Whenever I masturbate, I dont understand how fingering yourself is pleasurable, I mean I do masturbate and orgasm, but its not from fingering myself, am I doing the whole fingering thing wrong? (16/f)
*Please dont delete, I really am having trouble with this..*
thehottiesx3 answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:03 pm: uhhh... ya how do you hav a orgasm if u dont finger urself... not everyone has orgasims...i read it in a magizine you may never hav um .. but dont worry.. you can always fake themm...
alisonmarie answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:44 pm: Most females orgasm as a result of stimulating the clitoris rather than actual penetration. It's a common myth, particularly among young people, that fingering is the 'right' or 'only' way to masturbate.
But as you've happily found out, it isn't. You've discovered what works for you, and that's the most important thing.
There are no rights or wrongs of masturbation if you feel happy with your choice to masturbate, and it's a big bonus that you've managed to overcome the myth of fingering and find the reality of the clitoris. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday March 31 2005, 12:15 am: If it ain't broke don't fix it. Doesn't matter so long as it's pleasurable, what you do. Everyone is diffrent.:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
sparta answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 11:05 pm: hey,
Don't worry your not wierd. When i was your age (i am 24 now) i didn't like to do that either. It didn't feel good at all. Some young woman says it hurts, or they just can't "get off" like that. Its ok. Your body has a long way to go before it is ready to have and orgasm that way. Most woman have orgasms by rubbing around that area, and rubbing that little hood back and forth that covers your uretha.
There are several types of orgasms. One you might have heard of, its called a "g spot" orgasm. Don't expect to have this kind of orgasm. Most woman never have one. And the woman that do usually dont have one untilll they are in their 30's! There is a little ball way up inside you, this is supposedly the g spot.
Also you are young, a lot of woman at a young age have trouble having orgasms. So realy don't worry. You are perfectly normal! If you have any more questions just ask me! [ sparta's advice column | Ask sparta A Question ]
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