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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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what are some good quotes or song lyrics that have to do with death/someone dying..
like

and in the end, i hope you had the time of your life

and other things of that nature..?

thanks

I usually use this quote site. It has everything:

www.wittyprofiles.com

I have a rash on my stomach/chest. It is bright red with white spots & very itchy. I had sunburn a week or two ago, but the rash isn't in every spot I had sunburn, only a few. Does sunburn healing give you a rash? Or is it from something else? Nothing else really changed. Same soap & same clothes. Also, I feel dehydrated. There's a cream I can use, but I have to make sure it doesn't give me an allergic reaction. Is it possible to have rashes while your sunburn is healing? Thanks!!

It could be from something else. You may be allergic to something you've been using. If it's the same soap & the same clothes -- maybe check the detergent your mom has been using on your clothes. Has she switched it lately? If so, that could more than likely be it.

However, I suggest you see a doctor about this & see what they tell you since none of us here know about it. Honestly, I doubt it's your sunburn. I had sunburn & it never did that to me.

What would you do iuf you hurt someone's feelings (someone in your family) and you apologize but they don't want to forgive you?

You can do two things:

You can:
[A] Accept the fact that they're refusing to accept your apology.
or
[B] Give them some time to themselves & try again later.

If you happen to choose A, just live with the fact that they're not interested in any type of apology from you. If they're that stubborn & that's how things are going to be, so be it. That is their loss. The most you can do is just continue to be nice.

If you go with option B, then give them a few weeks to calm down & get back to themselves & then try again. If they still don't happen to accept your apology, then resort to option A.

You cannot make someone forgive you, that is their choice, but you can still apologize & move on. Just because they cannot be an adult about it doesn't mean that you can't either.

alcohol?
why do so many people drink it. i've tried it && i hate it alot. do people just not like it and drink it anyways or do they actually like it?
jusst wonderrring :) thankss for readingg

People drink for a lot of reasons.

The most common reason is because they think it's helping them to solve their problems. Alcohol is a depressant type of drug, so people with problems will take it because it has an effect on them that they like.

Others drink just to get knocked on their ass from being so drunk. In other words, they drink just to do it. Some do it because they like it, and others do it because getting drunk is a "cool" thing to do.

However, if you don't like alcohol, then don't drink it. It's that simple. You don't have to drink it, so do yourself a favor & don't. You're better off without it.

whats the difference between a blow job and a head job??? can someone clue me in plz!! thanxxxx

There isn't one. They're the same thing.

hey i was wondering if anyone knew what hair color i can use without bleaching my hair

i have naturally brown/dark brown hair and i do not want to bleach it to dye it

i want colors like pink, blue, purple things like that

oh and i already tried loreals color rays and that worked really good but they do not have a wide variety of colors

thanks so muchfpr the help =]=]

Not bleaching your hair isn't an option.

Your hair is dark & in order to get it to a color such as blue, green, purple, pink etc; you would need to bleach it first. You won't turn your hair those colors without the bleach. Therefore you need bleach.

If you have a Sally's, go there. They have everything you'd need to do your hair the way you want to. Plus they have every single hair dye color you can think of. =)

my friend ran away from his house today, walked for about 2 hours, then went over to my boyfriend's house where we both were. my boyfriend and him a tight friends. can my boyfriend get in legal trouble for letting my friend into his house?

cuz really, my boyfriend did good, because my friend was walking through some sketchy neighborhoods. he could've gotten shot or stabbed, or jumped.

Yes/no.

Your boyfriend did the right thing by keeping your friend safe, but he needs to call his parents & them know where their son is.

If his parents happen to find out, your boyfriend could get in trouble for harboring a minor. But it wouldn't be your boyfriend that's in trouble, it'll be his parents.

Well i liked this guy for about 2-3 months but we knew each other since grade 2 but then i moved. so we lost touch and all of a sudden we start talking hung out and i started to have feelings for him. But then i stopped and then he liked me. He told me on the last day here. Since he's going on vacation for a month or two. But the thing is i found out i still like him but I'm just scared he'll forget me and like date a girl on vacation because he liked me on our first time hanging out. Meaning he's "easily" in love. What do you think? do you think he'll find another vacation chick in a month? (he didn't ask me out he said he's moving a little to fast)

Him falling for another girl is a high chance. You said he falls for someone easily [even though he's shallow & likes her just for her looks the first time he sees her] so the chances are fairly high.

Hi! So I just got a new comp and I wanted to know everyone's opinion of limewire or kazaa or share files with others...do they come with viruses? What are your experiences with that? Should I download it..and if so, which one?

I use Limewire & I love it. Sometimes the searches don't have anything good in them, but the searches are pretty broad & it's a good program.

what is the best chat website in the web world???

When I was a fetus, I used to use:

www.habbohotel.com

on scary kids scaring kids music myspace, they have their new song FACES
i cant find the lyrics for it.
and im like. yeah. confused.
is that the actual name of the song?

I checked four different lyric sites, and I couldn't find it. They probably have yet to release the lyrics for it, but just give it a while & then just keep checking.

