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my boyfriend..and the others
ok sorry this might be long!..i will rate if you read..!!
ok i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18...well lately weve been haveing some problems...1st off theres this girl *stacy* that he talks to and says it's his best friend well stacy's cuzin keyed my car while stacy was standing right there and it really bugged me cause stacy didnt stop her...well a couple days ago my boyfriend had called me and i told him i would call him back because i was getting in the shower...well when i got out i called him for an hour none stop and by the time i got ahold of him it was time for me to get off the phone with him...well turns out he was on the phone with Stacy..so i told him to call me back at 10 well i got tired of waiting so i called him well then at 10 the phone rings and it's this girl Molly yeah i really don't like this girl it's his "best freind" and she already caused some problems before in the realstionship thats why i don't like her anymore((she lives in maryland))((we live in georiga)) well anyways it pissed me off cause he got off the phone with me to talk to her...and said some bull crap like well i don't want anyone mad at me so i was like so you would rather have your girlfriend mad at you then her...
well he knows i don't like him talking to her or any other girls and it really herts...and then my mom was on the phone with stacy's mom ((talking about them keying my car)) well stacy's mom had told my mom that my boyfriend had gone over to stacy's house and has been calling stacy...well that really pissed me off beacuse he kept that from me and never told me...stacy's mom told my boyfriend not to come to the house or call stacy any more...but my boyfriend told me that stacy calls him...also i don't know if this will help but we do go to differnt schools and his going off to college next year
sorry that it's so long...but i just don't know what to do about all this...i will rate you for reading
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it sounds like this guy might be too much of a player if he's got these girls that are all his 'best friends'. you need to talk to him and if he tells you he does things with them, then he does. if he tells you he doesn't, it's all just how much you trust him. but he might very well have these friends as just girls, and maybe even they like him. but that doesnt mean he likes them. he might only see them as friends and never really even thought about anything more with them.
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well-tell him to be honest with you. sounds like the girl is mucho trouble tho
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looks like you're in a jam. i would say he's afraid of commitment or something, but he's too old for that, i think.
if he can't put his girlfriend first, then something's wrong....
and definitely since he's putting you through all this confusion and whatnot, i believe you need someone who has much less drama attached and has their priorities straight.
and if he's going off to college, you can't trust him. if he's keeping these simple things from you now, when he goes to college, he'll swear he doesn't have girls for friends. it might hurt, but if you break away from him, you won't have to worry about stacy or molly or anyone from his side of the fence anymore. hope i helped any!
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Why are you getting mad at your boyfriend just because he's talking to girls? He can be friends with girls. But, I see what you mean. I wouldent want my bf talking to other girls...I want him talking to me all the time. So yeah, what should you do? Explain to your boyfriend that you really like him and that it sucks to know he talks to other girls. And ask him if he would be willing to give up talking to Stacy. I dont think you should let him stop talking to ALL his friends that are girls. He can talk to them but I think you should be worried about Stacy and whoever else that bothers you! But dont be too strict. Talk to him about what bothers you, and figure something out! Be patient, dont start a fight...just figure it all out! I hope everything works out for the best. Good luck and if you need more help..leave one in the inbox!!
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It sounds like he might be confused about all these girls, especially you. This Stacey and Molly girl seem to be screwing up everything between you and your boyfriend. Your having rough times, but I'm sure there are better guys out there for you. You don't need a guy that lies to you over the smallest things. If he lies to you about this, what else is he lying about, you know? That's just dumb. I'm sorry, but your best bet is to call it quits. Don't worry hun, you'll find someone a lot better. Someone that is going to care about you so much more.
♥ Krissy
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