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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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hi.im 21 years old.studying in university.im having a hard time in my life.i want to love and to be loved.i never had a boyfriend before.guys have asked me to be their girl but i dont see the sincerity in them.in fact friendship with boys never lasted long.im just another girl for boys.no one ever treated me special.i always feel left out.but i always laugh and make jokes as if im the most happiest person on earth!give me advice what should i do?

aw thats sad. alright you ARE special. this just means that once you get a bf then it will be even more special. see sometimes the girl has to make the first move in the relationship. if no one is asking you then ask someone yourself. try to talk to people that youve never planed to meet before. they could really surprize you. start off as friends and then if you start to like them then say something like....so do you want to have dinner sometime, or maybe we could hang out later. trust me hun, life is too short to sit around and watch life go by, you should be living it. i hope i helped and if you need anything else then feel free to drop it in my inbox.
♥ leah

my boyfriend's best friend (we'll call him..bob) just told me he loves* me. but i love* my boyfriend. but i admit, ive had a tiny crush on bob . wat should i do?!
~thanx in advavnce~

*love as in lik a whole lot

if you love your bf then dont leave him for bob. i dont know this bob dude but he sounds like he's not a very good friend. who tells thier BEST FRIENDS gf that they love them. i mean really. well, forget about bob. if its just alittle crush then let it go. you love you bf and you'll reget it if you give him up for bob.

Ahh, okay I know this is weird but um..Every time I shave "down there", it seems like I still have some stubble or w/e..Does anyone have any tips or something because this is starting to bug me..And please dont say waxing, Ive tried it, it hurts lol..Ill give you a 5 if you give me a good idea!

you shouldnt shave "down there" just shave your bikini line. its just not right.

Kay well my boyfriend IMed me and said " if i recieved a nickel for every time i saw a girl as beautiful as u i would have 5 cents" & i odnt get it!! is it sweet?? im not stupid or anything haha.xOx thnk you !!

lol ya its sweet. it means that he has only seen one girl as pretty as you and thats you. i know its confusing but o well, its the thought that counts.

I was on the 7th and 8th grade basketball team for middle school and I got alot of playing time but I dont think Im that good. I dont thin i should tri-out for high School my school is really into basketball and i just want to have fun. I like basketball but i dont thin its my sport i think volleyball is. I dont kno if i should do both or just vollball? what should i do

go for both of them. what do you have to loose? its just games anyway. i hope you go for it. it could be fun.

ok i have natrual brown hair so i have brown eye brows but there thin and im dying my hair blonde((not blonde blonde )) well if anyone has ever seen Laguna Beach then my hair will be like LC's do u think it will look good?

ya i think it would look really cute. people have there eye brows a difrent color naturally so i dont even think people would notice. i think you should go for it.

ummmm ok theres this kid i like who i have known for ever but i never really talked to him but this summmer i started alot and i told him i like him and my friend asked him if he likes me and he said maybe but im not answering and then everytime i say bye or w/e i say i love you but then i say jk and he says bye what are some ways i can get him intersed or tell if he is or ways to tell him i really like him

try to make him laugh alot, laugh at his stupid jokes, say bye in a flirty way, smile alot, hang out with him more, and flirt with him. after that if he starts to get interested tell him you really like him and if you guys could hang out as more than friends sometime. i hope that gives some info.

14/f well once u stop getting discarge in ur underwear does that mean your going to get your period soon???

i rate high

actually its when you get discharge ALOT and then you start to see alittle pink in it. that is the sign that you will get your peiord. HOPE I HELPED.

i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!!

ok first of all im really sorry about what happend with your mom. that must be really hard for you. well, anyway, i think you shouldnt have to tell her if you dont want to. just wait untill she asks. i mean you can get pads anytime you want from you step sister anyway. so whats the rush in telling her right?

i am sooooo bored! any ideas for fun?

swimming, jogging, hang out with friends, plan a get together with all of you friends at the movies, or draw. or maybe get a scrap book going. thats always fun.

what does toning your butt mean? like does it mean getting a bigger butt?

it means to get it alittle bit smaller. get fit and make it look healthyier. i hope that answers it.

I have wavey shoulder length hair and for awhile now I've been using hair gel to keep my waves tight and frizz free. It's worked well for awhile but my hair is untouchable and crunchy. Does anyone have any other suggestions on types of products to use for my hair? I would like to maintain my tight waves and frizz free hair as best as possible. Thanks to all who answer.

I rate. :)

a hair straightener seems to work for me. i hope it works for you.

ok i need help ok. I like this guy for a very long time and we went out for like 7 months. We broke up and are still really good friends, but i still have feelings for him. I tried really hard to get over him but its to hard. I have a boyfriend now but i still really like my old one. I think i should get over my ex and move on but im not sure. What should i do?? If u have any ways that can help me get over him please tell me.

i agree, you should get over him. life is too short to just be sad about one thing for a really long time. just take one day....JUST ONE, and sulk. listen to break up songs and have a good cry. get that out of your sistem. now the next day if you think about him then keep yourself busy. play sports, see a movie, hang out with friends, or have a girls night out. sooner or later you will begin to realize that you can make it on your own. i hope you feel beter.
♥ leah

i hvae one of those huge whitehead pimples on my cheek, and is it easier to put make-up on it if i pop it, or if i let it stay big? and what can i do to make it go away faster? i don't need any products, just should i pop it or wash it or leave it alone?

its better to pop it and then put make up on it. make sure that you wash your face at the end of the day though because make up can block your pores and give you more zits. i hope i helped

OKAY WELL...THERES THiiS GUY HE HAS A G/F BUT HE SAYS BE LiiKES ME MORE WHAT SHOULD ii DO SHOULD i BELIEVE HIM OR NOT?. .

well, if he says he likes you more its usualy true. but if his gf is your friend then DONT go with him. loosing a friendship is not worth geting a guy. but if this chick isnt your friend then tell the guy you like that he needs to choose between you two. i hope i helped.

i really like my boyfriend a whole lot. i mean hes great. but alot of people think hes immature and i never really noticed it before but now i do. we're both 13 if that helps. now i know girls mature faster then guys but.iono what to do. i need some help.thx in advance :)

i might get some nasty feed back for saying this but here it is. does it really bother you that he is not mature...or does it bother you that your friends think he isnt? well, i dont know what it is but i really think you should give him some time to improve.

What are some good quiz sites? Please not quizella.

WILL RATE.

www.gurl.com
www.geocities.com/Dla_Drama_Queen/quizpage
great quizzes.

a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did?

well, maybe. you might want to try to wait just alittle while before you ask him out. after about a week then go for it.

Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

sigh.....i would find that really cute actually. it shows respect.

i realllly like this guy on my swimteam but hes 2 yrs older than me and in a diffrent grade. do i still have a chance with him or do guys only look 4 grls their age??

yes you have a chance with him. my parents are like......10 years apart and there together.

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