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So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD?


Yup, it sounds like it. But not a serious one. Most likely Yeast Infection or warts.

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whats high mainntence or whatever? i duno how to spell it lol.

a person who is high mantainance is someone who demands a lot of attention and who is not easily ignored. A girl who is very shy is not high mantainance.

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hey i was just wondering about something... well you know how girls think that boys are weird and what they do to try to impress girls are weird and not attractive at all? wel is there anything about girls that you guys hate? i just wanted to know because there's this guy that i really like and i was wondering if there's any like really annoying habits about girls that guys dont like about them.. ok please answer i rate high!!

Boys don't like girls who snub other girls to make themselves look better. It only makes you look worse.

They don't like girls who complain, cry, and plead a lot. They resent the pressure it puts on them.

They don't like girls who follow them around. They want some air like everyone else

They don't like girls who act all fake too flirty. Being natural around boys you like is a good thing to do.

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hey! Im going to homecoming in a little over a week. I want to wear my hair down. Its shoulder length, with layers and its angled.

do you amazing advice givers know of any websites or have any easy instructions on how to do my hair? I want it to be cute, but out of the way. I def. dont want it all up. maybe sides back or something.

Also, i'll be limited on time because I have work until 4 the day of the dance. (i have to get home from work, then shower, make-up, shave, touch up nails, and do hair, including blowdry, straighten or curl.)

anyone have any tips or anything that I can do?

You are the best!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsey-

Hey! I style girls' hair. If you want to go for the stylish look, what would look really good is a perimeter braid. That's where you French-braid your hair very loosely and tuck it under. It's really loose, so loose that it looks like your hair is down, but in a very glamorous way. If you want the sort of wild look, I'd suggest washing your hair, then blowdrying it straight. Then, flip your head upside down and blowdry it straight upside down. Then blowdry it straight again right side up. It looks really good! Hope I helped

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im almost 14 years old and i weigh 130ish n im almost 5'6, i have stretch marks all over my thighs , and on my ass, i get looked at weird all the time, am i over weight?is there something wrong with me, last year i got called fat like 500 times plzz help me i rate high, 13-fm
&heartsl; Michaele ♥

It's slightly overweight. Not enough to be fat, but it's a little overweight. If you can lose about 5 lbs, you'll be alright. And I'm sorry that kids are so mean to you. I really am. But if you eat lots of vegetables and do REASONABLE weight loss, not anorexic or anything, but just kind of cut the carbs and junk food, you'll be fine. Trust me :)


Hope I helped.

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Ok i've got 4 questions. If you answer all of them i'll rate you a five, unless you give me some dumbass kind of answer ;).
1.-how do you get a guy to like you
2.-how do you get a guy to notice you
3.-how can i flirt?
4.-how do i know if he's flirting back at me?
btw, i'm 15/f, skinny, natural red hair, blue eyes, (i think that i'm ok looking), i play sports, and i'm nice to everyone.
please help me!
*~*thanks*~*

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im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks.

"For Good" from the musical "Wicked" is a great choice.

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I talked to this kid that goes to my school and like a year ago he IMed me and we talked and then i started to IM him back and stuff and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me and stopped talkin to me but all the time at school ever since he has always looked at me and stuff but has never came to me and talked to me at school or anything. Do you think he likes me?? or am i getting the wrong idea. hes 1 year older then me but i kinda think i like him now and i kinda think he likes me. like when i was in a school play i was sitting on the stairs getting ready to go onstage and in the corner of my eye i seen him looking at me. He doesnt make it seem obvious when im around him.

I really hate to be the bringer of bad news, but it doesn't seem like he has a crush on you. Lot's of guys look at girls, but that doesn't mean that they like you. In the eighth grade, there was this guy I really liked, and he was always staring at me in class and I thought he liked me, but the next day rumors went around that he was going out with another girl. And he probably wasn't even looking at you. If he got distracted and looked at something nearby you, like the label on your chair, but his head was facing you, it can look like he's looking at you, even though he's not. So don't let that fool you. Also, you can't "kind of" like him. You like him or you don't. Think about it. If he was going out with someone else, would you be mad?

Hope I helped :)

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ok hears the deal, im 14 and a male, and im seein this girl, shes 20. and i dono if shes cheatin on me and i cant tell i really like her and one night i had sex wit her does anyone think that thats bad?

Is that bad? IS THAT BAD? You can't be possible in your sane mind if you don't think that a dude who's barely in high school is fucking a girl who's a sophomore in college. 1.) You're too young to even be having sex, much less girls who are 6 years older than you. 2.) Is she cheating on you? I'd be surprised if she wasn't! Find a girl your own age, you idiot! Period.

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does anyone sing here? know any songs to practice for a beginner? im near mezzo-soprano.

NEAR mezzo-soprano? Do you mean you're closer to a low soprano or a high alto? Well, I'll give you easy songs for both of them since I'm not sure.

Low Soprano:

"For Good" from "Wicked"

"I Wish It So" from "Juno" (the sheet music is currently unavailable---you can get the soundtrack of "Juno" on fynsworthalley.com. Don't frown this off!!! It's a really great song, getting the CD is worth every penny and Fynsworth Alley is a really good record company---they only sell online)

"Memory" from "Cats"

"Corner of the Sky" from "Pippin"

"Un Moto Di Gioia" from "The Marriage of Figaro"


High Alto:

"Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again" from "The Phantom of the Opera"

"Buenos Aires" from "Evita"

"Don't Cry for me Argentina" from "Evita"

"And All that Jazz" from "Chicago"



Hope this helped! Drop a word in my inbox if it's not enough

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hey i'm not really thin and i have glasses and brown/blonde hair and i was wondering if someone could tell me some make up tips for people with glasses and brown/blonde hair and what types of cloth would look good basically what'll make me look hot!?

