so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!
Well if its your first date maybe like hold hands or something first.. dont rush into things so fast.. you wanna make sure he's comfortable too..so ask him one day if he'd like to kiss or something..much luv dez
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I recently had a boyfriend and i liked him alot and he said he liked me. then 18 days later he broke up with me. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship, but i have been hearing from friends that he thought i took up to much of his time or i was to controlling. he said it had nothin to do with me and still wants to be friends. i like him so much and want more than friendship what do i do?
Maybe ask him about that and see what he says..like see if he really thought you took up too much of his time or if you was controlling..much luv dez
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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female
um you shouldnt have sex with somebody jus cause your friend is thinkin about having sex.. dont follow people be a leader.. and sure in the hell dont follow in other people's foot steps..much luv dez i know i didnt answer your question jus sayin what i have to say
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do you know of any songs that have to do with smoking weed?
Well alot of rap songs do..but my lil brother listens to kottonmouth kings..much luv dez
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im 14/f, and i really need help. There is this boy that I can't get out of my mind. Whenever I think about him my heart beats faster, and I get butterflies in my stomach. When I'm around him I can't stop smiling and I get nervous. His voice sends shivers down my spine and when he gives me a hug my heart soars. When he so much as looks at me I melt inside. he's cute, funny, sensitive, kind, caring.. he's everything.
Two problems though...
1. he has a girlfriend and it tears me up when i think about them or see them together.
2. he's my best friend...
I've tried to get over him... i just can't. What do i do? Should I try and tell him how i feel? Could this be something that will end our friendship?
Thanks to anyone who can help
Well you should tell him how you feel..if he's your best friend you should be able to tell him.. best friends understand eachother..and i really doubt it would be the end of ya'll friendship cause you aint do nothin to him..he might feel the same way and then again he might feel awkward hearing that from you..much luv dez
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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!
Well you didnt jus ask one person this question but i would like to help anyways.. um well thats kinda sad that this has happened to you and to you at such a young age.. but theres nothing really you can do bout it.. it was a mistake everybody makes em in life weather we like it or not..it dosent feel good at all to feel used and i know that..but maybe tell your mom or somebody bout it maybe they can helpo you..much luv dez
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my boyfriend always tells me that he feels lonely at times. and i don't know exactly what to tell him. i mean i'll say your not lonely you have me and you always will but he still does. i love him to death and i would do anything to make him happy. what exactly can i do that won't make him feel that way??
thanks a bunch
maybe you dont spend enough time with him..maybe he's tryin to give you a hint or something with out being mean.. but ask him why he always says it when he knows he has you..much luv dez
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I really love my boyfriend, but hes scaring me. He keeps saying "it would be better if i was gone" & he keeps talking suicidal. Other times hes not though. I keep telling him to stop talking about it cuz its scaring me. He says "sorry I'll quit" but then he does it again. He says he wont kill himself cuz he cares too much about me & I was thinking, if we do ever break up, whats he gonna do then? Sometimes I think hes saying stuff for attention. I dont know what to do, I might not be able to do anything, but any advice would be appreciated.
Yes he's like starfing for attention for somereason..and i think he does care for you and everything but he wants your attention badly and maybe he's tryin to make it to where he knows he wont lose ya..much luv dez
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I have been pretty depressed. I dont know why. On the weekends I pretty much just go to work from 11-4, come home, watch tv, do homework, eat and maybe get online or talk on the phone and then do it again the next day. My parents dont like me going out too much. Then on weekdays I go to school from 7:55-2:15, stay after school sometimes till 4 or just go straight home. Or if I can I get outta school and stay after till 4 call my bf n hang out w him till 8. I just needa know whats going on, like why am I go DEPRESSED n how can I get over it?
Maybe go out more and not spend so much time at home.. maybe apend more time with your boyfriend or go out with friends..get into after school activities.. you should have a life even tho your parents dont like you going out..maybe get friends to come over your house and chill..much luv dez
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I was reading seventeen or teen people or cosmogirl...i forget which one. anyway, they talk about not doucheing and i was wondering what that is! Thanks in advance and I'll totally rate ya high if you help me!
it cleans your coochie..pussy..vagina what ever you call it.. much luv dez
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* 14 SINGLE Female *
- Everytime I talk to one of my friends boyfriends, they always talk about how much they love my friends. I'm single, and I always get pissed when they talk about them. Do you think it's just because I'm jealous?
sounds like your jealous to me and maybe you need to find a boyfriend so you can get the same love.,.and maybe not talk to them so you dont get jealous..much luv dez
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Ok well my sister tells me everthing. And this weekend she went snowboarding in frisco w/ her friends and boyfriend. And all her friends and her drink under age (she's only 17)and my mom always tells her not to drink or do sex. And our family friend who was only 17 died 2 years ago from achohol poisining. And I know there's going to be sex and drinks up in the mountains. Im just scared and I really want her 2 stop. Help. Wut shood i do?
