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I just had the greatest date ever. I know a guy at school, and we've talked on a few occasions for an hour or two at a time. Anyway, we had a wonderful date tonight, and of course, ended up making out. A lot. We talked a lot too, but ooh my god, i don't know where to get started with the making out part. Anyway, we sat on a stairwell and started making out, and I ended up sitting on his lap, straddling him, which felt so good and comfortable for both of us. But i don't know if I got carried away or not. I was kissing his neck and touching the top of his chest. And when he dropped me off, we made out in the car for a good 15 minutes or so. ANd I don't know...is all of this generally appropriate on a first date, even if you totally get along with the person?

Every girl has different rules or standards for their first date. Whatever you feel is appropriate at the time I'm sure is. Because if he didn't like it I'm sure he wouldn't of made out with you in the car, and you say you guys have known eachother for a while so its not like you guys just met. I think it`s appropriate.

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Well first off- I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend Logan*(both turning 14 soon). Well me & Logan will be going out for two months next friday and that weekend I'm going to the beach with him and his family. He really wants to have sex & I do too- but..I'm kind've scared because what if the condom breaks? I really don't want to be pregnant. & I'm not sure if it will hurt or not. Like will I be sore the next day? But I do want to do it & plus if I say no he'll probably get upset. Ahh. Help me please

Well yes there is a possibility that it will break, it does happen. Personally I think your alittle young and you haven`t been going out for too long. But, since you both say your ready then you two have to live with the conseqiences. Also if he realy loves you and you tell him your not ready he should be fine with it. And probably/deffinatly you will be sore. Hope I helped.

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How do you makeout when you have never did it before

Go to www.sextutors.com and then click on kissing.

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where did u get the idea for your username at?

i dont know. i just thought about it, because i like the color blue.

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When I got off the bus today, my best said, "God, my mom got on my nerves last night." And I asked her what she did and she's like, "She was saying how I don't need to hang around the popular people and be in cliques and talk about people and stuff." And I said, "So she just randomly said that? Haha, why'd she say it?" Right after I said that, my mom drove up so I had to go. I called her about 45 minutes ago and I said, "So, what were you saying at the bus stop?" And she's like, "Uhh, I can't talk about it. They're here." And I said, "Um, what? WHO'S here? Ughhh, what were you talking about after school?" And she's like, "I gotta go. Bye." We said bye and she hung up after that. A few minutes later she texted me and said, "My mom was right next to me!!" And I sent something back and I said, "Oh, sorry. :[ I didn't know." I don't understand why she won't tell me anything, though. We normally tell each other EVERYTHING. If she's not telling me...do you think it's about me or something? Ahhhh! I don't know. Her mom told her to stop hangout with whoever it was that she was talking about it. What do I do?!?!

It may not be about you but I know if it was me in that situation I wouldn't want to talk about it infront of my mom. Maybe your friend thought her mom would get mad if she knew she told anyone about their talk. It's probably not about you, im sure she will tell you sooner or later.

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13/f

ok well my friends and i have like a lot of impromptu parties just like 6-10 people at different people's houses if we're bored one day.
well theres always one dry spot where we just dont know what to do.
we've gotten tired of seven minutes in heaven, spin the bottle, and truth or dare

what are some other good party games (kissing and also non-kissing ones)?

any and all help appreciated. thanks!

i like the nervous game. It's were you put your hand on a guys or girls leg/stomach and you move your way up until they get nervous.

or the finger's game were everyone holds up a hand or two (everybody holding up the same amount) and then you go around and each person asks a question to everyone and if you've done what they've asked you put a finger down. it's a fun way to see what your friends have done.

Hope I helped.

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okay question is it normal for my period which by the way I am on the "pill" to help. anyhow it came yesterday and its like really light not flow but the color is almost clear with a slight red...can anyone tell me what this means? if you need more info just answer saying so and i will add more.

it's normal, that's how mine is in the beginning.

