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Ok i know this kinda sounds wierd but my friend allison has out of body experiences....like she goes to sleep and then like her soul will wander does any one have any thing they know about something like this? I am fifteen year old female and so is she....
She needs to work on centering her thoughts and needs into her physical body. It can be very dangerous for a person to loose track of themselves like that. Astral projection is a facinating thing, but there are risks that she needs to be made aware of. I don't have the answer for you, but you should check out some books on your local library to study and learn control. If she is doing this without trying or having a clue what she could be in for, she really should study on the subject. Of course she could also be having very vivid dreams or a reaction to drugs or quite a variety of things. Do some leg work to read about what you think may be going on, and keep an eye open for other signs that your friend is in distress. Luck!
what is a birthday suit?
Your skin is your birthday suit. It is all you were wearing when you were born.
which day/days of your cycle are you LEAST likely to get pregnant? which day/days of your cycle are you MOST likely to get pregnant, and how do you tell? be specific, dont just say "your period." and dont tell me not to have sex or use protection cause that's not what i asked. thanks!
I've said this once and I'll say it as many times as need be. Eggs follow a GENERAL cycle, but there is no way to accurately predict when one will NOT be present when having sex. There are monitors that can read the chemicals in your urine and temperature and estimate your personal cycle for the most LIKELY days you'll be fertile, but as for not being, there is no accurate method. At anytime in your cycle you may become pregnant. Only the fertility monitors can give you a good esimation of you personal cyclic variables. Everything you see and read and hear about is all based on average results from medical studies. If you really want to know the answer for you, ask your doctor.
Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?
Of course! The better you like someone's personality the more attractive they'll become to you physically. When I first met the man I eventually married, I thought he was an absolute freak! When we got close, I suddenly noticed what gorgeous eyes he had, and the nicest bitable butt I'd ever seen and ect... Anyway, if you are attracted to the personality the looks will grow on you. Yes they will! Luck and Love!
okay.. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for like two weeks now. and i just got my period. my boyfriend told my older sister that i'm not a virgin anymore. my sister has been telling on me for stupid shit lately. my mom walks into my room and she's like "you know you can get pregnant while on your period, right?" i was like "yeah" and she's like "you don't have sex right?" and im like "no i don't" and shes like "uh-huh" and walks out of my room. what do i do?! i'm scared to shit?!
Talk to your mom. She knows you're lying. You need her support to go to the gyno and to get birthcontrol pills and all kinds of things. Being honest with her can make your life simpler or more difficult. She may freak and try to keep you from your boyfriend, but it doesn't sound like she would to me. Be brave and tell her you want her advise and support. Good luck, girl!
Here's what's going on...
My boyfriend came over last night at around 2 and he was really drunk. He kept talking about how he had all this money, and he had this really nice lighter with him and he was really drunk. He told me that he took it from his best friend who had just gotten the money and lighter with his paycheck that he had gotten earlier. Well, my boyfriends friend keeps calling me looking for him, and I've been sworn to secrecy. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I really need help fast.
Your boyfriend if a thief. He has betrayed his friend and you. Do you realize that knowing he is guilty and not telling his friend when asked makes you an accessory after the fact? Depending on how much money your boyfriend stole you could be in real trouble if the two of them don't resolve this without the police. You need to talk to your boyfriend and explain what kind of situation he's placed you in. If he doesn't, you have a responsibility to yourself to tell his friend what you know. I'm sorry. I know this is a hard thing to deal with and it's so much easier to see what needs to be done from the outside when I don't have to deal with the emotion of the moment. I feel for you, but think about what I've said. You know it's right. Find the strength to do it. Good Luck! I'm praying for you.
i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!?
