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oh my gosh
I have a boyfriend... of 4 months... and i just cheated on him with my ex..... i dont know what to do?
and I can not tell my boyfriend... pease... help!
F-- 15
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my boyfriend cheated on me and had sex with another girl. i had heard about it from other people and confronted him. he denied it for 3 months. then finally confessed. it hurt a lot. the lying more then anything.
DONT LIE. just tell him. you did it. now you have to face the consequences. as harsh as it sounds.
dont cheat.
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He will find out.Someway I promise.
Things could get ugly and there are so many consequences if you dont tell him like
- you would be living a lie
- your ex will tell him unless you do it with him
get my point?
Your boyfriend expects trust and honesty.And you need to give him that.Tell him the truth.You'll feel better.Just tell him exactly what happened and what it REALLY meant you.
Give him some time to cool off and let him just get it sussed out.He will e extremely hurt and how do you know that you wont do it again?How can he trust you?
Just tell him the truth and your feelings apologize to him and to your ex.
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Hey there!
I think that your boyfriend will find out sooner or later. But it would be way better if it came from you and it would be way easier if it was sooner. Becasue imagine if you told him after a few weeks then he'd get mad or imagine he heard it from someone else he'd still get mad since he trusted you and you hid from him the truth.
First of all, you need to ask yourself why did you cheat on him with your ex? You and your ex might still have feelings for each other. If thats the case then you need to sort it out and break up with your boyfriend. But be easy on him.
If you don't have feelings for your ex then when you tell your boyfriend make sure that he knows it was a mistake and you never intended on it to happen, you'd never want to hurt his feelings.
If you choose to not tell your boyfriend and hide it from him, then you can either break up with him (if you have feelings for your ex) or you can stay with him and hide from him the truth (but you might end up feeling guilty)
As i said before, if i were you i'd see where my feelings are nealing towards if its my ex then id break up with my boyfriend; if its my boyfriend then im gonna tell him about it and how it was a mistake! (I know this just sounded kind of confusing) I really encourage you on letting the whole truth come out! But once again its your choice and no one can make this decision for you!
Hope i helped! Tell me what you decide and tell me how it goes! Update me soon ok? Take care and if you need anything else ask me!! <3 =)
Edit: this is a reply to your feedback!
Honey, it seems to me like you want to be with your ex! Since you have feelings for your ex it means that this wont stop. Your always going to wish that you were with him. And you might cheat on your boyfriend again.
I know you love your boyfriend but im sensing that you're more interested in your ex. If thats how you feel, then theres no shame in that. The hardest thing you're going to have to do is break up with your boyfriend. You can't stay with him if you like someone else, then that's just living a lie. =(
Im just wondering why did you and your ex break up? and how long did the relationship last?
Hope i helped! Tell me more later, and tell me what you're going to do. If there is anything else leave a question in my inbox! =) if you do make sure i know that its you. Anyways take care and update me later =) <3
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I think you have to tell him, its wrong what you did and now you have choice either tell your boyfriend and hope he'll stay with you and work it out, or break up with him making sure he knows that it is most definately not his fault why you are ending it.
One way or another he will find out -the truth always comes out and you owe him more than that to just lie to him. I know i'm being harsh but you seriously need to consider why you cheated on him? because if you were happy i dont think you would have cheated.
Best of luck. hope it all works out.
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tell your boyfriend. beleve me it hurts when your trying to keep it in. just tell him or somehow it will get to him through gossip.. never underestimate the power of gossip :P
and yrr.. just be upfront and apologise saying you didnt know why you did it and stuff like that lol!!!
if the guy is nice and understands hell forgive you if his a disgusted and irratiting kind of guy then hell dump you so fast.
just be upfront theres a lotta guys in this world im sure theres one right for you :D
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