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When you brush your teeth should you use warm, hot, or cold water?
I know thats dumb but does it make a difference

Well when you boil water to get rid of germs and bacteria it's hot water right, so i brush my teeth with warmish-hot water than. That's the way i think of it, i know it sounds weird.

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what the hell does it mean when a guy says:
"I`m gonna make your pussy squirm"

?--totally lost!

Mainly like make you enjoy it so much you can't handle it.

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I tried doing something and I guess it was a horrible idea after all.
I'll tell you the situation.
Kay well theres this boy[jimmy], me and my friend like but he doesnt talk to us that much anymore.
We decided to mess around and we made a screename, as if we were someone else [jenny].
We talked to him 2 nights in a row for like 5 hours, he even stayed up talking to "jenny" .
He never really knew her that well at all, becuase they are in different grades but they have like gym or computer the same period, so they see eachother on occasions.
The reason we chose to be Jenny was because Jenny was the best friend of Caroline, the girl Jimmy likes.
Continuing with the situation,he seemed to be nice and talk to Jenny online, he would always have something to talk about and try and make conversation.
He kinda started to flirt with her online.
Then on Monday,after the weekend of doing this, we realized something... what if he says something to Jenny about the IM's online.
She has no idea we did this, but what if Jimmy started to like her.
I figured that we wouldnt go on the screename again and just leave it at that until i saw Jimmy's BEST friend randomly talking to Jenny , they never talk!
Im scared that Jimmy told his best friend about her and now they might like her!
Me and my friend feel so dumb for doing this, even though it was fun
But what should we do!

One thing don't confess to him or anyone about it because either he's going to think your weird stalkers and/or never like you two. So in fact if he never knows about the truth nothing can go wrong, just let it all play off. And if he starts to talk to the real jenny and begin's to like her hen you two have to deal with it. But to risk humiliation don't tell anyone. Good Luck!

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Alright I just got my first boyfriend not too long ago, and I'm completely inexperienced, whereas, he's not.

I'm just nervous, and worried. Cause I know whenever it comes time to if we wever want to kiss, I'm probably going to chicken out or after we kiss or before we kiss make it very awkward. I'm not even sure HOW to kiss, like how long is too long and everything, lol?

I'm just a messssss.


Can someone jsut fill me in on some kissing tips maybe ( I know it comes natural, but you must be able to give me SOMETHING ), and just to like, not make it so awkward?

Well, first a kiss can be as long or as short as you'd like it to be. When you kiss, you'll know when to end it. Just don't think about it and don't be all tense because believe me they can tell. If you want to know the actual steps and what to do go to www.sextutor.com and click on kissing. This site's actually really good for beginners. Good Luck!

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I'm not sure if this is a sex question or not, but I'm asking anyways. >_<

When I think about certain things (fantasies I guess), white stuff ends up in my panites. Sometimes, it jsut happenes for no reason. There's is usually some in there every day for whatever reason. It's been happening for years and I'm starting to wonder if it's normal for not. Is in the same thing as "cum"? Sorry, I'm not very educated in the sex category.

By the way, I'm 15/F

To make it simple, it's discharge, and it's way normal. Once a girl get's her period or is about to for the first time this happens.

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Ok, This weekend I'm going to a party. The party is being held at a "certain person's" house and she tends to play lots of 'kissing' games. For one, the person I like is going so I'm kinda wondering what should I do if I get put with him for something. Should I be 'shy' or go for it?
Second, a lot of the guys going are kind of not my type at all so how would I go about kissing them if I had to?