You should feel guilty. One it was your cousin, not good. Worse it was your cousin and you'd never met before? That's just plain slutty. You should at least know someone a while before letting them put their hands on you. Even if you'd talked on the phone or online for a time, you need to physically see someone for a time before even thinking of that kind of thing. This is so wrong on so many levels. It's good that you feel guilty. LEARN FROM IT!!!
ok im really confused about my sexuality (im a 15 year old girl).... i think i might be bisexual but i dont know. I've hooked up with a girl in the past but that was cuz we were drunk and i did it to kinda like impress these guys that we were with. and i do find girls attractive, but i dunno if i'd date a girl. I'd hook up with a girl again but it'd have to be under the same circumstances (not sober and to impress a guy)... does this mean im bi? Give me your thoughts on this.
No, you are not bi. You are young and confused and horney and curious. Don't worry too much about it. You'll be fine, and nothing you've said is suprising or unsual. Again, don't worry so much. One or two encounters with the same sex does not make you bi or gay, just normal.
Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please!
I'm only going to clarify something. The answer that says you pee from a hole in your clitoris is wrong. The clitoris is the little nub that feels good when you rub it, the urethra is a tiny hole between your vagina and clitoris where your urine is passed. Guys only have one hole, it is an either or kind of thing like breathing or drinking. When they have sex, the urinary tract is closed off so you aren't peed on when they ejaculate. Women are just more complicated.
Im a 16/f and my best friend iss a 18/m. Well, my best friend had a gf for 2-3 years and they were in love. he was madley in love with her and her back. Someting happened and now they broke up. that was 3 months ago. ONE month ago, my friend moved to Texas. He met this girl and they started dating, yesterday was theyre 1 month anniversary and they already had sex. I got mad at him because he met her a MONTH ago and already had SEX! I mean, I expected SO MUCH MORE from him. and He tells me its none of my buisiness, and yeah its not, but im his best friend also, and I just dont get it I tol dhim its rebound and he told me its not because he rebounded on me for a week . So he liked me for a week . and stopped. got a gf, and had sex with her. He tells me he has strong feelings for her and they applied to the same colleges So why the heck am I so pissed at him for having sex a MONTH into a relationship...? am i wrong for being pissed? and i cant figure out weather im jealous or not... i dont think i am. but just THINKING about him having sex with some girl he just met makes me upset. help :(
He moved to Texas and I live in AZ.
My dear, you are upset because you could not be there to approve his choice in girls. If he dated a girl 2-3 years and nothing, then what's up with this girl that she let him in? Is she a slut? Is she right for him? Will she hurt him? You are worried that he's falling too hard too fast and will be burned or end up in serious trouble. This is perfectly normal. Just know you can't force him to do or not do something he feels he's ready for. Different relationships progress at different speeds. Pray she's good to him and just be his friend. Good Luck!
i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing?
Yes, you made the right choice. If he doesn't see it as a good enough reason to break up with him, then it was probably the best choice you've ever made in your life. He is unrepentant and will not stop just for you. He's going to have to hit rock bottom before he realizes just how badly he's hurting himself. Stay strong and don't go back. Luck and Love!
I have been working for a company for about a year and a half. Last Christmas time I got a bonus of $20. This year, when I was really depending on that small bit of bonus, I got nothing.
The company recently sent a letter to all of it's employee's scolding us on leaving early. I was one of the people who had left early sometimes. I haven't done it since, but could that affect my Christmas bonus?
I know it isn't that the company can't afford it.
What I'm wondering is what the proper thing for me to do would be. Would it be uncalled for if I asked them about a bonus? I need to call them before Friday about working on Christmas, so should I just ask about my pay on Christmas weekend, and if there will be a bonus at the same time?
Should I just ignore it and decide that they decided to not give me a bonus this year, or treat it as a mistake on their part and ask them about it.
I'm just not sure if I would be out of line in some way if I ask them about a bonus.
Accounting practices have changed dramatically over the past year and a half. Taxes are taken out of gifts at 40% and all kinds of craziness. The company most probably decided that it was not cost effective to give everyone a bonus this year. Dispite what you think, no company wants to use its solvent cash for bonuses especially when the accounting to do so will cost more than the gifts. This is also the end of the fiscial year and they may want to bump their numbers. All kinds of things effect bonuses. My company gives gift certificates to their stores. Either way they get the money in goods or cash and it still shows them as generous. Ask another co-worker. There is nothing you can do about the situation anyway. Luck!
