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Alright. This has been driving me insane since I heard this riddle. The scientific thing is that 80% of kindergarteners could figure it out when only 17% of Students in Universities could. The riddle is what smokes crack. I can't figure it out. It's driving me CRAZY! Can anyone help me figure it out?

oh i got that forward its like its greater than god and somthing else well my friends mom figured it out and it was "nothing" so put that in there and see if thats the answer.

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Here is the thing, I have been a dancer for this is my 11th year. Ive been dancing at the same studio all my life and ive grown to know and love the place and the people associated with it. But there was a fire a few months ago in a building in the same plaza. Now the ceiling of the studio needs to be taken off. Now my teacher is looking for a new place to go. She found something but it requires fixing up and whatnot. Bottom line: What are some good, ORIGINAL, fundraisers we could do? Not selling candy bars. xO ali (toxic x babii x3)

you could have a recital or showcase type thing. for the younger dancers, parents will pay anything to watch them. i read about this one girl who played soccer who had ppl give money to charity for every goal she scored in a game as a fundraiser so you could have a dance off or some kind of competion. you could make some hairbands, scrunchies or tshirts to sell as part of it. get a store that makes those kinds of things to donate or give you a good price on everything and then sell them for a big profit. im really sory bout the fire n i hope everything turns out ok.

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hey.. i have a VERRRY bad situation. My mom and dad are getting a divorce and i dont know what to do! Is it my fault? What can i do (if possible) to get them back together? i love my mom and my dad but when they yell and scream its hard for me to love either one of them.... plz plz plz help!! Everytime i think about it it makes me cry!!

aww i really dont know what i can do to help you but i will tell you it is NOT your fault no matter how bad the situation. you cant get them back together...let them take care of that. they chose what they think is best for them, adults ont always look at the emotional toll it takes on their kids. cry if you think it will help you, its ok! (hugs!)

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i am in seventh grade and i am a girl the thing is i would like these guys and if they like me we would go out fo about a week then i'd usually dump them because i met someone unner then the same thing would happen. i don't know what it is but after a week or two i find someone funner to be with and find the boyfrined i am with boring so i dump them and date those other guys. im not a slut im still a virign. i want a type of commitment. can anyone help me choose one guy and one guy only?

if the one your with doesnt satisfy you anymore, try doing something new with them. in a week, you dont get to know them very well so just stick with them for a lil while. try to rekindle what you felt before.

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Ohkay, so its a Saturday night, 6:45.. and I have absolutely nothing to do. What are some fun things that I can do all by myself? besides watch TV and go on the computer?

you didnt specify a gender so ill give you a bunch and you can pick the ones that suit you: paint your nails, give yourself a manicure, bake something (lemme know if you want a recipe) have a friend over, call someone and just talk, turn up the music and dance, workout, pick out outfits for the week, make a craft, go out and run, play a game with a sibling, practice an instrument, do you homework, start extra credit, write in a journal, make a powerpoint, learn something new that you want to learn more about, plan something for next week to avoid boredom in the future. hope this helps.

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Is there a website where you can upload your picture and like see what different hairstyles would look like on you?

www.stellure.com

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anyone know any good sites i can go to that's about like activities with your best friend, or friendship quizzes, things like that for someone and their best friend? thankz!

i think the american girl site has stuff like that but its targetting a 10 year old audience so try magazine sites and gUrl.com...they have all kinds of stuff to do.

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I hear in some rap songs all the time guys saying something about a girl but they call her a " Dime Piece or Dyme" what does that mean "dime piece?" Thanks a bunch!

thats from "let me love you" by Mario right? im pretty sure it means theyre "a perfect 10".

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mk i need a song for solo tryouts next year an im going to ask my friend if she wants to do a duet with me. I reall want to do a song from the broadway "Wicked" but i cant do my favorite song "Defying Gravity" because my friend is singing it this year. so i need a duet song maybe from "Wicked" or another good duet song. Me and my friend are both sapranos. thx a lot!! i rate obviously on how good the advise is. trying giving me a few choices plz. if i dont like your advice then you will not be getting a five. :)

i would go with "for good" from wicked...its a really pretty song. thats all i can think of for now but i will edit/add more if i can think of anymore.

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I'm a girl, freshman in highschool- my group of friends at school do all sorts of things almost every weekend- and I've never been invited once. I'm tired of wondering every Friday if thier making plans, and hoping I get invited. I'm sick of everytime it's one of their birthdays having to sneak around to find out wether or not their having a party, because I KNOW I'm not going to get invited.

Here's the thing, though- I go to a very small school, less than 50 students in my intire grade and so it's not like I can just ditch them and find new friends.

What can I do?

well i have a friend in my group that i guess isnt as adventurous as the rest and shes not always noticed so we kinda skipped her when we made plans. confide in one of your closest friends and tell her how you feel. if you want to be included, why not start making plans? just make sure you invite everyone to whatever your doing then they will really notice that you want to be with them more.