Thanks a bunch =]

Just don't think about it, this always happens at parties. THink about someone else, and if ou do get paired up with the guy you like go for it because if you act like all "i dont want to do this" hes going to think you don't like him, then you have no chance. It'll be finee

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hello my name is marialuisa, about six months ago my husband and I were having some problems i tought he was cheating on me so i freaked out and decided to do the same thing...Thing that i'm not very proud of.
A month and a half later i found out that i was pregnant, my last menstrual period was on july 1 2006, usually doctors say that my conception date was on the between 15 and 19 of july... but i didn't have sex in those dates.
I had sex after the 26 of july wich seems impossible to get pregnant, i dont understand, doctors keep changuing my due date, and the ultrasounds are very confusing.
My husband knows what is going on because i told him, as soon as all this hapened. He thinks is his baby at least he hopes...But im not sure.
How do i know if this baby is my husband's or this other man?
I'm not sure what i am going to do after i find out.
I told my husband that if this is not his baby i will go back to my country (ecuador-South America) because i dont want him taking somebody else responsabilities, i love my husband very much i dont want to leave him but i dont really know what to do...
How can i find out who is my baby's father????
Please i need and advice

When doctors calculate the due date there is actually a period of time that is calculated with in the 40 week gestation period that includes a couple weeks where you weren't even pregnant. Regardless of who the father is your husband seems to be a supportive man, you said you loved him very much and a child should be in a loving home. People die to come to die to the U.S.A so stay regardless of the results and raise a healthy child. Good Luck

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hey i always wanted to scrunch my hair but everytime i try it comes out messed up. Any tips=)

If you have straight hair it's really hard, you have to either put moose in it and then "scrunch" it with your hands and wait and then blow dry it.
If you dont just buy the scrunching stuff or moose and so the same, but may not have to blow dry it. other wise i dont know .

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Ok, well a couple years back I met this guy over the internet. He lives in Egypt and I live in Canada. We've been on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures weekly. Is it possible that after all this that he is a fake? Because I'm really starting to get attached to him and for our school trip we're going to cairo and we were going to meet then. Should I go through with it or what. I'm really confused by it all. Sometimes, well alot we talk about our problems and well we help eachother out, I'm just scared that I'm going to get my heart broken and never be able to trust anybody anymore. What can I do about all this?

Seriously, you wont really know until you've gone and found out for yourself. Yes, there's a possibiliy he is fake, because myspace/internet people are like that. I would still go but don't set your hopes too high on him being perfect or just like he What im saying is GO FOR IT.

Hope i helped

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How young is too young to have sex. Im 16/f and i just had sex for the first time a couple of days ago.

I think it;s really your call, to me it's not young. I think anything younger than 13 is insane.

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Hi, I was watching BET, and there was a song,
about like saying no to sex and stuff, and I missed the title and artist, Ive been searching on google but I cant find anything. Does anyone know what song this might be?

s.e.x

by

lyfe jennings

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I have my big winter dance coming up on February 3rd. I am a 15 year old female, 5'5 and 163 pounds. I desperatly need to lose weight. Here are my problems:
-I love to eat
-I eat wayy too much
-I don't have enough time to excersize a lot
-I drink 1-2 sodas a day

I have 45 days to get into shape. I'd like to lose 30-40 pounds.

Here's what I'm looking for:
-Pills
-Drinks
-Powders
that speed up matabalism or just make me lose weight all together.

Most of you will say, "Don't use those things, just excercise and eat right." Yeah well being heavy runs in my family and I've tried the excercise and eat right thing and I'm just not getting the results I want.

What I'm looking for from you:
- Specific brands of pills, drinks, or powders
- Maybe even different types of excersies

Thank you so much!

no offense but that can't be done in such little time. In 45 days you could probably lose around 10-15 pounds but that means excersizing everyday and eating heathy. Salad's, chicken, NO junk food, only tea or water, NO soda. So around 3-4 small meals a day and 2 snacks(the 100 calorie snacks) If you take the pills, or powders, and drinks, once you stop your most likely to gain the weight back in other places then before, and pills aren't good for your heart at a young age. If you want something heathly see if you have HERBAL LIFE where you live, they give you shakes (which you make, its a powder), small snacks and pills/vitamans. This is alot healthier and it works really well. It does cost alittle more but its worth-it. Hope i helped.

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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee.

No there just jealous. They think you're trying to steal all the guys, probably, so they get offensive and judge. Just play around with it, i think it's fun when girls call you a slut and they know nothing about you.

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