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i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.

This girl sounds like a big shit started. She has no right to go around telling people you and your boyfriend had sex, when you didn't. Even if it was true it's none of her business. Just act like you don't care. Because if the girl that started it find out it's getting to you, they'll keep doing it, that's what bully's do. Just ignore them, then they'll shut up.
♥ Krissy

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Well...my sister told me about this one younger kid who she thought was so adorable. He's a little chunky but I dont care cause when I seen him I thought he was so cute!!lol He went past me and just looked at me! Thats It
! I cant expect him to do or say anything but i dont know...how do i get him to notice me without going around the skool looking like a whore...please help

Try to get your sister to hook you guys up. Or get her to get his phone number for you. Then maybe you can spark something up, start hanging out or go to a movie. Then take it from there!
♥ Krissy

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I'm 17 and I really like this guy, he's 2O, but age isn't the problem at all. We went out like three times, & it was tonsa fun. But then I picked up my cell when my ex called one night & that pissed him off, which is understandable. But, he's really attractice, so he has no problem finding other girls. I really like him, so I want to "win" him back, but how should I do it? I think it annoys him when I iM him too much, I'm not going to call him, so.. what could I do? =\

You have to talk to this guy. Call him or talk to him in person. Either way, your going to have to face him. If he doesn't trust you enough to let you talk to your ex, what do you have? If you don't have trust in a relationship, you have nothing. Try talking to him and tell him how much he means to you. If he's still pissed off, after everything you've tryed to do. Move on. No guy is worth that. There's so many guys out there. Just keep looking!
♥ Krissy

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Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!

It could turn into something bad later if you don't do something about it now. This guy is crazy. Tell him to lay the hell off and you want nothing to do with him. You don't want to do anything with him or speak to him. Tell him he makes you sick and when he finds something to talk about, other then sex all the time, then he MAY be worth your time. Other then that, tell him to find someone else to annoy the shit out of. This guy seems like a real creep! If he still keeps bothering you after all you say to him, report him to the cops. Or talk to a teacher, friend or close family member. This is sexual abuse. No guy should be talking like that, especially when you told him you have no interest in him what so ever.
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I'm thinkin of piercin my own belly button.What do I need to pierce my own belly button? I got a needle. Can someone tell me what I need to do?

For your ears, just take a neddle and do it. But I wouldn't do that to your belly button. It could get infected and that wouldn't go good. I'd just go somewhere and get it done. It's only 45$ and it's worth it, because they know how to do it.
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What does it mean when a guy says 'don't play me'? This guy said it to my mate a few days ago and neither of us knows what he means.

Don't play me = don't lie to me, don't fuck with me, don't bullshit me, etc.
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i need to know stuff about having boobs. i'm 15 years old and i need to know stuff. like should i wear one at night? what kinds of bras are right? and they hurt sometimes, so what can i do?

Nothings going to happen if you wear a bra at night. I wear one. Without it, I feel weird. Just get one of them sports bra's to sleep in.
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OKay my crush has been in a bad mood so far this week! i am trying to tlak to him but he doesn't talk to me as much as he use to! he is depressed all the time and not as engeric as he use to be! can someone tell me what i can do to cheer him up?! any ideas?!

He could be just having a bad week, that is what could be making him depressed. If something is bothering he'll tell you. But he probably just needs to think things out. Then he'll probably tell you what is going on. Just be there for him and tell him how much you care. Try cheering him up, take him to the mall, or chill at your house and watch some movies.
♥ Krissy

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I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!

Hun, your going to have to tell your mom. She's going to start noticing soon. It would be best to tell her. She might be freaked out at first, but she's your mother, she'll be there for you. As for your ex, you have to tell him. Because he needs to be in this baby's life, no questions about it. He's the father he has to take charge. If you want any help, my friend got pregnant at a young age too, you could talk to her. Her e-mail is little_ladiie@hotmail.com
♥ Krissy

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ok..me nd my bf have been together for 7 months. just recently we had oral..and he busted...so he went to the bathroom and everything was ok. later that day, he fingered me. my period has always been irregular. im late a week nd my bf is freaking out. is there any way i culd b pregnant?

No hun. You can't get pregnant from him "busting" his load, especially while your doing oral. You could get a test to be on the save side. But the only way you'd be pregnant if he came anywheres need your vagina.
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i'm a teenage girl.well i have a b/f who has this, "i dont care, get out my face" additude to everyone but me and my family.He gets poor grades and comes from a low-class family.
I have been told I have a good additude, I get straight A's, and I come from a high-middle class family.We are also the opposite race.
Everyone tells me I could do better than him and he'll only bring me down. But I'm the only person he really trusts and respects, and we both really care about each other.(we've been going out for about 9 months.)What should I do? Forget about him and find someone with a better status, or stay with him?
-confused

The question is, do you really like him? If you do, there's no reason to dump him because he's "lower class" then you. I can see that you make him happy and maybe you could change his ways around. He trust you and respects you, you couldn't get a better guy then that. Just because he has this "I don't care" additude doesn't mean he's not a great guy. He cares about you and your family. That's a great guy there. If you don't have any feelings what so ever, dump him. But I can see you do. I wouldn't dump this boy, he cares so much about you. Maybe you could try talking to him about his additude and maybe he'll change for you.
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Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help

