about

My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

advice

My friend is leaving so me and some friends decided to make her a 'bebo' and 'myspace' flash box with pictures of everyone on. We just need a song. Can you suggest any good songs with lyrics relating to missing people/friendships.
Thanks

ok a few suggestions are:
- Photograph- Nickelback
- On The Ride- Aly & Aj
- Ocean Avenue- Yellowcard
- Cool- Gwen Stefani
- Protecting Me- Aly & Aj

I would use either Photograph because it's about looking back on the good times or On The Ride, because it says how amazing life is when you have good friends by your side =]

good luck and hope it helps!
♥ Laura Jane =]

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Hey can someone tell me what's the song that comes after the "stop!"

watch this vid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXKM3JUNvqw&search=buttons%2C%20pussycat%20dolls

"Shake" by Pitbull and the Ying Yang Twins

Hope it helps
Laura

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What are some good techno songs?


Some techno singers I know are:
-Cascada
-Lucas Prata
-Accuface
-AxThat Axel F Frog
-Dj Sammy
-Eiffel 65

That's All I Got!
hope it helps
x0x Laura

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I've only kissed one guy b4, IT WAS A TOTAL DISASTER! SO, Im really nervous about kissing my b/f. I want to kiss him but I don't know how to make-out. I'll mess up for sure.
Any help is appreciated!
Websites
Personal experiences
Etc.
THANX IN ADVANCE!
~Kayla~

Ok, first of all. Don't think of the first kiss.
Just drop it becasue that's what will most likely mess you up.

There really is no right or wrong way to make out.
Just do what feels right. I mean, don't shove your tongue down his throat or anything, just kiss and let whatever happnes, happen

hope it helps
x0x Laura

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can someone please explain the song whats left of me by nick lachey. cuz i think i understand but im not sure though just wanted to double check lo.

I'm not totally sure on this, but I think he's singing about Jessica Simpson, and how the next person he dates or whoever he's dating can have 'what's left of' him because he's upset about his divorce?
That's how I interperted it.
hope it helps

Laura*

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I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?

Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.

f/13

Well, this is tough. But I really wouldn't get too involved.
Maybe, try calmly talking to your best friend and sya, "Listen i think she might hurt you in the future. And maybe you should find someone else." If he gets angry, just say, "I'm really sorry. I only want whats best for you."
Don't do anymore than that.
Just let time got by and see what happens.
Everything happnes for a reason...
hope it helps
♥ Laura

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Right after I met Kate she was my very best friend. Now, Kate is moving. When I asked her parents why they had to leave, they had such stupid answers, and I'm going to miss her like crazy! I'm so upset that she's leaving me, it feels like the whole world is crashing down. Now what? How will I deal without her?

You can always email, and im her.
You can talk through myspace or xanga.
If she dosen't have one, make her one!

you can also write to each other.
Maybe get like, web cams and you can talk over them.
Or digital cameras to send pictures?
Hope this helps
♥ Laura

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so me and my friend were remembering the 90's and we wanted to know some 90's pop bands haha i know its a dumb question but were curious lol.

thanks

Here are some I found:
1. Spice Girls
2. Backstreet Boys
3. Nsync
4. Radiohead
5. Kc and Jojo
6. Nirvana
7. Green Day
8. Christina Aguilara
9. Mandy Moore
10. Jessica Simpson

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anyone know any good bands or songs that sing songs about love?

I always have music answers =]
So...

4ever- The Veronicas
Addicted- Kelly Clarkson
Collide- howie Day
Far Away- Nickelback
How Far- Martina Mcbride
In Another Life- Ashlee Simpson
Protecting Me- Aly & Aj
She Will Be Loved- Maroon 5
Stickwitu- Pussycat Dolls
Tangled Up In Me- Skye Sweetnam
There You'll Be- Faith Hill
The Reason- Hoobastank
We Are Gonna Happen- Emma Roberts
You Found Me- Kelly Clarkson


Some bands and singers are:
Cascada
Rihanna
Kelly Clarkson
Jesse Mccartney
Rob Thomas
The Click 5


hope it helps
♥ Laura


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If you are sent an invitation to someone's Sweet 16 and the card says RSVP, do you have to call to inform them that you will not be attending?

It measn to call and say if you are or you are not coming to the aprty.
Hope this helps

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What are some good sites to get music from??

thanks xoxo

I only get my music from
iTunes Music Store.
They've got it all.

The end =]
Hope it helps

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I am a 14/f and I would really like to start babysitting. How can I find people with kids though who are in need of a babysitter?

I would have your mom or dad ask friends who they know have kids. If you have younger cousins, ask your aunt or uncle if they need a baby sitter.
hope this helps
--*Laura

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which movie will make me cry more the movie Click or the moview The lake house?
thanxx

Well Click actually as sad at aprts and made me cry a little. But I haven't seen the Lake House. It might make you cry because it's a love story and it might be sad?
hope i helps
--* Laura

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How do you delete songs on your ipod? thanks.

You just delete them in your library, then plug in the iPod to update and they will be gone!
hope it helps!
=] Laura

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what are some good dancing songs?

I love music, so I'll try and help you out:

- Break My Heart- Hilary Duff
- Dance, Dance- Fall Out Boy
- Everytime We Touch- Cascada
- Miracle- Cascada
- Heaven- Dj Sammy
- Jerk It Out- The Caesars
- Lose My Breath- Destiny's Child
- Rompe- Daddy Yankee
- Run It! Chris Brown
- Since U Been Gone- Kelly Clarkson
- Tempurature- Sean Paul

Yeah, that's all I've got right now. Try searching on a music site, like iTunes for DANCE REMIXES.
Hope it helps =]
Laura

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Is there a way to rip your jeans so it looks natural??

