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I wanted a sister not a twin!
See me and and a friend lets say 'Mandy' have been friends since kindergarden. I've always thought of her like a sister but lately its more like a twin. When I told her I was going to get an Ipod she went out and got an MP3 player. When I got my ears pierced, she did. I have straight hair she has curls, for her b-day she got hair straightener! She's been using my words, my style, my life; and I'm sick of it. She's been using me, now I want to lose her. But how?
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i think mandy just looks up to you and admires your style.. you just need to help her find her own style by complementing her on things of her own style her own choice.. and try to spend a little less time with her so she is less likly to keep copying you. or if you really dont want to be her friend anymore just tell her... hope that helped.. xoxo
<3 sally
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well if you want to just plain lose her..then tell her what you think. don't be afraid to be rude
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just keep your mouth shut and dont say anything.She just really likes you and thinks of you as a role model sort of thing even though your friends.Help become herself by spending less time with you.Don't tell her if your getting something new and maybe you should recommend or get her something and sy its the latest fashion because the only way she can keep up with it is to follow you.She needs to get her own style.If it really dosnt work I'd consider talking to her about it because i know i wouldnt want to lose a friendship over something that can be solved.
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I've had the same problem with my friend. What you should do is spend a little less time with Mandy and let her find her personality instead of using yours.
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