know cause nobody's ever said that to me before. :( what should i do? if im really rude or anything how can i fix it? and is this a friend i should really keep and how should i reply to that message without being "rude" or should i be rude?
She obviously isnt that girl she was and you dont need someone like that in your life. What you did was your choice and even though you dont like this girl you didnt broadcast on the radio or anything so thats fine.Maybe its little things you do, that arent nessecily wrong, but she feels all uptight about things.
Accpet the fact you two are bnreakinbg away and are moulding into new people. Hang with others who will set you straight and lead you down the right path if you are doing wrong.
You don't need to say anything back to her because your are the better person and why waste your time on someone who obviously just dosnt care.....
dont be rude to her because then your are proving her point exactly but if you want to get your message across just say to her
that your done with her and you dont care you know who you are and you dont need someone so judgemental in your life who has no reason to call you rude.Just tell her you have a life and apparently you dont need her in it...but that part would be quyite rude
Just deal with the fact people change and not everyone loves you { not saying you think thay}
At what age do teenagers usually get past basic levels of thought and begin thinking more intellectually?What I mean is...when do they start to form their own opinions,have some idea of what they want out of life,and just generally gain a more adult outlook?
It varies.Everyone is different.
I think when parents give their teenagers responsiblitlty, they begin to think more intellectually and sensible because they know they've gained trust from their parents and its hard to get i back.Being with other cultures,friends and at school helps them give their own opnions.Socializing with other people helps make them think about situations and when given the chance to work in groups and school, ideas grow and conifidence grow too.
Teenagers begin to grow up, become intellectual give their own opnions in their own time, it depends what and who they are growing up with and what the parent provides them with ie : love,trust, responsisbilty.
Some teenagers already come from big-opnionted-loud families so thinking for yourself comes natuarlly.
Quite random but media, celebs and magazines too.
Seeing what they have and what celebrities are achiveing makes them think wow...I'd love to work as or... wow that dress is amazing.
But genearlly opnions are not formed when you're just a teenager. your opnions are with you in your mind even when your 6 or seven its just being that bit older you feel confident and ready to TALK about your opnions and not keep it to yourself.Teenagers do get to the stage of expressing what they feel and their opnions because even when they get all hormonal and angry and lash out, and they have arguements, theyy express their feelings and onpinons then.
I know that I'd like to become a maybe something in performing arts -> i though about this and that is what i want out of my life, and because my hobby is performing arts, it sticks to you and what colours you love, hobbies you love stick to you ect and then goes on mixed with your ambitions, giving you what you want out of life anf your opnions.
Sounds stupid but i know what names i'd like to give my kids and the job I'd like, and I have thought about this not simply because my brain told me to but my bacckgrounds and my magazines, my sister gave me the influence of what names I'd like because she's thought of it too.
We can gain more of an adult outlook when we are given trust,honesty and are asked opnions and most of all being treated like an adult NOT A KID and I think thats good and bad treating us like kids sometimes because yes it is fustrating but it lets have that "opnio" outburst.sorry if i am talking a load of gibberish!
A few nights ago me and my boyfriend for a little over a year went further sexually and he ending up eating me out.this was something i swore i would never do because i thought of it as repulsive. At first when he was asking i told him no but eventually i gave in.. after we were done i cried. I dont know why I cried.. i mean i love him and everything and it was my choice.. i dont know whats going on. I need help. why did I cry??
well fistly you were experiecning a LOT of emotions whilst you and him were doing "sexual stuff" so your mood changes quite a lot
you could of cried because of shock that you gave in and said yes, you just didnt expect it.
Dont feel bad about it, as long as you know you knew that its what you wanted, and it wasnt forced there shouldnt be anything to worry about for you could of cried because you gave in but didnt want to do it.
How can you tell whether someone is a good kisser or a bad kisser?? Just wondering
you can actually some say if you see an person eat a fruit like an orange,you can by looking at the way they eat it but to me thats rubbish.
You cant tell!And besides everyone has their own opnions, you may kiss someone and think their bad but someone else may kiss them and think their good the only way to find out is to kiss them!
I have a boyfriend... of 4 months... and i just cheated on him with my ex..... i dont know what to do?
and I can not tell my boyfriend... pease... help!
F-- 15
He will find out.Someway I promise.
Things could get ugly and there are so many consequences if you dont tell him like
- you would be living a lie
- your ex will tell him unless you do it with him
get my point?
Your boyfriend expects trust and honesty.And you need to give him that.Tell him the truth.You'll feel better.Just tell him exactly what happened and what it REALLY meant you.
Give him some time to cool off and let him just get it sussed out.He will e extremely hurt and how do you know that you wont do it again?How can he trust you?
Just tell him the truth and your feelings apologize to him and to your ex.
Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 2 0r 3 years younger than me (I just turned 18 he's 16 or 15). Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. But also, the other thing is that I've only known him for about like a month and a half and have only hung out with him like once at a concert where he totally saved my life (where he like held me in the mosh pit because I felt dizzy), but have talked to him a billion times since then, AND am going to prom with him in like 2 weeks.....idk what to do and I'dask my friends but they'd prolly be like "ahh he's too young don't bother" Do you think I should tell him how much I like him? And is he too young?
Personally, people say that it is wrong to go out with someone younger, does that mean you are not allowed to love??I think it isn't wrong and if you like him go for it..so many people's parents have a hugge age difference.You should defiantly go for it.How cares what others think?Dont care what they think and just do what YOU want to do and dont let them control your life.
