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umm a thing in my past is affecting me majorly now
Ok well..to start off I was raped 3 years ago..and Ive been over that nightmare for a while. But Ive had two bfs since then and never had the same problem I do now. With my current bf I had the dream about my raper and his boys raping me again..noe my bf wasnt in the dream..but it didnt start having the dream until i dated him..and I love him..trully. But everytime I hug him I picture that in my head...and I do trust him..bte Im 15 years old
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Just tell him about it. Tell him about what happened 3 years ago and you had a dream about it and your scared. Hope I helped!
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your just scared b/c you love him alot and you dont want him to hurt you just talk to him about it tell him what happeneded rte me
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Jus tell him bout this but dont tell him bout how you hug him and you see this guy that raped you cause that will probably most likely make him mad.. But tell him how you been thinkin bout this lately..and um also let him know you trust him and everything..and maybe you should talk to somebody bout it so you can get over this..much luv dez
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well it could be maybe he was one of ur rapers. . but thats only a possibilty. there are many of things for that. one could be he might know the person who did it to you, he could of been in on it, or maybe he has nothing to do with it but your scared to get close to him because of what happened. they have hotlines and websites you can go to and read on it. good luck sweetie ♥
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Well if you trust him then you shuld stay with him but all that what you are seeing means is your brain might think you arent ready for a relationship yet
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It could be PTSD, Post Tramatic Stress Disorder. Sometimes it takes a while to set it. Were you in anyway close to the boys who raped you? If so the way you feel now could trigger it. You really need to see a doctor if it keeps occuring. Have you talked to n e one who knows your situation abou this? They may be able to help you more. I am so sorry that all this happened to you. I hope it gets better!
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First of all I'm soo sorry you were raped! It can be really hard, and it's so emotionally distressing. I've had a few friends raped, and it's perfectly normal to dream about it and have a fear of it. It's hard to get close to a guy because in the back of your mind you can only think about being raped. If you really trust your boyfriend talk to him, tell him what happend to you. Also tell him how you feel and you and him should be able to get through it together. Also try getting counciling if you don't alreay, that always helps. A counciler can understand you and help you get over your fear. good luck, and remember communication is important in a relationship! best of wishes, misunderstood64
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well sometimes dreams dont mean anything but if you dont feel comftrable with him or something then you might wanna break up with him or just take the time to get to know him more and sry that you were raped! x0
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Aw, hey hun !
To start off, does your family know that you were raped? If they don't know you MUST tell them. I think what your feeling right now is a feeling of unsureness. Yet you trust your boyfriend, BUT your still cautious..I get what your saying. I really don't think the dreams started occuring because you are now because you guys are going out, I think you just randomly dreamed it. And now its bothering you once again. Talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling...he'll understand about how you are dreaming about your past all of a sudden...does he know you were raped? If he doesn't you don't have to tell him, but if you guys are really close it might be better for him to know :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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