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Ok here it is. I am a 16 year old male. My best friend for the past 2 years has this really pretty sister. She is smart, funny, nice to talk to and everything i am looking for in a female. There is just one problem I am 16 and she is 21. Do you think that age is an issue? How should I go about asking if there could be anything between us wether it is now or later? What should i do?

i think you should save that for later. i honestly think its more of a crush than actual love cuz guys naturally like more experienced/mature girls. it might be an issue now, so as i said, save it for later. you can always hang out and stuff tho until your at least 18.

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okay..i figured out how to log in and get my own advice column. but how do i get it to show up in my profile for my friends on aim to see that i have the website? please help figure out how to put the website on my buddy info so that people can just click on it and go to the website to ask me questions.thanks a bunch!!!

well you go to your column page & copy the address. then you go to your profile then "insert link" paste where it says to put in "url" then insert text ...(i.e. advice, my advice column or ask me a question). then you click ok. ta da!

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I don't know why...but I hate my own race...I'm not black or white..But i just find my own race annoying and dorkish..I know that's mean but I don't know why I feel this way! Am I a racist?

no, your not racist, your just not comfortable in your own skin. that might be that you dont like some of your features or what ppl think of you or how you know ppl of your race act. i wouldnt make you opinion too public...that might cause some problems.

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My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me

nothing is wrong with you if you cant cry. sometimes it take a while to get it through b/c your not used to it. dont feel pressured to cry but if you feel like it, go ahead and let it all out. stay alive! your brother would have wanted you to. drugs and alcohol will not help you get through this. stay clean and keep your head up, things DO get better.

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(17, f)This summer I am going to babysit my ten-year-old cousin, because she doesn't want to go to the local daycare. She lives far away, not so far away that I can't do the job, but far away enough that I only usually see her twice a year. My problem is that I can't stop thinking of her as a little kid. That's just how it is my mind, for some reason. I want to treat her like she's more mature, but still somebody I am responsible for. How would I do that?

o0o0o0 just talk to her like you would a normal person! im friends with a guyfriends 10 year old sister and just try to relate to her interests and since youve been through the crushes that 10 year olds have then you help her out and kinda prevent her from making the mistakes you did. i would teach her a funny dance or something. i like the idea someone gave about giving her a makeover and doing a little fashion show! my babysitter let me try on like all her clothes and id walk around in them and i felt really mature haha. i wouldnt worry to much about being completely in charge cuz by 10 they should have a pretty good since of whats right and wrong but if you do see that shes doing something she shouldnt be doing, just set an example. "im 17 and i dont do that.." kinda things. just have fun on the job and keep her safe.

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Ok i was thinking of having casino night be the theme of my sweet 16 party but my dad doesnt like the idea because we cant gamble until we are 21..so it isnt "appropriate." What do you guys think? there wouldnt be gambling or anything at the party..just some really cool party decorations. (if your interested in looking at them check out party411.com) Maybe some card playing and a pool table would be at the party..but no gambling or anything..i just thought it would be a cool idea. What do you think?

if you really like it and you think your friends would enjoy it then by all means, do what you like within the rules. if your just playin cards i would give all the guests chips to start off with then at the end who ever has the most chips at the end gets all the glory... no money lol. have fun!

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I was bored and looking @ your advice page, and i saw the question about the ipods/mp3 players

can you tell me about yours, and the price, my bithday is coming up, and i havent a clue what kind of MP3 player i want.

thanks so much in advance!

-Kelsa-

haha well im glad my page is entertaining!as you probably already know i have a Dell DJ. its around $250 for 20 G and $200 for 4 G. i went with the 20 G b/c i can never delete anything. i personally like it alot better than the ipod b/c it scrolls instead of the round swivel thing and the sound is really good quality-wise. the back lights up blue. umm lets see, well i think its a little heavier than the ipod and it has like a metal time of cover instead of plastic. i strongly recommend it especially if you have bad luck with electronics like i do...all my cd players have somehow been broken...i dropped the dj and my dad called them to tell them it wasnt working and the sent me another one. convenient. thanks for askin!

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do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks.

i think its possible to be in love in 7th grade. it doesnt always last but it is at the time, the closest to love your ever been. he sounds really sweet..(sigh) how cute!

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i'm going to buy an mp3 player. nowadays everyone is going around with ipods...but i heard that with an ipod the sound gets weird because it's not a flash mp3 player or something...could someone tell me which to get?

well i got a dell dj and i love it. it holds the same or more songs than an ipod and the sound is really good.

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some of the girls in my school like gettin called a tease. and others dont i am so confused by this that i want to know if its a goodthing being called a tease and wat it exactly means


x0 thanx 4 da help

well its different at every school cuz its slang but i really dont think its a good thing either way..

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