I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.
No, the digestive system and the reproductive system are not connected in anyway. You can still get several different STds and infections from oral with or without swallowing. Luck!
ok welll i am like in love with this kidd but he doesnt like me i do everything he says like wear whath he says but this one girl likes him and i was joking and said he is mine soo she gott madd at himm and hess mad at me when i was joking what do i doo!
I'm going to be straight with you, dear. You are a stalker in the making. Your obsession with this guy is not healthy or smart. Why in all that's holy would you degrade yourself by wearing what he tells you to wear? He got mad at you not for what you said and what made the other twit after him mad, but because he's tired of looking over his shoulder. Girls joke like, no he's mine, all the time. You however have made it clear that you have no shame in the things you'll do chasing after him. A comment like that from you will make the guy paranoid for a month. You need help, dear. Don't worry about making up with him, he may run screaming if he sees you coming. See a councilor about your self-esteem issues. (I know what I've said here will be a blow to whatever esteem you have left but it needs saying.) Don't take things so seriously and seek some help. Most girls go through an age like this, some just get caught at it. You have. Luck and Self-esteem, Dear!
Ok there is this guy we have been friends now for like 2 months well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but like now i dont want to be with him i have no interest he annooys the crap out of me and i think im falling for his best friend and he is obssesed with making out with me and im not like that but like i dont know what to tell him please help me!!!
You aren't his girlfriend after one date. Set him straight. Tell him that you went out and that was it. Going out does not mean he can now hang all over you and claim you as his. Going on a date or even two does not mean he has any right to expect you to let him hang all over you. He needs to get a grip on reality. There is no reason you shouldn't like his friend or go out if his friend asks. The guy has no hold on you and you need to take him down a notch. Flat tell him up front, "Hell, no I am not your girlfriend and stop touching me!" This is called a verbal slap in the face and this guy is long over due for one. Luck and Love!
i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps
If she is a prue bred dog you will have no trouble finding a good homme for her. Put an ad in your paper's classified section and specify to good fenced in home only. It is a good idea to put a money amount in the paper to make sure the people who come are serious. Discuss this with your mother. You will want to inspect the home you are sending your dog to as a condition of the sale. People can tell you anything. You need to see for yourself that your girl will be treated well. Good luck!
Ok so when I was six (i am 18 now) my mom died from Multiple sclerosis (MS), I never really knew her because she suffered alot of the years when I was young with MS and she could hardly communicate and move and do things, I have a few vivid memories of her but nothing really happy. (one memory was she asked me to get her something from the cupboard because she was in a wheel chair and to weak to do it and i couldnt hear her or understand and we both ended up being mad because of it) Well for my whole life I have never really had a motherly figure or knew how to be a girl like the other girls my age , like i try being really girly and do make up and such but i cant do it, my older sister was never really around much to help ... like i get upset all the time and I feel that I am never going to be a normal person because I was "abandoned" like... when I have children i will have NO idea what to do, like my boyfriends sister just had a kid and i was trying to change his diaper and a 12 year old but in and was like "this is to big of a job for you" . I am always upset over the fact that I have had no mother and am totally jealous of everyone who has had an easy life growing up with a mom. I guess i am asking what should i do to gte over this? And please no one respond with "get over it loser" blah blah... i dont want to hear it, i just want to know what someone else would do in this situation.
