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i dont know why i cried!!
A few nights ago me and my boyfriend for a little over a year went further sexually and he ending up eating me out.this was something i swore i would never do because i thought of it as repulsive. At first when he was asking i told him no but eventually i gave in.. after we were done i cried. I dont know why I cried.. i mean i love him and everything and it was my choice.. i dont know whats going on. I need help. why did I cry??
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you probably couldn't believe this was happening and you were shocked. girls cry when they are in shock, it's natural.
if you don't want to do it again, then don't. crying is normal when something isn't normal or it's something out of the ordinary. if you liked it and you wanna keep doing it, it's your choice. but don't do it again if you're going to cry.
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omg lol the exact same happened to me wen i was wiv my boyf!!well for me i just felt really weird about it!!its not that i completely hated it i jus felt at the time that i swore id never do it and then wen it happened i cudnt take it back!and i really have no idea why i was crying( and had an even harder time trying to explain to my boyfriend why i was!) but i just was kinda overcome by emmotion!!After it i felt silly but i guess just at the time i was a bit emmotional!!i mean we are girls after all...its in our nature to cry for no reason:) dont worry about it girl...unless it happens like everytime...;)
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well fistly you were experiecning a LOT of emotions whilst you and him were doing "sexual stuff" so your mood changes quite a lot
you could of cried because of shock that you gave in and said yes, you just didnt expect it.
Dont feel bad about it, as long as you know you knew that its what you wanted, and it wasnt forced there shouldnt be anything to worry about for you could of cried because you gave in but didnt want to do it.
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You cried...because although u wanted to do it at that moment (or just gave in)...u didn't want it after. It wasn't something you planned on doing and it wasn't something you wanted but at that moment you gave in because of the vibes and the 'place', the moment too! It's already done and nothing can happen to reverse what's happened...but you can just try to be more demanding when you don't want something to happen. Don't get caught up in the moment...just remember it's your body and your mind!
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You cried because you did something you didn't want to do; you didn't enjoy it, and you felt bad about breaking your word to yourself (that you would never do it). You were also probably a little worried about your boyfriend being grossed out by it, since the thought of it grossed YOU out, and maybe worried that it might change his feelings toward you. (You shouldn't worry about that - he wanted to do it, and if he thought it was repulsive, he wouldn't have done it). Guys want to do that because they think the girl will enjoy it (they like getting blow jobs, so they figure girls will enjoy oral sex too). So i wouldn't worry about what your boyfriend thinks. But in the future, if there's something you really don't want to do, stick to your guns and don't do it.
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because it was personal and private and something you were trying to save. but you lost it.
yoy could be releifed and happy that you shared it with your man though. you could be feeling happy and just letting your emotions all out.
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