If it ever comes up, just say your not ready and that you just want to give it a little more time. Tell him that your sorry for leading him on and such. He'll understand. He's your boyfriend. If he loves you, everything will be great. Then when the time comes it will be that much more special, because you've waited till your a 100% ready.
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myself and my 2 cousins(i'm 25) had charges put on a man for sexual assult it happened to me when i was 13 and happened to the other girls 5 years ago the other girls still want to go though with it, but i want to drop my charges as i have 3 children to look after and dont want to turn there lives upside down.he has been arrested and relised on bail now we have a carmital hearing coming up in 4 weeks! can i legal get my charges dropped!

You can get the charges dropped. Although I don't think you should. You were sexual assulted and he should be arrested for it. Don't let him get away with it, especially something like this that you've been fighting with so long.
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i like this guy and hes hott and we friends we talk alot and sit by each other he waits for me when i get out of classes but i mean we huged before and held hands but not to be
serious ...but im i don't if he is what should i do ?
should i ask him if he likes me or something i need som ideas or anthing

It sounds like he does like you. Even if he's holding your hand and hugging you, you probably think he isn't serious, but he probably thinks differently. I think you should ask this boy if he likes you, then take it from there. I'm sure he does like you, it sounds like it!
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There's this guy in my school, and I really like him and all..I saw him a lot during the fall, but now I never see him..I wrote a note for him, but I never managed to get the courage to give it to him...I know at one point in time he liked me..but now..its just so confusing..I need advice on how to like get his attention without looking like a fool.

Thanks to those whom answer = )

You have to give this guy the note you wrote to him. This note could start everything off. Slip it in his locker or give it to a friend to give it to him, if your too scared to give it to him yourself. This could get his attention, then he'd probably start talking with you again.
♥ Krissy

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ok sorry this might be long!..i will rate if you read..!!
ok i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18...well lately weve been haveing some problems...1st off theres this girl *stacy* that he talks to and says it's his best friend well stacy's cuzin keyed my car while stacy was standing right there and it really bugged me cause stacy didnt stop her...well a couple days ago my boyfriend had called me and i told him i would call him back because i was getting in the shower...well when i got out i called him for an hour none stop and by the time i got ahold of him it was time for me to get off the phone with him...well turns out he was on the phone with Stacy..so i told him to call me back at 10 well i got tired of waiting so i called him well then at 10 the phone rings and it's this girl Molly yeah i really don't like this girl it's his "best freind" and she already caused some problems before in the realstionship thats why i don't like her anymore((she lives in maryland))((we live in georiga)) well anyways it pissed me off cause he got off the phone with me to talk to her...and said some bull crap like well i don't want anyone mad at me so i was like so you would rather have your girlfriend mad at you then her...
well he knows i don't like him talking to her or any other girls and it really herts...and then my mom was on the phone with stacy's mom ((talking about them keying my car)) well stacy's mom had told my mom that my boyfriend had gone over to stacy's house and has been calling stacy...well that really pissed me off beacuse he kept that from me and never told me...stacy's mom told my boyfriend not to come to the house or call stacy any more...but my boyfriend told me that stacy calls him...also i don't know if this will help but we do go to differnt schools and his going off to college next year

sorry that it's so long...but i just don't know what to do about all this...i will rate you for reading

It sounds like he might be confused about all these girls, especially you. This Stacey and Molly girl seem to be screwing up everything between you and your boyfriend. Your having rough times, but I'm sure there are better guys out there for you. You don't need a guy that lies to you over the smallest things. If he lies to you about this, what else is he lying about, you know? That's just dumb. I'm sorry, but your best bet is to call it quits. Don't worry hun, you'll find someone a lot better. Someone that is going to care about you so much more.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, I Love this guy i know and i dont mean just another crush,ive had plenty of those, this time its diffrent, this time i really think im in love, hes so perfect, and its not like i just like his looks or money or anything cause hes not like rich or anything and he really isnt what most people would consider to be hot hes just really nice and funny and i can never stop smiling when im around him, but i know for like a fact that he dosent like me,so my question is...how do i just get over him? Please, I need someones help!
Love Sick

Nothing can make you get over a guy, besides time. You just can't wake up and be over him. Maybe you should try hanging out with your friends to get your mind off of him. Try finding someone new that would be worth your time. Just think of it this way. This guy wasn't your "mr.right" and your just that much closer to finding the one that is.. once you get over him.
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hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!

You could put a lighter blonde or brown in. Blonde highlights would look good, because you have light brown hair. Maybe even go to a copperish color for your hair. That's what I have and I love it.
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

Put it in the washer and use hot water, then when you dry it, use hot water as well.
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I have really hairy arms and its embaressing i dont know what to do about it. I cant shave because it will grow back darker and my stomach pluss back is hairy too . does anybody know what i can do?

You could try waxing. It doesn't go back for at lease a month and it wont go back darker or more of it. I'd try that, it's your best bet.
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