Darling, having a mother does not = easy life, or being confident you'll know what to do when you have a child. My mother started back to work and school when I was in 1st grade. Before that she was a stay at home mom, then suddenly nothing... And when she was home she was studying and tired and moody and I never knew if I would be slapped or cussed-out or hugged when she came home, or even when she walked into the next room. Here's the main point though, when a child is born every woman starts off at zero and learns from her own mistakes. You can take classes; you can mentor through Big Sisters; you can offer babysitting services. All of these things will help build your confidence around children. I am awesome with children. I have tons of patience and take the time to explain things to them and I Listen to what they are saying. I treat them all the same. They respond to me like magic, but in general I can't stand the little brats. I would never want one of my own. You at least have a desire for children and a need to be a good mother. Already you're ahead of me in the mothering business. And I had a mother and a big sister and a grandmother growing up. As for the diaper thing, 12 years olds suck and they have no tact. They probably just noticed you were uncomfortable with changing the baby and were being typical 12 year old know-it-all I'm so supierior cuz I've done this before and you haven't. (Have I mentioned I don't generally like kids? That 12 year old and their kind are why. Not all young ones are like that but enough are to jade me until I know them better. I take kids that age on a kid at a time basis.) Try not to fret too much about lacking your mother and the effect it will cause on your mothering skills. I have a feeling you'll do better than most by just being yourself. Big Hug, I'm sure you'll be great when the time comes!!!
I'm a 30 yr old male. My situation is a bit complicated. Several years ago I became very close to this girl. Problem was she was seeing someone else and her family expected her to remain with this person. Our relationship was never really defined, but we were close. Abruptly, things changed. She wouldn't see me or talk to me anymore. I suspect that someone may have mentioned me to her family,which caused a problem. We were supposed to talk about it but were not able to after that. Anyway, this was seveal years ago and I've always regretted not getting the chance to say goodbye or tell her what she meant to me. I would like to write a letter resolving these issues, but seeing as so much time has gone by, I don't want to come across as a nut or scare her off.
What kind of things should I write and what should I avoid writing? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
You're right this has been left for far too long. But, you do need closure to move past it. Most women can relate to that. Let her know you never understood exactly what happened between you and that you regret not being able to tell her goodbye like the friends you were. Let her know she was an important person in your life and that after all these years you still needed to let her know just to close this chapter of your life. Be honest, tell her you still care and that you wish her well, but that this was something you had to resolve to bring you peace of mind. Let her know you are trying to end what you had, not worm your way back into her life. But I would give her a means of contacting you, a phone number. Maybe she's ready to tell you what happened now. Good luck!
Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me!
Take her outside everytime she wakes up or has been playing for awhile and 20 min after she eats. Crate her at night (I would put the crate in the bed with me and take her out when she gets restless.) and when you put her down for naps. Praise her when she pees or poos outside, give her a treat. Make sure she knows HEY THIS IS THE RIGHT THING. I GET FOOD AND LOVE WHEN I DO THIS. Clean the spots where she has gone inside with lysol or vinegar and water. Limit her roam of the house. At her age she does not need to be allowed run of the house, period. She must ALWAYS be watched and try to notice the signs that she uses before she goes. This will help you know when to take her out. As she gets older she'll be able to hold it for longer periods of time. She'll learn some way to alert you that she needs to go outside. **A note on buying a crate - you want one that she can stand and turn around in easily, but not enough room where she can potty on one end and sleep on the other. The point of the crate is to give her a place to sleep, not a litter box. She will not want to lay in her own waste and will learn to hold herself much quicker. Plus this is the SAFEST way to transport your pet. You many need to buy another as she grows, but it will be well worth it. Between me and my family we currently have 8 dogs. Mine and my sister's 3 were crate trained and they were housetrained twice as fast as my parents' . Also when ever we say "Want to go Bye-Bye," they run in the crates and are ready to go. It will take time and be a lot of work, but this is part of being a loving and responcible pet owner. Have fun and Good Luck!
hi im 14/f/uk and all of a sudden my breasts and under my arms have started 2 itch. i dont no what it is and im really worrid.
can someone please help and if you have any advice that would be helpful
thanxz luv nicki xxxxxxx
It is very likely growing pains. Usually they will ache and feel just weird as hell off and on through your growing years. Look in the mirror and check for any kind of rash, but it sounds perfectly normal to me. Don't put any kind of cortazone itch cream on it regardless of rash or not. Just wash and keep the area dry, use a sensitive skin deororant something unscented. Luck and Love!