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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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I was great friends with this lad ages ago, but then he moved stage school so I don't get to see him a lot, only when hes in shows and my parents don't let me stay after to wait to see him. I also found his number the other day but you know people they change phones so I don't know if it is his number or not!
Please help!

Becky
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try it and see if it works. and just ask your parents if you could stay after to say hi. or go early and try and see him then

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i am geting annoyed from my friend i like him but he sometimes folows me copy's me and he doesn't care about anyone else but me and poeple are complaning and blaming it on me he ditched his old friends and became friends with me so poeple are blaming it on me!!!!




what should i do

tell him strait out how it is. tell him that he's annoying you. just be honest. but do it in private so it won't hurt as much

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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13.

everyone grows back differently. and it depends on how much you shave. but in a couple of days stubble reappears

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i am 13/f and i have a boyfriend even though i'm not really supposed to. anyways my little sister who is 10 found out and now she is threatning meand i don't know what to do.i don't want to break up with him. i tryied talking to her but that made it worse! what do i do?

she is just testing you. she will try and blackmail you. so what you have to do is find something that she wouldn't want anyone ever knowing about and tell her that if she tells then you will tell about her. it may seem childish or wrong but it works.

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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think?

yea but not taking it overboard. like not becomming a stalker or make it an obsession.

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Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out?

well comming from experience when it happened with my bf. i thought: wow i gave it to him. lol. but no not alot of girls would be freaked out by it

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13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how?

just talk to him. that's the only way you will truly be okay with it. and if he pressures you then think about all of the reasons you shouldn't
a. pregnancy
b. std's
c. rumors
d. etccccccc...

and think about your age. you are only 13

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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!

well first of all you should have had better judgement but it was a mistake and everyone makes mistakes. yes you should be honest with him. he will eventually find out and it will hurt more later. so i think you should tell him. and i think he will be angry but he will maybe understand

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Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings?

just think that yes you are good enough. and if you still aren't sure just talk to him. be honest with him

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ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys??

yea she could be pregnant. i think so at least. i hope she's ready for a baby. just be there for her and do whatever you can

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My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
Please help

i'm sorry that this is happening to you. well first of all having irregular periods could be a result of a thyroid problem. but it could be something else. now the other symptoms could be a form of depression or guilt..... etc.

well has anything happened lately that you feel guilty about?

but for the other symptoms i think that you should go to the doctor for it. i'm terrified of needles as well but you need to go.

i hope i helped but you could also do a net search on your symptoms and see what comes up. or just call your doctor.

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when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest?

around your gestational cycle. before your period

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Alright, so there's this guy in my class, that I really really like. I've liked him for a while now, but I've always been too afraid to say anything to him.
The other day in class, kids from other classes were passing around questionaires for data and whatnot. Well, one of them was about sexuality. My friend had told me that she figured he was gay, because, he's got great style, he's got a gentle voice, he's an amazing artist, (I know, I'm stereo typing), and he's just interesting and whatnot. So, I was watching him as he filled the survey out, because I was kinda curious. The first part of the survey was like this:
"What's your sexuality?"
a)Straight
b)Homosexual
c)Bisexual

If you answered a, then continue on to questions 2-10. If you answered b or c, then continue on to 11-16.

11 and 16 were on the back, and he filled it out on the back. I have no problem with him being gay, but it's just that I always seem to fall for gay boys, and it feels like I'll never find a cool, straight, guy.

I personally wouldn't want to date someone who's bisexual, not because I have anything against bisexuals (a couple of my close friends are) but it would be weird dating one, because it's bad enough thinking that a guys comparing you to other girls, but to other guys? That would just be uncomfortable.

Am I being stupid? Should I just forget about him? I really would just like being friends with him, but it's impossible to talk to him because he's so shy. Please help.

DON'T jump to conclusions he could have just been joking or something. but if you like him then go for it. and if you just want to be friends go for it. and don't worry at least you wouldn't be compared with horses.lol

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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do?

well for one you should have stopped him because you are way too young to do these things.

and for two did you think of the consequences?
a. std's
b. pregnancy
c. rummors
NEED I GO ON?

you need to talk to your mom(gaurdian). because she will eventually find out anyways. and it's better to hear it from you.

you also need to go talk to your little boi toy, and tell him how you feel. and be honest

sorry if i seem brutal but it's nothing compared to what is going to happpen to you.

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i am a 17/m and i really want to do something sweet for mine and my girlfriends anniversary. i already have a dinner planned out but i want it to be more sexual. I am not a virgin and i know she isnt either but i want to know things that girls like guys to do to them, even sex if thats what girls like. Thnx, i rate high

you can't go wrong with chocolate and sweets.

you could cook her dinner

take her to a nice resturant

buy her jewelery

do sexual stuff with her if she wants

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Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal?

depends on how old you are. if you are in your teens or early 20's then yea. don't worry!

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months. I love him so much but when ever he says I love you to me I dont belive it. He knows I dont. He kind of gets angry because I wont belive when he says it. Why wont I belive it? Is there something wrong with me?

either you are insecure or there is something your heart is trying to tell you. there might be something wrong with him that you can't see on the outside

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Whenever I masturbate, I dont understand how fingering yourself is pleasurable, I mean I do masturbate and orgasm, but its not from fingering myself, am I doing the whole fingering thing wrong? (16/f)

*Please dont delete, I really am having trouble with this..*

* i rate 5's*

well it's not the only means of pleasure. your not doin the fingerin thing wrong, it just doesn't get you off. nothin to worry about

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what is the meaning of life?

well you spin a dial and move a peice and win money. get married. have children. get a job then loose that job. so on and so forth.

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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added?

no it's not if it's straight. now if you add sugar and cream then it is.

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