Jus tell her how this makes you feel..you can talk to her also if she can come to you and talk to you bout things then you can to her too..much luv dez
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well i'm completely sick of being single! I want a real relationship with a guy who cares about me!!!!! but i cant find one... its depressing! I'm pretty attractive and guys like me.. but they dont want a relationship! I found this guy I REALLLLLYYYY like but he just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship so I talked to him and he doesnt want a gf right now... thats understandable.. but he does like me... except lately he's been retarded!! Like his Text messages to me arent inviting me to hang out with him or anyhing.. he's just being rude! I dont know what to do.
Well ask him why he's been acting like that towards you lately..ask him why he has changed towards ya..and maybe you should forget him if he's going to act like that..but much luv to ya..dez
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ok i like this guy and i asked him out but he was like i like u alot but i rather jus be friends. but then like a week l8er he asked 1 of my friends where i was cause he needed to talk to me and it was a good thing, but i had left school, so he coundnt talk to me. what was he gonna say, it killing me and i cant wait till tuesday.
*comfused*
Well i guess you'll have to wait til tuesday..maybe he was going to say he wants to be with you..but who knows only have to wait and see unless you know a way to get a hold of him..but much luv to ya and hope everything works out..dez
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I really like this guy...he knows now and i hate it! I like him a lot though! What do i do???
i dont get the question..this guy knows you like him..whats to hate bout it..much luv dez
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Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME!
Well let them meet at your house like let him have dinner with them or something.. or maybe your parents and his parents and you guys can get together and have dinner and discuse this.. well try to also think positive bout the whole thing which i know that will be hard.. and continue to go with him behind her back if she dont like him..cause probably most likely she isnt going to like him..cause thats how parents are and if you know your dad isnt going to like him the she probably goin to follow him cause they a couple and what not..Much luv dez
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Ok well..to start off I was raped 3 years ago..and Ive been over that nightmare for a while. But Ive had two bfs since then and never had the same problem I do now. With my current bf I had the dream about my raper and his boys raping me again..noe my bf wasnt in the dream..but it didnt start having the dream until i dated him..and I love him..trully. But everytime I hug him I picture that in my head...and I do trust him..bte Im 15 years old
Jus tell him bout this but dont tell him bout how you hug him and you see this guy that raped you cause that will probably most likely make him mad.. But tell him how you been thinkin bout this lately..and um also let him know you trust him and everything..and maybe you should talk to somebody bout it so you can get over this..much luv dez
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this one guy (my ex) got really annoying after we broke up and he broke up with me but he wont leave me alone. he is so annoying he tells me that he hates me all the time, he has even punched me many times and he doesnt get in trouble for it. my parents know that he is bothering me, but they dont know how much. there are so many problems in my life right now i just wanna cry some plz help me
Well get somebody to beat his ass..im havin like the same damn problem with my ex boyfriend but he is opposite he always tells me he loves me but he's beat the hell out of me twice and my older sister.. but my older brother beat his ass and my good freind bay did and also his own brother did..but it didnt help much cause he still do it..um try and press charges much luv dez
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Ok theres this girl in one of my classes named june (named change of course) but anyways shes always bragging about what she has saying that shes rich , and usually talks about how *awesome* her car is, and how its a brand new car but she doesnt like it. Anyways shes new this year and i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not? how do i know if shes just saying all this stuff to impress me, or just really doesnt like me? I mean she brags about how she knows so many people already yet, when i see her shes always around just the usual two people. So i dont know if she wants to make new friends or what? any help? Thanks so much
Well i dont know if she is trying to impress you she probably is..but maybe jus talk to her like as a friend dont be shy jus talk to her and stuff..but i would think her talkin bout that stuff all the time would get kinda annoying..much luv dez
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Hiya.
I fractured my ribs a little over a year ago (and on two other occasions before that) and, before they were properly healed, I was made to swim by my P.E. teacher. They still hurt occasionally - do you think it's connected to the swimming, or just to having had rib problems in the past? And what can I do about it? Should I see a doctor? Has anyone who has injured their ribs had these problems?
(The pain is just like a pulled muscle, if that helps)
Thanks!! xx
Well you probably did something when you was swimming..and yes you should see a doctor..cause maybe thats something your not suppose to do..so go see a doctor and see whats up with it..much luv dez
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