Until then, learn as much of the song as you can.

OK so Im 5ft 8 and I weigh around 130 something...Am I fat? People call me fat and all I can do is cry about it. I eat a lot. I dont notice I eat that much but I do :(

No, you're not fat.

Punch them in the face.

my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and iam going to a special doctor called a nuerologist for your nerves and i was going to find out why i shake so much on Friday and what i want to know is how the nuerologist finds out what is wrong with you?

heres the story. beging of may i started talking to this boy on the phone at night for like hours [he'd call me] and then at the end of may he got a GF for about a week [which he would NEVER talk about or anything] and i was talking to him about his GF and I told him that I thought he liked me and his resonse was well I don't. And I told him why [which was because he'd call we talk all night and other little things] and he called again that night we've talked since. and he went out with that girl for a week. And then we had summer school together and when we passed we'd "avoid" eachother [because it was a gym class and we both looked horrible] and when we were in the same class for a day we kept like eyeballing eachother but never said anything. and my birthday was the other day but he didn't call or anything [but hes out of town] and I'm just so confused on if he likes me because everyone i've talked to says he does. so i've just decided i'm going to suck it up tell him I like him and just get it out because i can't deal with this crap anymore. but my problem is i have NO CLUE how to tell him. i'm worried if i just come out and say "i like you" he'd say something like "well duh were friends right" [because we have that tease eachoter call eachother losers and dorks and make fun of eachother relationship] so I have no clue how to tell him. Phone? IM? Text? ask who he likes and if not me don't tell. I'm so lost. someone pleaseeee give me some suggestions.

I told this kid I liked him through MySpace. I felt that either through MySpace or IM were best for me since they made me comfortable & I wasn't nervous.

Tell him in a way you're most comfortable doing so. If you tell him in person, even better. But be blunt about it & be open.

However, if he doesn't like you back, don't be discouraged. There's plenty of other guys out there for you to like. Let me know how things go. Good luck!

how do u have sex like im dating someone and they r getting serious and im getting scared and i dont want him to think im a freak so how do u have sex? and i really dont no how to makeout i guess im doing it wrong cause we made out once and hasnt sense like 2 years ago!
15/f

If you don't know how to make out, you're not ready to take your relationship to the next step. If your boyfriend however cannot accept this, you need to leave him.

Kissing comes naturally, so I don't understand why he won't kiss you again. However, having sex isn't complicated, but I'm not going to tell you how to do it simply because that can get me into trouble.

However, if you'd like to know, use google.

14/f

ive recently lost weight and my period has been gone since march. i am kind of worried but i hear that its not serious unless its over a certian period of time. the thing is that im worried it might affect my bone stregnth and future "egg" situation (pregnancy). i dont want to not be able to get pregnant because i missed my period for too long. i do't want to have frail bones because i have abstence of calcium. And the thing is that I used to drink 2% milk like water, now i drink skim milk maybe 2 times a day. should i drink more milk? should i buy calcium supplements? should i just stop freaking out and wait for my period?

When did you first get your period? If you've just gotten it for the first time, it's not always going to be on time. It can come late, it can come early, or it won't come at all. Just don't scare yourself, this is normal.

who one in the show Flavor of Love Charm School?
lol, i know, very random.

thanks

Saphyrii won.

Hey actually you answered one of my questions about that guy and him acting weird on msn. Well we talked it out, and we cleared up the fact that we are close friends, which is a good thing. So, thank you once again! Now, ive realised i like this other guy, whom ive known for about a year. I talk to him on msn and the other night, we were flirting like crazy. Just random things. He has a girlfriend but they hardly see eachother and they dont even act like they are dating! I want to take this to the next level with him, but i dont know how to say it. I dont know if he feels the same way about me. I dont know if what happened the other night was all just for fun. Ill give u a rough idea of what happend:

Me: Imagine if i did go on an over night trio with you guys....
Him: Yeah, you would lose your "V" that night as well :)

Yeah i know, pretty corny, but randomness like that was what was said. Hes away for 5 days, so i have time to figure it out.
Help would be GREATLY appreciated, thank you!

If you really like this new guy, tell him. I understand he has a girlfriend, but if they don't act like they're dating or if they hardly see each other, then there is no point in them going out.

Tell him how you feel & see what happens.

burnout..if some1s a burnout what does that mean?

If someone is a burnout, it means they dropped out of high school, or quit their job & now they're 30 & live with their mom's playing nothing but computer games & studying chemistry privately with a chem set from Wal*Mart.

im a 17 year old female and im dating this girl and i really liked her .. i have for a long time.. i asked her out twice but ashe turned me down.. now she asked me out na di said yes.. it has been two weeks sice we started dating but i hate talkin on the phone with her.. caus eit gets so boring you know.. but i love hanging with her and holding her im my arms.. why do i get bored on the phone?

Because just hearing their voice isn't enough. You've gotta see them too. If that's not the case, maybe you just weren't meant to talk on the phone.

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