I found some websites to help you, because i don't rip my jeans. Hope they can help you =]

--http://www.wikihow.com/Rip-Your-Own-Jeans

--http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=84644

--http://fashion.about.com/cs/doityourself/a/DIYteenjeans.htm

hope it helps and good luck ripping em!
Laura

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ok so you know how panic! at the disco is having a summer concert tour?

when are they coming to maryland/dc, and if theyre not, where is the closest place to md/dc

Here's their tour schedule:

Jul 5 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: Dome Theater Niagara Falls, NY
Jul 6 2006 7:30P
The LC Pavillion Columbus, OH
Jul 7 2006 6:30A
SOLD OUT: House Of Blues Chicago, IL
Jul 8 2006 8:00P
Summerfest 2006 Milwaukee, WI
Jul 9 2006 7:00P
SOLD OUT: Myth St. Paul, MN
Jul 11 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: Bogart's Cincinnati, OH
Jul 12 2006 7:30P
Plain Dealer Pavillion Cleveland, OH
Jul 13 2006 7:30P
DeltaPlex Grand Rapids, MI
Jul 14 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: State Theater Detroit, MI
Jul 15 2006 7:30A
Molson Amphitheatre Toronto, ON
Jul 16 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: Metropolis Montreal, QC
Jul 18 2006 7:30P
Chevrolet Amphitheatre Pittsburgh, PA
Jul 19 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: Egyptian Room Indianapolis, IN
Jul 20 2006 8:00A
SOLD OUT: The Pageant St. Louis, MO
Jul 21 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT: Uptown Theater Kansas City, MO
Jul 22 2006 8:00P
SOLD OUT: The Fillmore Denver, CO
Jul 24 2006 7:00P
SOLD OUT - In The Venue Salt Lake City, UT
Jul 25 2006 7:30P
SOLD OUT - The Big Easy Boise, ID
Jul 26 2006 7:30P
Expo Center Portland, OR
Jul 27 2006 7:00P
SOLD OUT: Croation Centre Vancouver, BC
Jul 28 2006 7:30A
SOLD OUT: The Premier Seattle, WA
Jul 30 2006 8:00P
SOLD OUT: Warfield Theatre San Francisco, CA
Jul 31 2006 8:00P
SOLD OUT: The Grove Anaheim, CA
Aug 1 2006 8:00P
Soma San Diego, CA
Aug 2 2006 8:00P
SOLD OUT: The Wiltern Los Angeles, CA
Aug 4 2006 1:00P
SOLD OUT:Lollapalooza Chicago, IL
Aug 18 2006 8:00P
High Field Festival Erfurt, DE
Aug 19 2006 8:00P
Pukkelpop Festival Hasselt, BEL
Aug 20 2006 8:00P
Lowlands Paradise Biddinghuizen, NL
Aug 25 2006 8:00P
Reading Fest Reading, UK
Aug 26 2006 8:00P
Leeds Fest Leeds, UK
Oct 12 2006 8:00P
Vega Copenhagen, DK
Oct 13 2006 8:00P
Grunspan Hamburg, DE
Oct 14 2006 8:00P
Knaack Berlin, De
Oct 16 2006 8:00P
Flex Vienna, AT
Oct 17 2006 8:00P
Backstage Club Muchen, DE
Oct 18 2006 8:00P
Die Rohre Stuttgart, DE
Oct 22 2006 8:00P
Brixton Academy London, UK
Oct 23 2006 7:30P
Brixton Academy London, UK
Oct 24 2006 7:30P
Brixton Academy London, UK
Oct 26 2006 8:00P
Live Music Hall Koln, DE
Oct 27 2006 8:00P
Laiterie Strasbourg, FR
Oct 28 2006 8:00P
Ninkasi Kao Lyon, FR
Oct 29 2006 8:00P
Elysee Montmartre Paris, FR


hope it helps
Laura

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i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f

I have this problem too. I'm just shy around anyone i don't know. It's easier to talk online, because you're not afraid of sounding stupid or saying something wrong. Talking over the phone, you worry how do I sound? and stuff like that.
It dosen't neccesarily mean you're insecure about your body image.. maybe you're just nervous.
Don't worry, if this guy likes you, then it won't matter how you sound, just what you say.
Hope this helps
--* Laura

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Does anyone kno any happy love songs. My bf is going away for almost two weeks and music always makes me feel better. So I would like to make a cd full of happy love songs. Any ideas?

Alright, well I love music too so here are some songs I think would be good:

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I`m going to be asking this guy that I like out tomorrow or sometime soon, whenever I see him next. I want to look cute / sweet / pretty, you get what i mean. But I dont want to look to sluty or anything! what should i wear? p.s im pale so sometimes i dont like wearing skirts but i kno its summer so yeah..

any suggestions?

Don't wear anything to different from your normal clothes. Don't scare him off by making him think you're dressing and acting differently because of him. Becasue if he likes you, then he'll think you chanegd and might not like you. Just be yourself and wear something normal. Maybe add some pretty eyeshadow that you don't normally wear to feel extra pretty. =] You'll do fine. Good Luck!
Hope this helps
Laura

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