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I have this best friend, well she used to be my best friend. we haven't been friends for a couple of weeks. but we were friends since first grade, now in 10th. ever since her family came into money she's been acting like a snob, like she's better than everyone. and she's been really spoiled and bitchy. she doesn't even know the words please, thank you, or sorry and she thinks that everything is always someone elses fault. It got on my nerves to the point where I don't sit with her at lunch and don't talk to her. But we've been friends for 10 years and I don't want that to get ruined... by bitchyness. what should I do???
Thanks in advance ;)
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heres what i would do in this situation, i would make sure you have time to speak to her (not just between classes or at lunch) if your really going to talk this over, you'll need some time and quiet. tell her that you think she has changed, but in a nice way, dont use the words bitchy and stuff because humans react to that negitively naturally. Tell her you think its stupid that your not friends and want to still be friends. remind her of the past and everything you've been through since 1st grade. Tell her whats been bothering you about her by just talking, and then ask her if she has anything to say or add to that. Try not to get into an argument. stop before that happens.
hope you guys make it out ok!!
hope this helped :)
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you should tell her how she has been acting because maybe she doesnt even realize it. She probably started to get the message when you didnt sit with her at lunch or even talk to her. When you talk to her, if she acts all bitchy about it then its her loss. At least you tried to do the right thing. Most likely if your as good friends as it seems you are, she will realize what she has been doing. If she doesnt then it aint your fault and you shouldn't worry about it. But hopefully she will realize what she has been doing.
hope this helps!!
x3 kaylee
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I think that you should just talk to her about the whole situation, and how you feel. Maybe the best thing for you to do if she doesnt change would be to be "aquaintences" or just plain old "friends" It's really up to you to decide, but talk to her about it nicely, you dont want to start a fight and cause drama. :-) ps peple can be contagious...sometimes when you hang out with the wrong people, you catch their bad attitudes.
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Talk to her about it. She might not realize that she's doing it. And if she does realize it, then she's lame for being such a horrible friend. Tell her that the money is getting to her head, and she needs to learn some things before she can go & befriend someone else. If she understands, then cool. Look for some changes & if none happen to be occuring, then stop being friends with her.
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tell her how you fell. sometimes if you just tell someone they snap outta it.
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this is tough.I wouldnt listen to people who tell you to talk to her.She isnt likley to change and if she cared anythin about the realtionship in the in the first place she wouldnt let this happen would she??She isnt going to change, especially as she thinks she is better than anyone.If I was you , I'd try to let go and hang with better down to earth people with manners.But it dosnt hurt to say hi and still talk to her.That realtionship you had wont ever be the same.
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