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I cant talk to this boy, help meee :)!
There is this boy at my school that i really really like and ive only just started to get to know him and we are getting on really well, we talk in school alot and text each other and talk on the internet but i want something more, but i dont want to rush into anything
should i wait a few weeks to see if anything develops or should i tell him how i feel about him? i dont want to scare him off
we are both going to a gig on friday night so something could happen but im scared of making a move
i really dont know what to do, i dont even know if he likes me in that way, but i guess if he didnt like me he wouldnt text me and that? i dont know
help me :)! thanks
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I think you should just talk to him and try not to be shy. If he flirts with you and is around you a lot he most likely likes you.
You canb always ask him if he does but only do if your really sure he does.
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Just go to the thing with him on Friday. See what happens there, and if nothing happens, then keep talking to him. Hang out as much as possible & then tell him how you feel when you think/feel he likes you back.
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Hey!
This is a toughy, you have to decide something. Theres two ways you can deal with this, both of which you've acknowledged, asking him out, or letting things take their course.
If you use the second one, then theres less of a chance that something will happen, but if you're still early on, then you can do that, by sending him slight signals (flirting) and he can respond if he wants, but this isnt a gaurantee that he will ask you out, and if you want a gaurantee, then you have to do it yourself.
SO you can talk to him and ask him out yourself, or make small moves or you can let fate take it itself and let him figure it out.
The problem with doing it yourself is, you're scared, but the only way to get over a fear is to do it. So dont let it being a fear get in your way, because if you dont get over it sometime, you never will.
I hope I answered your question, lots of love,
Angie91
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you're getting close this is good.But I wouldn't make the move just yet.He might not want a relatiobnhip but i'd consider this gig a date, wouldn't you??Just see what happens at the gig, and later on, if you really like him and it feels right just tell him.Heck in 2 weeks this boy might decide to really like you (if he dosnt already)since you went to the gig.And he might want to make the move.Just be yourself.And have a good time.Wait until a few weeks.Get to know him better.
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