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for the one with my friend who ive been friends for a year now,

thanks alot :)

i believe its true...
thanks again

Your very welcome

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I can have a back-bend but slip when I do it. Today my friend spotted me for a back handspring and I did pretty good because she did like all the work. How can I learn a band handspring that will give quick results? I don't have a trampoline or mat though. :[

Thanks in advance!

Watch how people do them, the rigth way. I think when you watch people and try to do what they do it helps. Have your friend come over and spot you more. I am in tumbling and years ago when I was learing flipflops (backhandsprings) I didn't do tricks or little workouts to help I just got spoted alot and practiced. Its the best way to learn is just doing it alot. Do bridge ups (backbends) to stretch though.

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hey kate
its taylore.
i need a new name thingy for my myspace.
got any ideas?
ily

HTTP://TAYLORE
TAYLORE.org/com/net
hah i love those kinda things.
think of a song you love and a word that rhyms with your name.
TAYLORE made © (like a talor for clothes, eh smart huh hah).
um i.m me and ask for more k

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Well ive been talking to this guy on aim and ive been friends with him for a year now, well heres what you need to know..
something bout HIM(my best guy friend)
Met him on myspace, i loved his bout me bc it remind me of myself and hes a shy, sweet nervous guy whos timid and, well he gets beat up for the way he dresses (scene style) hes my age, 14 and what not. but the kid is so sweet and ugh, he fucking got stabbed at school! for no reason. i mean hes really great.he sits at lunch alone, his father calls him worthless,people think hes gay,and many other things.
but anwyas whats bothering me....on aim (SORRY THIS IS LONG :( )

me: uh many things
him: like
me: people the usual
me: i love you
him: you love me
me: yes
him: no you dont
me: what makes you think that
him: i dont no
him: i just dont think you really love me

and this....

me: has anyone ever told you that they loved you
him: no

me: and its pretty fcking hard for me too
him): to what love me
me: yes
him: if its hard the n why do you do it


geez i dont know why i love him, like i dont even know what kind of love it is. everyday i think bout him and if i TRY to tell him i just cant, i cant explain good, and i get upset bc i love him to much. its hard to love someone you can only talk to aim on, weve tried to talk on the phone but he gets nervous. but when i tell him i love him and stuff he just says ok thanks. or whenever i tell him i happy im friends with you and give him credit he says the same thing. i dont get it.
i mean ugh. we can tell each other ANYTHING. he has my trust and he has mine. i trust him more than anyone. but i dunno what this is bout anyway..god just this boy.

sorry this was so long :(

Never worry about legnth. I think his problem is hes so down it seems and his selfisteam is so low because everything that happens to him that it's hard for him to believe something good is happeneing to him. He might just be really scared to be happy because he know's it will eventually stop. I think he is selfconscience alot. Maybe you should ask him about it? If you say you can talk about anything then try talking about this topic. I hope this helped

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hiii so i think im over weight im 5'6 and i weigh 150 pounds ? anything i can do to loose more in my stomach cuz thats really the only part that is chubby

Try crunches. I did over 100 a day and i really saw a difference. But if you eat crappy and don't exercise your stomach won't get better. Try eating healthy and cutting down on pop, candy, junk food and fast food. Run a mile or so around your neiborhood a day too, it's really good. But for your abs try crunches, who cares if people say they're boring. Do 4 sets of 25 a day, then you can do more if you want.

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this like clear sticky liquid comes out from me and gets on my underwear, and when it dries it is yellow. do you know what it is? and if it is bad?

It's called discharge. Its not bad at all. You get alot of it around your period time. If it bothers you then wear pantyliner so it doesn't get in your underwear.

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well in cheerleading, therese all those jumps, how can i get good at them.
&get better at splits, like will stretching daily help?

Splits help. Even if you can't do them you can still have really good jumps. But you should be flexible because being flexible in cheerleading is very very good. When you wake up, do the splits each way and just stretch out. Hold it maybe for 10 seconds. Do the same before bed. Repet every day and night. You should be getting more and more flexible. To help with jumps you should do some of the trampoline. You can get high enough to have good form on the trampoline. Then when your form is right, keep practicing them on the ground! Practice makes perfect, seriously. You'll need strong legs and a stomach for good jumps so the more you do the better.

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okay, so im 5'4'' and i weigh 100 pounds. I have a pretty small body. Accept i have kinda a bubble butt. do you know any ways to decrease that?

Jogging up hill
jogging in general (in gym we run outside and its kinda hard with the grass at different levels and stuff, but i feel my butt getting worked)


Check out this

http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm

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i love katie drozd!!

=) ilyyy

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whats a good site?

You have to add these people to see their layouts but they are really good.


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=174408486


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=82494367


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=94186004


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=39826246

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does anyone have any good tips on how to straighten your hair with a hair straightener (of course)and make it pin straight?

When I straightening mine its usually really straigh, as you can see by my picture hah. Ususally when I get out of the shower at night I blow dry it, then go to sleep. I have my straightener, a good one too (look at stores for good ones, ask employees if you need to). I put up half of my hair and leave the lower layers down. I do my hair layer by layer to make sure its all straight. Don't take huge chunks if you want it to be straigh, take smaller pieces as big as your straighteners plates can hold. I don't really used products I just am a perfectionist kinda. So the smaller the amount you straighten is important, but not like 3 strands of hair.