If you're not really thin, or you've got a round or wide face, change your glasses frame to cats-eye glasses (they turn up on the outer corners). They look really sexy on not thin people. Round glasses look nerdy. And keep your hair pulled back in a bun. That looks really good with cat eye glasses. Put some glitter on your face and you'll look great. Clothes: wear white on top, and a dark colored peasant skirt.

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I`m a pretty funny person and I`m average looking, I`m not popular but somehow every time I like a guy we end up going out. I don`t have a problem with this but everytime I get a boyfriend we go out for 3 or 4 days then I break up with him. Like my attention will actracted to another guy or something . Sometimes me and the first guy will get back together then break up again. What should I do ? I hate doing this all the time.

Your problem seems to be that you don't think about it before you act. You get a crush on a guy you haven't considered whether he'd make a good boyfriend or not, and you go "Hey I like you! Lets go out." Soon, get to know him some more and he's not what you'd consider the ideal boyfriend. Then you break up, move on to another guy, and the whole thing begins over again. To avoid this, get to know a guy before you go out so you know whether he's boyfriend material. It also helps to let your liking for him develope more, so if you do ever go out, your interest won't turn to someone else so quickly.

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is a 1/2 inch alot to grow in a year? im 14 - and someone has told me that you stop growing when ur around 18.

thats great! you actually stop growing after you have had your first period

you only grow about an inch or two after that

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wen you apply eyeliner on the bottom, are you supposed to put it like on the area right above your lower eyelashes or under them. cuz whenever i tried to get it under them it looks like the eyeliner isn't even near my eye. and for the top, how do you get it so that it doesnt look like there is a space between the eyeliner and your lashes??

you put it right above your lower lash at the skin colored barrier between the lash and the red part

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is having sex before marriage a sin

well yes its a sin but everyone has sinned anyway so it doesnt really matter so if you want to just buy a box of condoms before you start


i used to be a protestant (i stopped when i was thirteen) but i didnt give a shit about what the bible said

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I love my boyfriend but lately he has been acting so possessive! He doesn't want me to hang out with my friends (though it fine for him to hang out with his). He doesn't even want me talk to them on the phone when I happen to be around him. He is starting to give me the creeps. Any advice?

i think that you should get rid of him
if this continues it could become abusive
almost all abusive relationships start out by being too possessive


hope i helped :)

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I wrote earlier about a little boy getting hit by a truck...
His splean is brussied ? is that bad????
His lungs might be brussied! is that bad???



-Thanks-

Read the question that is labled "Dead Little Boy:'(!?!" for more info!

Think about it. Do you really need 6 columnists to answer this for you? If a boy, particularly a little boy, is hit by a truck and some of his organs are bruised, do you think that's good? You don't need advice, you need to be hit over the head with a brick

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which out of all of these broadway shows are the best and which one should i get tickets to??

-avenue Q
-hairspray
-wicked

They're all good. If you get tickets to anyo of them, you'll get your money's worth. Though wicked is easily the best.

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I am a 16 year old girl, who loves to act and I love to preform in shows. I have done many shows but my problem is I am not a singer. To be honest, my voice is pretty awful, so I can only really get parts in non-musicals or just be in the chorus for musicals. This is fine with me, but I love singing so much I just wish to improve my voice a little. Now I am not asking for a transformation that will suddedenly land me the lead in a musical...I know that isn't realistic, but I would like to improve my voice. I do NOT want to have a voice teacher...I don't think my parents would spend money on that nor do I want to be that serious. Are there any other ways of improving my voice? Any tricks anyone knows? Also are there any websites that can help you for FREE? Also what would be a good broadway song to sing at an audition?...my voice is on the lower side (I cannot hit high notes). Thanks You!

Awww! There's no such thing as an awful voice, just an untrained voice. If you can't get a vocal lesson, your voice is pretty much going to stay the same. Listen, I'm a singer, and I can tell you right off the bat that voices can only improve once they've been trained and their ranges have been built up.

As for high notes, I'm very sorry to say this, but you will never get anywhere as a singer if you can't sing high. At least, you could only perform in very, very easy musicals because female contraltos (girls with low voices) almost never get jobs. In fact, the only show I can think of that has low notes for a girl is Evita, but it's still very vocally demanding. But you can build up your vocal range so you can sing high notes! If you want, I can give you tips on that too. Just drop a word in my inbox.

Now for the audition piece: the very best song for an audition from a broadway show would have to be "I Wish It So" from the musical "Juno." "Juno" ran in 1958 for only 16 shows and it was really unsucessful, but "I Wish It So" kind of took a life of it's own after the show. However, it might be hard to track down, so I would buy it online

Hope I helped!

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ok here is the deal i wanna know the meaning of my name and i cant find any websites willing to tell me.
my name is joanne

The name "Joanne" is English and means "God is gracious." This might not sound too cool, but that's what it means. If you have anymore name questions, feel free to drop a word in my inbox. I know a lot about names

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