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i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f
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oh trust me thats the same deal with me, but you're probably skinny, see i'm not (which im working on) so im SUPER insecure about my body when im with a guy even if i DONT like him. there's nothing you can really do except pretend you're on the phone and just tell yourself you look awesome..it helps.
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This happens to a lot of girls..and some guys with girls. Just pretend your on the phone with the guy, be yourself and they wont even care about how you look.
Good Luck :)
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You know what I had the same problem with boys from my school!!! To overcome your shyness always bring an outgoing friend with you so when she starts to talk to you then you will feel more comfortable talking around any boy!!!
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I have this problem too. I'm just shy around anyone i don't know. It's easier to talk online, because you're not afraid of sounding stupid or saying something wrong. Talking over the phone, you worry how do I sound? and stuff like that.
It dosen't neccesarily mean you're insecure about your body image.. maybe you're just nervous.
Don't worry, if this guy likes you, then it won't matter how you sound, just what you say.
Hope this helps
--* Laura
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You are most likely insecure about something, not necessarily your body image. Whenever you're around them, take the opportunity, show off a little. When you talk online or on the phone, they can't truly see your personality. It all takes time and experience.. hope i helped.
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i was just like that when i was 14. im over it now. anyways just go up to him. hes just a person like you and me. start little by little. first just go up and say hi. when your done its like glad thats over. then later when you see him ask him how hes doin. then ask later when you see him like hey got anything special goin on this week and just work your way up. i understand your shy and i dont think that your upset about the way you look. you just arent used to talking to your face to face. you know what. if he comes up to you and starts talking to you face to face. dont be scared. hes your friend. talk to him like how you would talk to your friends even though hes a boy. just face your fear. i know its really hard but just try that. when he talkes to you face to face make up and excuse and then work your way from there. thats all i can say. reall yhoped i helped and i want to know that i helped you. and if i didnt help so much im sorry. but there you go. just make a method or something. if you hav more questions please ask me or email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com
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The best way to get over it is to just see a guy you think is hot and go up to him and start talking to him. No it doesn't mean you are insecure about your body it just could be that you are nervous and you don't really know what to say or how he will react.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelover2104@yahoo.com)
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Hi, your probaly just feeling nervous and shy. This is ok and normal but the only way to break through it is to get out more into the social zone. What exactly makes you feel shy? If it is your body image then really you don't need to worry about it. We all look different and we can't really change who we are. If your worried about first impressions and what people think of you then just think about it this way "I can't read minds, so how do I know what they're thinking?". People are always judging on a person because of their looks, but do they really know the inside you. The real you. Just because you look nice doesn't mean you are nice, and just because you look ugly then it doesn't mean your ugly inside. I suppose my point is that if your worried about what people are going to think, then don't. And if they think negative of you or say something that put's you down then they don't really know the positive you. Go out a bit more and socialize. The more you think about being shy, the more you will be shy. The only way you can stop being shy is to just socialize. I know it's really hard, but once you get talking to people and be around them the better you will beable to adapt to them. If you do start talking to people, then ask open questions. Open questions can give you are more detailed answer and can lead to a conversation. Then the more you talk to the person, the more comfortable you feel about being around the person. Just go out there and do it. You owe it to yourself for the best. Daniel.
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Alot of people are like that. It doesn`t always mean your insecure, if your always worried about what they think, if your not pretty enough, and stuff like that then you are. If you always feel shy in person, just slowly talk to them on msn or the phone till your are abit comfortable, then hang out with him with friends. After awhile you will start to feel comfortable. Hope this helps. ♥
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