About the asking out thing, well first off going to his prom is great, it really is, this a stengthens your relationship with him.I'd probarbly wait a week or to after the prom.He obviously has some feelings for you other wise he wouldnt take you, but ask him a bit later after the prom as you dont want to come on to strong and yes he has feelings, but they are small and you need to give them a chance to grow.
I think you should totally ask him but chances are he will ask you.
Just make sure he isnt going to show off to his friends or anything.That's when you need to drop him straight, because they'll do it again and again.You go girl, rock his world!!
See me and and a friend lets say 'Mandy' have been friends since kindergarden. I've always thought of her like a sister but lately its more like a twin. When I told her I was going to get an Ipod she went out and got an MP3 player. When I got my ears pierced, she did. I have straight hair she has curls, for her b-day she got hair straightener! She's been using my words, my style, my life; and I'm sick of it. She's been using me, now I want to lose her. But how?
just keep your mouth shut and dont say anything.She just really likes you and thinks of you as a role model sort of thing even though your friends.Help become herself by spending less time with you.Don't tell her if your getting something new and maybe you should recommend or get her something and sy its the latest fashion because the only way she can keep up with it is to follow you.She needs to get her own style.If it really dosnt work I'd consider talking to her about it because i know i wouldnt want to lose a friendship over something that can be solved.
Okay so I'm 13/f and I haven't gotten my period yet. My mom said she got hers when she was 13 too so she thinks I should get it soon. I've been getting a few pimples but not many like one or two.
Can anyone estimate the time I'll be getting it?
...yeah. I'm afraid I'll get it during school and it'll go through my pants and grrrr. D:
that happened to me but this is exactly what happened for MY own signs
Lots of discharge.
Then sunddenley for a few days, NO discharge.
But there are the common ones like
spots
rattyness
tired
oily skin
pains, belly and back
I have this best friend, well she used to be my best friend. we haven't been friends for a couple of weeks. but we were friends since first grade, now in 10th. ever since her family came into money she's been acting like a snob, like she's better than everyone. and she's been really spoiled and bitchy. she doesn't even know the words please, thank you, or sorry and she thinks that everything is always someone elses fault. It got on my nerves to the point where I don't sit with her at lunch and don't talk to her. But we've been friends for 10 years and I don't want that to get ruined... by bitchyness. what should I do???
Thanks in advance ;)
this is tough.I wouldnt listen to people who tell you to talk to her.She isnt likley to change and if she cared anythin about the realtionship in the in the first place she wouldnt let this happen would she??She isnt going to change, especially as she thinks she is better than anyone.If I was you , I'd try to let go and hang with better down to earth people with manners.But it dosnt hurt to say hi and still talk to her.That realtionship you had wont ever be the same.
there is a song im 99% sure is by hawthorne heights i desperatley need the name of. Some of the lyrics are something like "you are the last thing i think of before i go to sleep at night" pr something like that. and i think it says something about forever in it. but i really REALLY need the name of this song and the lyrics if possible.
thankyou so much.
maybe these?
http://www.plyrics.com/lyrics/hawthorneheights/dissolveanddecay.html
http://www.plyrics.com/lyrics/hawthorneheights/silverbullet.html
If not here is a list of their lyrics..
http://www.plyrics.com/h/hawthorneheights.html
is england a country?
i live in england.
england IS a country.
The uk is made of england,ireland,scotland,wales (these are ALL coutries)
okay so me and my boyfriend decided that we would start leaving each other little surprises in each other's lockers every friday. last week i left him a little bag of hershey's kissables with a note that said "Have a good friday, i love you" and he gave me a butterfly/ heart card with a poem on it. but i'm totally stuck on this weeks project. if someone could give me a list of some cute ideas that would be great.
chocolate
keyring
keyring book
love hearts sweets > you can get his name done on it https://www.lovehearts.com/
card
poem
photos
braclet
matching braclet
magnet
funky pen
funny stickers
i want to make my boyfriend a ffriendship bracelet exept idont know what style or color to make it. Do you think that maybe you could send me a link to a picture or somthing of a style that a boy would like? Idont want him to think its to girly. Thanx so much!!!
P.s 13/F
Hes 13 too
How about the "ying yang colours" -> that would be perfect, here a picture/colour of the ying yang if you dont know what it is
http://www.csusm.edu/rms/images/yingyang.gif
you could do it the y.y colours and and put his itital on it like if he his name was danny advicesome them you'd do D.A
i have to write a poem about thing to sell that cant be sold, for example "a rainy day in april" or "lies" or things like that, but i dont know what to write! can i please get some inspiration? should i write about thing i'd want to be able to buy but cant be bought like love and honesty and positive things, or things that i have in my life that are bad and i'd like to sell? whats best? thankss!
I think buying love,friends or honesty would be good.It'd be comical to buy an "attitude problem"
allpoetry.com
There is this boy at my school that i really really like and ive only just started to get to know him and we are getting on really well, we talk in school alot and text each other and talk on the internet but i want something more, but i dont want to rush into anything
should i wait a few weeks to see if anything develops or should i tell him how i feel about him? i dont want to scare him off
we are both going to a gig on friday night so something could happen but im scared of making a move
i really dont know what to do, i dont even know if he likes me in that way, but i guess if he didnt like me he wouldnt text me and that? i dont know
help me :)! thanks
you're getting close this is good.But I wouldn't make the move just yet.He might not want a relatiobnhip but i'd consider this gig a date, wouldn't you??Just see what happens at the gig, and later on, if you really like him and it feels right just tell him.Heck in 2 weeks this boy might decide to really like you (if he dosnt already)since you went to the gig.And he might want to make the move.Just be yourself.And have a good time.Wait until a few weeks.Get to know him better.