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um im 5`2 and im 108 lbs. is that fat? and ps. i dont have boobs so the extra ponuds i got comes from my stomach and thighs.

another question is, what helpful ways can u recommend to me about losing weight in less than a month in my stomach and thighs coz im a pretty skinny girl with really big thighs which is really weird (oh and i forgot stomach too, i look prgnant!) i need help and tips. thanks!

GO here..


www.self.com


It has a goal thing and you just get a username (no cost) and it claims to help you loose 8 lbs in a month. You arn't fat though your weight is fine. The site is good if you want to shape up though so check it out.

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hey, hah how do you change your name on myspace, like the thing above your picture, how do you change it??

thanks alott=]

Go to edit profile, then click on "name". And there you are. then just save your stuff.

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About how many times should i date her before we actually have sex? When would she be ready to do it? Do you think touching her a lot will help?

That depends a lot on the type of girl. Some are really sexual and will do it within the first month or so? Some wait till marragie, some wait alot. You shouldn't really could the time till you have sex. Make sure she's ready before anything and don't pressure her. Touching her a lot? Im not sure. If she's into you then if you flirt alot it might help but if she doesn't like you that much it might creep her out. Wait till you find out how she feels about all this first.

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hi my names kristen, i live in nj.

okay i used to be best friends with this girl emily.. she started telling lies and telling people things that arent truem she turned into a real bitch. anyway we havent talked to since january, we've been bff since 4th grade but now we go to different high schools. and now tomorrow shes going to a party i am also going to, what should i do? i mean she completely and totally hates me, and i dont want her to start with me while at my friends party. what should i say to her if i see her? what do i do?

Try ignoring her. If she hates you don't worry about talking or starting conversation just stick with your friends. You don't want to be a bitch to her either cause then maybe she'll start stuff and thats not what you want. If she says anything to you just try and not care about it. Before the party just picture anything bad she can do and try and react. Like plan it out in your head. I can't tell yuo what to say back because I don't know what she might say. Just don't say something really mean like something secrect she might have told you. Thats shallow and even if she says something like that to you you shouldn't be as lame as her.

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I just asked a girl out and we're gonna have our first date tmw. What should I do and not do on our date?

Hmm how old are you? There is different things for different ages im guessing. Well,

Dont's- talk too much about yourself, be cheap, act like someone besides yourself, burp/fart/eat like a pig(mind your manners), talk about ex-girlfriends, talk about something you can tell she isn't intrested in, try to avoid akward silences

Do- be nice, ask her what she likes and hopefully you'll be able to find something you can talk about for a while, listen to what she has to say, be a gentalman, be yourself.

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So i have this amazing boyfriend. And the thing is we have never kissed before because neither of us have experence, and we have no clue what we are doing. i know that sounds gay, but neither of us want to mess up and look like an idiots to the other person. Do you have any tips, or advice on what to do?
&& please dont tell me to sextutor, i already tried that and it did not help me.

Hah sorry, sextutor is a good site I thought but I got lazy and just sent people there. For kissing, like making out? Well making out..

1. Make sure you have good smelling breath! Try mints or icey gum. You don't want to make out with a pizza or popcorn for your first time.

2. Get into a comfortable position. Sitting down is kind of hard for a first time if you want it to be good because you have to twist and turn to face each other and its not the most comfortable position. I think standing up, his hands on your waste, your hands on his shoulders.. is the easier way. Because your standing, you don't need to turn your body anyway.

3. To get into making out, just give a hug good-bye and then go in for it! If you don't want to catch him off guard talk to him about it before hand. In order to make out one of you has to make the move sooner or later.. theres no way to get out of that.

4. The kissing. Well go into it like a normal kiss and gradually open and close your mouth in a smooth motion. Don't open and close like your eating! While you open move your tounge around and just try spelling your name? Thats what everyone says you should try to do but just make it move some motion, don't just leave it in his mouth haha. Then of course, bring your tounge in before you close your mouth again. You should be breathing through your nose.


Its alot easier to do if youve seen people do it like on movies, tv, etc. Just try and do it like them. Theres not a big chance that someone will be perfect on their first time. This site might be good for you to check out. It's all about kissing.


http://kissingbooth.com/


Hope this helped =)

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what do you value the most? and why?

Hmp, I value breathing. Hah, without breathing you couldn't live and there would be no life. Taking a breath can help so much, breathing fresh air and just thinking, "I'm alive right now". It just sort of makes me forget about issues going on and just makes me realize that there are more important things that that and that I should be glad to just be here.. breathing.

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Hi.
Do you think masturbating is wrong?
I masturbate everyday and i look forward to it. . but i always feel shame after doing it.

I have no problem with it. Its perfectly normal. I mean, if your catholic or some religion that doesn't think its right then thats a different story. But I believe its perfectly healthy. I DO think it can become a problem if you spend all your time masturbating and just do it as much as possible. To not feel bad, just think about how many other people do it. If its such a big thing in your life and you want to do it less, then stop little by little. It's probably not easy, but just try if you want to. Hope ths helped

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alright, well i'm almost 16 years old and i have never done anything with a guy. i've never had a boyfriend and i just kind of feel out of place. people in my school are really... "physical" and i think that they are crazy for half of the things they do. i guess my question is how far do people really go at my age? is it weird that i haven't done anything? i mean its not that i don't want to, but i was just wondering.

At 16, people go all the way. Sex and everything. Some people don't do anything. So don't feel left out or whatever because there are people your age that haven't done anything. It all depends on the person.

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